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by carlysmama
Tue Jul 01, 2014 2:20 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I Don't Even Know Where to Begin
Replies: 6
Views: 1438

Re: I Don't Even Know Where to Begin

I have another update. The caseworker called again today and told me she now needs to lay EYES on my children and see them in order to close her case. I told her the court ordered the case closed 4 months ago and I had gotten the paperwork in the mail stating it was closed. I was polite about this. ...
by carlysmama
Fri Jun 27, 2014 7:53 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I Don't Even Know Where to Begin
Replies: 6
Views: 1438

Re: I Don't Even Know Where to Begin

ok so thank you. basically you're saying that she shouldn't have called and she was phishing then? wow! That really irks me!
by carlysmama
Fri Jun 27, 2014 6:10 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I Don't Even Know Where to Begin
Replies: 6
Views: 1438

Re: I Don't Even Know Where to Begin

no the court case is actually closed. we've received documentation as such signed by the judge. Does this mean that family preservation can no longer visit us or have any contact wit us because they did call today and I was wondering why they said they hadn't closed out their side of the case?
by carlysmama
Fri Jun 27, 2014 2:33 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I Don't Even Know Where to Begin
Replies: 6
Views: 1438

I Don't Even Know Where to Begin

Our Court Case Has been closed for 4 months and the court ordered cps to close our case as well, which they apparently never did. My case worker calls today and tells me she's been out and wants an update so she can close it. Wants to see how the kids are doing. I honestly thought the case had been ...
by carlysmama
Wed May 08, 2013 1:27 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: My Ex Lawyer Screwed Up And Now My Name is on the Registry
Replies: 3
Views: 925

Re: My Ex Lawyer Screwed Up And Now My Name is on the Regist

thank you. from what my new lawyer is telling me by pleading "guilty" the neglect because I went along with the parent perseveration thing and took the deal cps was offering I basically gave up that right, though I had no idea at the time or I NEVER would have given that right up. This occ...
by carlysmama
Tue May 07, 2013 4:42 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: My Ex Lawyer Screwed Up And Now My Name is on the Registry
Replies: 3
Views: 925

My Ex Lawyer Screwed Up And Now My Name is on the Registry

The first lawyer I hired lied and claimed to know a lot about cps and apparently knew next to nothing. I was found guilty of child neglect when my then 18 month old walked on the stove and burned her feet, sustaining 2nd degree burns. We went to court and entered into a service agreement and family ...
by carlysmama
Sat Jan 05, 2013 2:44 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Case Plan
Replies: 2
Views: 687

Re: Case Plan

Thank you. I get what you're saying. And yes to basically kiss their a** too. I am currently cleaning out and reorganizing my house. I cannot comply with them to simply get rid of my cats or not breed them however. I think that is absurd. My lawyer said she would talk to their lawyer. I imagine that...
by carlysmama
Fri Jan 04, 2013 6:30 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Case Plan
Replies: 2
Views: 687

Case Plan

I explained that I was forced into signing that case plan/service agreement a couple of weeks ago with cps. I had NO idea how vague it really is and just what they DON'T tell you and all they leave out that I'm coming to find out now. How do I work with them and get through this without losing my ki...
by carlysmama
Fri Dec 21, 2012 5:17 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I was forced into signing their safety plan need help!!!
Replies: 6
Views: 1325

Re: I was forced into signing their safety plan need help!!!

My father paid for the lawyer. I stupidly thought she was cps prepared because that's what I was told but apparently not. I don't want a court appointed one. I've heard the horror stories. And the medicine is prescription. I've never taken illegal drugs, smoked or drank. At this point how do I even ...
by carlysmama
Fri Dec 21, 2012 2:00 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I was forced into signing their safety plan need help!!!
Replies: 6
Views: 1325

I was forced into signing their safety plan need help!!!

I don't know where else left to go. I've been debating posting here, asking for advice but there is so much going on I didn't even know how to begin. I had been on here earlier about how cps visited in August and said I was being accused of neglect because my then 18 month old climbed on the counter...
by carlysmama
Sun Dec 02, 2012 6:11 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Everyone is so right about cps
Replies: 10
Views: 1778

Re: Everyone is so right about cps

I mean how they can take their own sweet time when they have these deadlines to get things done by and nothing happens to them. Please do not think I am not counting my Blessings. I do realize how lucky I am, very much so that I have my baby. I just hate how these monsters are allowed to get away wi...
by carlysmama
Sat Dec 01, 2012 7:19 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Everyone is so right about cps
Replies: 10
Views: 1778

Re: Everyone is so right about cps

So basically the fact that its been like 100 days before they did something rather than 60 means nothing and they just get away with it and don't have to account for it? Of course I will never tell them anything again. I'm just worried now that I'm under the microscope.
by carlysmama
Sat Dec 01, 2012 5:15 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Everyone is so right about cps
Replies: 10
Views: 1778

