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by tuckmanmommy
Mon Nov 02, 2009 6:03 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: New Financial Problem? HElp?
Replies: 1
Views: 605

New Financial Problem? HElp?

So my case took a good turn with the help of an amazing attorney. The problem with this is, I have to divorce my husband. And the cost of this along with court dates involving CPS, all the case work, and all other research involved with my case, has added up to a very high attorney bill, and while i...
by tuckmanmommy
Sun Sep 27, 2009 9:37 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: quick question plz help
Replies: 5
Views: 1281

well

the best advice i can give you is to contact an attorney asap and ask their advice, but until then if your not under threat of your child being taken away immediatley, tell the CPS worker that you have hired and attorney and they request that the CPS worker speak with them before talking to you. Its...
by tuckmanmommy
Mon Jul 13, 2009 10:45 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: If I were
Replies: 23
Views: 3506

..

no, but cps in Idaho wont do it until ICPC has been initated, and my gma is a clean freak, with every saftey measure down to the last outlet plug, with no criminal history what so ever, with a great job, and my gpa is retired. They have plenty of space for my son.
by tuckmanmommy
Mon Jul 13, 2009 8:53 pm
Forum: Have Faith and Be Strong
Topic: Im barely crawling
Replies: 0
Views: 505

Im barely crawling

I had my weekly visit with my son today. Its getting so hard thinking about the times I had with him. Im a stay at home mom/student and I spent my whole day with him, everyday. Im trying to keep my head high, but its hard when your barely crawling through this nightmare. Im at a loss and all I can h...
by tuckmanmommy
Mon Jul 13, 2009 8:23 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: If I were
Replies: 23
Views: 3506

so

Okay so if the ICPC is initated then the Judge is okay-ing my son going to a family member right? And it will go from here to idaho and back and then to a judge again? All in 30 days? Once the 30 days are up then what? Does the family member come down and get my son or what? Sorry I just want all my...
by tuckmanmommy
Fri Jul 10, 2009 6:47 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: If I were
Replies: 23
Views: 3506

Ok so,

I have court on the 21st. Can my lawyer request directly to the judge that my case worker initiate ICPC, because she failed to do so the first time I asked? And when she does that b/c my son is under the age of 2 it will have to be expedited in 30 days. after that he will be transported to idaho? Wh...
by tuckmanmommy
Thu Jul 09, 2009 8:38 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: If I were
Replies: 23
Views: 3506

Ok well

Well with the family member that is willing to take my son is on my side and would never keep him from me. She raised me and is like my mother. But I still have some of the same questions? Will the case go to Idaho if hes there, or stay in the state im in, and he'll have to come back down here to co...
by tuckmanmommy
Wed Jul 08, 2009 8:55 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: If I were
Replies: 23
Views: 3506

ok then,

ok, so after the ICPC order has gone through both here and Idaho, the judge has signed it and both states are aware of the situation, my son will go to my family in Idaho and stay there until its time to reunify correct? and when it comes time to do that will it have to be here or can it be in Idaho...
by tuckmanmommy
Wed Jul 08, 2009 7:05 pm
Forum: Suggestions
Topic: Suggestion
Replies: 0
Views: 1386

Suggestion

I have a suggestion- I think there should be a page for things that need to be done immediatley before/immediatley following the removal of children. There are many things I wish I would have known months ago, like how important it is to file a signed AFFIDAVITwith the court, not CPS. Things like th...
by tuckmanmommy
Wed Jul 08, 2009 6:48 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: If I were
Replies: 23
Views: 3506

Rubio

Ok well I will call my attorney tomorrow and make sure he talks to her. My child is 16 months old, and as far as I understood it, because of his age, it would be filed ASAP, but you know CPS so it was just brought to my attention monday that it hadnt even been put down on paper or anything.
by tuckmanmommy
Wed Jul 08, 2009 4:43 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: If I were
Replies: 23
Views: 3506

Rubio

Rubio- I didnt know I had to call ICPC to get the order innitiated. My case worker lied and said that they would put it through immediatley and that was April 27th, but it HAS not gotten done. When i write a letter to the judge what do i say? I talked to my lawyer about getting ICPC and getting a pe...
by tuckmanmommy
Wed Jul 08, 2009 12:21 pm
Forum: Happy Endings
Topic: How Long
Replies: 1
Views: 1780

