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by Momof31995
Wed Nov 03, 2010 6:54 pm
Forum: Happy Endings
Topic: Finally our nightmare has a happy ending
Replies: 6
Views: 782

Re: Finally our nightmare has a happy ending

No my children have no signs of PTSD.Thank god for that.I think the fact that the last foster parents they had were actually good ones and advocated for us to get the kids back and did everything in their power to see it happen.
by Momof31995
Tue Sep 28, 2010 11:47 am
Forum: Happy Endings
Topic: Finally our nightmare has a happy ending
Replies: 6
Views: 782

Re: Finally our nightmare has a happy ending

Here we are 4 years later and not one problem with CPS.We have moved to another state and have totally different lives.My children are 15 12 and 9 now and happy healthy children and hardly a day goes by that i don't remember the hell we went thru and thank god for everyday I have them with me.Again ...
by Momof31995
Tue May 19, 2009 6:28 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: 2 1/2 years CPS free
Replies: 1
Views: 197

2 1/2 years CPS free

It has been 2.5 years since our case was closed and so far we have had absolutely no interaction with CPS.I count my blessings there but I still live in fear everyday.I peek out the curtains anytime someone knocks and wonder if it is CPS sitting down the street watching my house. We did move to a sm...
by Momof31995
Thu Jul 10, 2008 9:13 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Just some observations....
Replies: 14
Views: 973

Oh don't get me wrong we went through hell.It was supposed to be a temporary issue and we were put through the ringer I was a non offender but I could have ended up an offender..IE my house was messy but my kids were never abused or in any danger.CPS abused their power and tried to terminate my righ...
by Momof31995
Wed Jul 09, 2008 9:36 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Just some observations....
Replies: 14
Views: 973

OK I am in no way advocating CPS.I fought for 2 years to get my kids back after bogus claims but I do know I was headed down a bad path and would have eventually deserved to have them taken.CPS was my wake up call and now I have completely turned my life around and I knw my kids are safe and happy n...
by Momof31995
Wed Apr 23, 2008 3:44 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: What Can My Son Do?
Replies: 9
Views: 682

Does your state have an ombudsman? If so find the number and call to have the case investigated. We did this and within 6 months our children were returned to us. CPS strung us along for almost 2 years til I finally got fed up and called the ombudsman to have the case investigated. We complied until...
by Momof31995
Mon Apr 21, 2008 6:54 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Good or Bad? What say we?
Replies: 46
Views: 2103

To me its not a question of whether the children should be taken or not...Thats an obvious yes but the question is what is CPS going to do with 416 children now? Send them to long term foster care because in most cases to send them back to the mothers would mean putting them at risk once again.CPS n...
by Momof31995
Fri Apr 18, 2008 6:32 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: sadly, another new member here
Replies: 3
Views: 358

DO NOT trust any counselors associated with CPS.Any appointments made by them say only the minimum and nothing more they will twist everything you say so the less you say the less they can twist.Document everything. Every positive and negative thing done everytime your case worker screws up document...
by Momof31995
Mon Apr 07, 2008 7:00 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Husb. got custody
Replies: 6
Views: 599

For the Airconditioner can you post in your local free cycle maybe someone has one they aren't using they will give to you.
by Momof31995
Mon Mar 17, 2008 5:59 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Very Odd Behavior
Replies: 10
Views: 804

We signed up to the parenting class but it was a joke the teacher was new and had no idea how to run the class so we just pretty much had group discussionsand at the end of 10 weeks we both got certificates.
by Momof31995
Sat Mar 15, 2008 4:01 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I'm Impressed!
Replies: 6
Views: 577

After I called the ombudsman from our state and had them look into our case we were granted unsupervised visits and weekend visits and within 6 months our kids were home for good.
by Momof31995
Mon Jan 14, 2008 10:18 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: 1 year Later
Replies: 4
Views: 419