Re: Everyone is so right about cps

Thank you. I do absolutely know this and I do plan to go along with them. I'm just so angry how they can twist things and put lies and half truths and its all bs. I've told them I have no problem doing what they're asking me to do with the parenting classes and therapy help. I'll do anything not to ...
by carlysmama
Sat Dec 01, 2012 1:23 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Everyone is so right about cps
Replies: 10
Views: 1778

Re: Everyone is so right about cps

Thank you. There is no pit in hell deep enough for these workers. They have taken over 100 days to get this thing wrapped. Cant they be held accountable or at fault for that? I mean they have 60 days to decide a case or close it and they never notified me or anything. Doesn't that mean they've screw...
by carlysmama
Fri Nov 30, 2012 6:39 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Everyone is so right about cps
Replies: 10
Views: 1778

Everyone is so right about cps

The horror stories I've read on here I only thought were just random horror stories and cps did that in extreme cases or more had to be going on. Sadly it's not. I've posted before. I've had cps called on me before and those calls were all ruled out. There were 3. This was 4. Back in aug my 18 mo ol...
by carlysmama
Tue Sep 04, 2012 4:26 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Dr turned me in
Replies: 1
Views: 588

Dr turned me in

I am on my 4th cps investigation now, this time from the ped for neglect because my baby burned herself on the stove top because I didn't grab her in enough time. She got bad second degree burns on the bottom of her left foot. I immediately took her into the ped. I got medical attention for her imme...
by carlysmama
Wed Jun 20, 2012 1:22 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: New Investigation Opening
Replies: 20
Views: 3170

Re: New Investigation Opening

Thank you I get what you're saying makes sense cps came to my door this morning I didn't answer I had just returned from dropping my kids at camp and saw the social worker an panicked she left her business card and I called she wants me to come in tomorrow at 10:30 with my babies so she can see they...
by carlysmama
Tue Jun 19, 2012 4:43 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: New Investigation Opening
Replies: 20
Views: 3170

Re: New Investigation Opening

They havent come yet but I'm so afraid I haven't even got a chance. That story in VA scares me. It's right next to me. I'm in MD. If you see my other thread, my frickin therapist, whom I now fired, called yesterday. She didn't HAVE to report. It was heresay what she heard. I don't even know what she...
by carlysmama
Mon Jun 18, 2012 2:57 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: So It Was My Therapist Who Called
Replies: 3
Views: 972

Re: So It Was My Therapist Who Called

oh no she seemed like she was happy to have called, almost like she was waiting for something like this to happen. She kept waving her cps flag over my head. I never shoudld've trusted her. My home is in order. My house is baby proofed and as ready as can be. But this will be my 2nd complaint. I'm s...
by carlysmama
Mon Jun 18, 2012 12:28 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: So It Was My Therapist Who Called
Replies: 3
Views: 972

So It Was My Therapist Who Called

Well now I think I'm royally screwed. Friday after all this happened I called this therapist I've been working with for advice and asked her if she thought the police would turn me into cps for the mistake that my kids got out. This woman is like right out of college. Not even a full fleged social w...
by carlysmama
Sun Jun 17, 2012 4:18 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: New Investigation Opening
Replies: 20
Views: 3170

Re: New Investigation Opening

thank you. i hope i amfortunate too but somehow i doubt it:( I just see them showing up. And why isn't a lock and dead bolt enough? My son cannot open these. I have to get lanlord permission for a chain install. I've already put child proof stuff around the rest of the house. My son went out an open...
by carlysmama
Sat Jun 16, 2012 3:01 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: New Investigation Opening
Replies: 20
Views: 3170

Re: New Investigation Opening

so basically what you're saying fo3 is that I have a real chance of cps coming and them taking my children being that this is now my possibly 2nd referral? The first was was closed unfounded. It wasn't even a real complaint. It was false allegations. They were never able to prove anything.
by carlysmama
Sat Jun 16, 2012 8:02 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: New Investigation Opening
Replies: 20
Views: 3170

Re: New Investigation Opening

Thank you all. I live in MD. I believe they have 72 hrs to respond here. And I understand what you're saying. regarding the police. They're covering themselves. I'm not blaming anyone but myself. It's my own fault. I know anything could've happened to them. We live near a main street. However I just...
by carlysmama
Fri Jun 15, 2012 5:22 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: New Investigation Opening
Replies: 20
Views: 3170

Re: New Investigation Opening

Unfortunately no I have no one to go stay with. What makes you think it's absolutely for sure that an investigation will be opened? Im pretty sure there will be but not absolutely. Why do you seem certain thanks.
by carlysmama
Fri Jun 15, 2012 5:00 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: New Investigation Opening
Replies: 20
Views: 3170

Re: New Investigation Opening

But my allegations are of child neglect because they re running around outside. Not a filty house or anything. I let them in last time and answered their questions and they interviewed my kids. I'm sure they'll expect the same this time. If I don't they may assume I'm guilty and take my kids then rig?

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