How Long

About how long did it take for some of you to get children released back to you or attain custody again? I know every case is different but I would like some sort of time line. Sitting around in limbo is making my hair go gray.
by tuckmanmommy
Tue Jul 07, 2009 9:34 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: If I were
Replies: 23
Views: 3506

Dakota

Dakota- I dont know what state your from but the best place to start is to go to your governors official website, and contact the office, wether it be via email, fax, or phone call. They can give you the information on setting up an appointment with him/her. It may take a little while but if you can...
by tuckmanmommy
Mon Jul 06, 2009 8:13 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: If I were
Replies: 23
Views: 3506

Do

Rubio-
Do I need to get in touch with IC personally or does my attorney need to do it b/c at this point my investigator has lied about everything and nothings going the way it should?
by tuckmanmommy
Sun Jul 05, 2009 10:10 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: If I were
Replies: 23
Views: 3506

I

I have already requested that a ICPC order be started for my child, but the CPS worker has yet to do so, thats why im concerned with talking to the Governor about it. If my CPS worker would have done it when asked my child would already be home with my family.
by tuckmanmommy
Sun Jul 05, 2009 3:00 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: If I were
Replies: 23
Views: 3506

If I were

If I were to have my appointment with the governor, is there anyway I can request to have the case moved to my home state? I am not a resident of California, I am a resident of Idaho. I only live here b/c my husband is in the military. I have no support here, and with another baby coming, I can not ...
by tuckmanmommy
Sat Jun 27, 2009 9:24 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: HOLY CRAP
Replies: 3
Views: 968

Im

I do not plan for any reason to tell her, but my attorney will know first thing monday morning. I decided if I have to then I will go back to my home state, and have the baby there. It will be horrible to leave it their and not have that first months bond, but I will not risk a second child in this ...
by tuckmanmommy
Sat Jun 27, 2009 9:22 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: So
Replies: 3
Views: 865

I

I dont want to sue my other attorney, but I am frustrated that I PAID someone to help me, and all they've done is guide me. I havent set any expectations with him, b/c I thought that being a recomended attorney he would know that I want my child back. Thats it. I dont want a million dollars, or my C...
by tuckmanmommy
Sat Jun 27, 2009 9:19 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: do you think
Replies: 4
Views: 1058

I think

Im going to try for an appointment with both of them. I think that a meeting with them, being that they are parents of 4 children, hopefully that not only as political figures, but as loving parents they will have empathy for my situation. Who knows, maybe this will get them to see the horrible syst...
by tuckmanmommy
Sat Jun 27, 2009 4:15 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: So
Replies: 3
Views: 865

So

I have an interview with a new attorney on Monday. I feel that the attorney I have already retained is as bad as a public defender. He has basically been guiding me along my journey with CPS, and im tired of it. This new attorney is recommended in my area and he is supposed to be very aggresive. Wil...
by tuckmanmommy
Fri Jun 26, 2009 2:39 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: down and out
Replies: 4
Views: 1087

sooo

Can I ask what your situation is with CPS?
by tuckmanmommy
Fri Jun 26, 2009 1:35 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: down and out
Replies: 4
Views: 1087

down and out

Im at an all time low. Im so heartbroken I cant get out of bed. My CPS investigator is out to get me I can feel it. Their a heartless human being and I think their enjoying it. Its going to pretrial in july and i just dont think things are gonna go well.
by tuckmanmommy
Wed Jun 24, 2009 6:17 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: HOLY CRAP
Replies: 3
Views: 968

HOLY CRAP

So I just found out I might be pregnant with my husband. My husband is the "abuser" in my case with CPS. Will this affect my case? Im going to get a blood test tomorrow to find out for sure but im really freaked out (not that i wouldnt love another baby), that this will hurt the chances of getting m...
by tuckmanmommy
Wed Jun 24, 2009 5:01 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: do you think
Replies: 4
Views: 1058

ok then,

Would it be better if I set up an appointment with the governor directly, or their spouse? Their spouse is very supportive of military families? Going straight to someone could help possibly? I wish I could go to the president, but thats probably next to impossible.
by tuckmanmommy
Tue Jun 23, 2009 1:58 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: do you think
Replies: 4
Views: 1058

do you think

So I sent my case information to the Governors office. They directed it to State CPS, and said that they will investigate. Do you think that the state aspect as opposed to local will help or is it going to hurt me more? Im trying every resource I have but im at a loss. I couldnt bear losing my child...

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