My husband has always been with us he was never made to leave. We got the Children Home in july 2006 but the case was not closed until Dec. Since then all has been good but kind of a readjustment for the kids.They too live with the fear of being taken again and I am sure they will for a very long ti...
by Momof31995
Fri Jan 11, 2008 7:31 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: 1 year Later
Replies: 4
Views: 419

1 year Later

It has been 1 year now since our case was closed and our children were completely free of CPS involvement.Since then we have sold our home and moved to a new town and new school district and strangely enough have had no problems.We have told no one from our "New Life" of our involvement with DCFS an...
by Momof31995
Thu Sep 20, 2007 8:19 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Fear
Replies: 9
Views: 555

Thanks for letting me know im not alone in this fear. I think i fear more for my grandchildren now that is if im allowed to have any...With the way things are going CPS will be deciding who will be allowed to even have children. As it is now our freedom of choice has been taken away and by the time ...
by Momof31995
Thu Sep 20, 2007 6:05 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Fear
Replies: 9
Views: 555

Fear

I sit here in fear that my youngest child, who left in a nasty mood this morning, will tell the school that i spanked her this morning..I did give her an open handed swat on the bottom for throwing a fit but as we all know kids who have been in the system know how to work it to "Get back at mom". Wh...
by Momof31995
Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:32 am
Forum: Announcements
Topic: A story on CP I came across--For Missouri
Replies: 2
Views: 299

Whoa...

They don't condone spnking as a discipline?!?!?! Since when is that for them to decide...do we still live in a free country? Are we not capable of making that type of decision on our own?
by Momof31995
Mon Apr 16, 2007 5:52 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: parental fitness evaluation
Replies: 14
Views: 802

We had to have a parental safety assessment done by a counselor and it involved testing and interviews and also a home visit and she also sat in on one of our visits with the kids....they are fishing for any little thing they can use against you...if you can try to find your own couselor to do this ...
by Momof31995
Fri Apr 13, 2007 10:47 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Trying to do the right thing gets you tormented by CPS
Replies: 2
Views: 314

They have no proof of abuse so they are relying on your ignorance. Educate yourself and learn your rights then they have no case.

Read everthing on these boards and use the knowledge to your advantage!
by Momof31995
Fri Mar 30, 2007 7:22 am
Forum: In the News
Topic: Jury awards mom $4.9 million by OC Department of Social Serv
Replies: 4
Views: 399

whenever i see something like this i feel like it is a small victory for everyone who has been abused and falsely accused by these godless animals who steal our children in disguise of government workers.
by Momof31995
Fri Mar 30, 2007 7:19 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Drugging Pschroptic Drugs on Kids as young as 2???
Replies: 2
Views: 276

I am not surprised, the state gets more money for kids on these drugs because they are now termed special needs kids. If they dont care about the childs needs when they jerk them from loving homes and throw them into the system then why should they care about what they are doing to the same kids whe...
by Momof31995
Fri Mar 30, 2007 7:01 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Are SW's allowed to be biased?
Replies: 8
Views: 627

their number should be documented on everything they sign if they are actually a liscensed social worker
by Momof31995
Thu Mar 01, 2007 6:01 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Case Plans
Replies: 19
Views: 1197

i meant to say unfair and unjust
by Momof31995
Thu Mar 01, 2007 6:01 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Case Plans
Replies: 19
Views: 1197

Everytime we completed our case plans cps would add a few more things that i felt were completely unnecessary like domestic violence classes where no domestic violence existed(never was scheduled so never attended) the psych eval was awful and never even taken into consideration. all in all our kids...
by Momof31995
Mon Feb 26, 2007 4:57 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Spanking....
Replies: 9
Views: 608

not sure what happened to the poll but i am so glad someone finally agrees with me. I realize the older a child gets the less effective spanking will be. I remember when i was a teenager i would rather have had a few swats than being grounded....the swats only hurt for a minute but grounding could r...

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