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by hearthurts
Tue Aug 14, 2012 1:29 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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Re: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother &

Quote ))When you discuss all of the horrible abuses that you witnessed the mother doing, the reader will get to a point where he/she thinks, "why the hell did he let her continue to do these horrible things to these kids? Why didn't he flee? Why didn't he have her arrested? Why didn't he call C...
by hearthurts
Mon Aug 13, 2012 7:26 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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Let your lawyer rearrange and/or prioritize it. It will be easy if you give it to her on a disk/thumb drive/e-mail. Just do your best to have full, complete, punctuated sentences to let her focus her time on arranging, not cleaning up little things. Good luck! Keep fighting! Ok, Eljay .. so I've mo...
by hearthurts
Mon Aug 13, 2012 5:30 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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So Eljay : On the DoF..I need to totally re-right this !! I believe from what your saying ...?.. yourkind of saying , maybe it should go n this order ??? 1) Abuses of the Mother , not just trivial stuf , but substantial things . correct ,.,. 2) My shotty represemtation of the court appointed attorne...
by hearthurts
Mon Aug 13, 2012 4:19 pm
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Thats what I was going to ask you Eljay , I do start my Obj. and correct S.W. out at the very 1st reports to the current ones , right . There's no rule here, but what you really need to stick to is what may have had a significant impact on the judge when making these decisions all along. If she sai...
by hearthurts
Sun Aug 12, 2012 11:42 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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It doesn't matter what order you put your DoF in, as long as you group things together (to help readers mentally group what you're covering). Thanks ,,, so I should state the shotty legal representation I went thru for 22-24 months ,, after I speak of my parenting skills and all the good stuff ,,, ...
by hearthurts
Sun Aug 12, 2012 3:47 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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...if you can get your documents "ON THE RECORD", you're good to go....and I like your idea of filing them yourself as backup. Man, you really did good...sorry I keep butting in, but you did a great job. I'm really good at Word, I can make their court form cover page to look pretty good l...
by hearthurts
Sun Aug 12, 2012 3:38 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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Okay, good... you have a reprieve! So, get those documents to your lawyer and SET UP AN APPOINTMENT WITH HER TO REVIEW THEM!!!! She will, I hope, have some good advice for how to phrase things to your best advantage. Remember that you are making the case that you never abused nor neglected your chi...
by hearthurts
Sat Aug 11, 2012 2:39 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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Soooooooooooooooo..... how did it go????? Well ,I walked in ready to put it all to work . appionted Atty standing thru the wooden doors w/ the rest lined up infront of the judge . whispered to her , could I ask a question . stated that I heard something about if the reports weren't to me at a certa...
by hearthurts
Fri Aug 10, 2012 6:42 am
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You're asking me to approve my own advice? ... okay, it's a GREAT plan!!!!! LOL You're up against some rotten people at CPS. I pray that the judge looks towards the future for what this will do to your boys. Hoping for the best for you and the boys!!!!! :) Thank you very much , Eljay for your Praye...
by hearthurts
Thu Aug 09, 2012 7:24 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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Yes , awsome .. So I talk to the new atty in the morning before the court and let her know that , I know the law about the 10 day Docs , correct . Then discuss with her , if she will stop the situation if I call her over and ask her to state to the Judge ( postponement ) correct . If before court s...
by hearthurts
Thu Aug 09, 2012 7:20 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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Re: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother &

Yes , awsome .. So I talk to the new atty in the morning before the court and let her know that , I know the law about the 10 day Docs , correct . Then discuss with her , if she will stop the situation if I call her over and ask her to state to the Judge ( postponement ) correct . If before court sh...
by hearthurts
Thu Aug 09, 2012 3:28 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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On this Eljay ::::: Would I be better off going on the stand , the new Atty has a pretty well scripted questionare for me to clear up quite a bit of impotant stuff,, Shes got copies from my Dr's saying good things , shes got the Mental Evail . I had done ( private ) . Now if like stated below , if I...
by hearthurts
Thu Aug 09, 2012 3:17 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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Stamped on the 6th, but hearing is the 10th... clearly, not 10 days. Absolutly , so do I piss off the new attorney ,, or do I go on the stand & after getting some of it out . when the Judge ask if I have a question ? I could hit her ( Judge ) with the Law on the court docs and that I need an ex...
by hearthurts
Thu Aug 09, 2012 1:45 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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Re: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother &

The report I just got ,., was stamped in the court on the 6th of Aug, .... is that going to work ?...


its stamped on the report on the 6th ,,, my post date is the 8th Aug ...
by hearthurts
Thu Aug 09, 2012 1:39 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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This new attorney , I swear , looks at me like shes almost never heard such things ,,, there still playing me ! The majority of people who get run through court for abuse/neglect are guilty, so they just shut up and do what they are told. The attorneys tell the to shut up and do what they are told....
by hearthurts
Thu Aug 09, 2012 1:12 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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Do you advise me to call, the cps & ask the office when they sent the report ? Not a good idea right ? You know they knew I had a 8am attorney meeting ,, so w/ out telling me , they sent a note today , saying that I had a scheduled appointment today ..lol.. I just had 2- back to back ..Thurdays ...
by hearthurts
Thu Aug 09, 2012 1:02 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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Print out the law that says it has to be filed 10 days prior to court AND take the envelope with the postmark on it that the report came in and when the judge asks if you have any questions, then ask. The question is, is there anything NEW in that report which you will rebut? Or is it covered in yo...
by hearthurts
Thu Aug 09, 2012 1:00 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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monkette31 I would be more than happy to let you help me with this .. Eljay said she didn't wamnt y , or didn't have the time .. I understand .. The spelling I could look up & correct , its the puncuation , the courts Format .... can you forma it for me monkette31....if I mail it to you ?..I wil...
by hearthurts
Thu Aug 09, 2012 12:53 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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So these laws are not going to help me , get the extension to preserve my rights to APPeal ... If I had the rights to appeal ... what corts would I be appealing too again ? I've just never done anything like this before ,, its very confusing ,,, I wish I had someone to help me ,,. They really have a...
by hearthurts
Thu Aug 09, 2012 12:46 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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Eljay I've got admit you are right about this ... even though as I had started taking direction from you , I was starting to have paid attorney meetings , that lingered enough .. I'll tell you half of it was , the Object. and Correct. SW , was so stressful and hard for me to pick that apart , I got ...
by hearthurts
Thu Aug 09, 2012 12:18 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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The DoF is done .. & some of the Objections and corrections ,, but thats the hard one ,, plus getting it in format ,.,. I thought util not to long ago , like 10 days ago that the paid atorney was going to take care of the Docs as he said he was . Wow ,. makes me wonder if maybe I shouldn't use h...
by hearthurts
Thu Aug 09, 2012 12:13 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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Ever since you started this, TWO MONTHS AGO, I've been advising that you get your story down in writing, telling you that you get help doing it because your writing skills are not court-suitable, and you are one day away from court and haven't done it. No, you can't expect your brand new court-appo...
by hearthurts
Thu Aug 09, 2012 10:01 am
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You need to talk to your attorney. When they say "all parties" will be given a copy of the report, you lawyer could/should be the one getting the copy. So, if it's in her mailbox, then you need to find out. Call and say you want that report ASAP so that you can prepare your response, and ...
by hearthurts
Sat Aug 04, 2012 11:01 am
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
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So I'm now needing to get another extention do to the fact I haven't gotten any reports w/ in a 10 day period to have time to be prepared in anyway . Or the attorney ? Thats the Law , correct . Then have this new appt, attorney ( to try to get her ) to file the DoF and the Object.and correct. of SW...

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