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by formybbg
Sat Apr 05, 2014 10:56 pm
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Topic: oklahoma
Replies: 22
Views: 2862

Re: oklahoma

I have considered doing that. When they first said they are going to take her I said to my husband maybe we should divorce, get her back with me, then move away and remarry down the road. That could be acceptable, just that I wanted to be here for support if the DA decided to press charges with the ...
by formybbg
Sat Apr 05, 2014 3:14 pm
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Topic: oklahoma
Replies: 22
Views: 2862

Re: oklahoma

But they had the court order, and police officers to take her. It can't be that simple. And if the case is closed, why are we meeting our new case worker Monday to start working on our service plan. Grandma doesn't want to do anything that would make dhs take baby out of her care, including unauthor...
by formybbg
Sat Apr 05, 2014 10:46 am
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Topic: oklahoma
Replies: 22
Views: 2862

Re: oklahoma

This is all so confusing and frustrating. So she's technically still ours, until what. Until they file their petition?
by formybbg
Fri Apr 04, 2014 9:01 pm
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Topic: oklahoma
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Views: 2862

Re: oklahoma

There is nothing on us in oklahoma judicial system, state, county or city courts we've checked ok court system docket records online and I called the county clerk. Lawyer said they have their own administrative court. County clerk said juvenile court is different and separate from them. If the state...
by formybbg
Fri Apr 04, 2014 5:32 pm
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Topic: oklahoma
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Views: 2862

Re: oklahoma

We have read all this. Don't quite know how to use it. We have seen the police report, and the photos the police took of my forming bruises. DHS used them to show reasonable suspicion in our showcause hearing. The police report states that the baby was in the room with us. That is incorrect, and the...
by formybbg
Thu Apr 03, 2014 5:21 pm
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Topic: oklahoma
Replies: 22
Views: 2862

Re: oklahoma

Well we got a letter today stating they have substantiated allegations of neglect on both of us. Neglect by exposure to domestic violence, failure to protect, and threat of harm, for both of us. And it included a form to mail back if we would like to appeal. Will see my lawyer in the morning.
by formybbg
Thu Apr 03, 2014 9:13 am
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Topic: oklahoma
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Views: 2862

Re: oklahoma

Ok. As far as i can gather, no petition has been filed yet. They are currently doing their investigation. Which means calling our friends and family to ask questions about us. I was told that at the hearing monday is where we will be served with the petition. And that is apparently the sole purpose ...
by formybbg
Wed Apr 02, 2014 4:45 pm
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Topic: oklahoma
Replies: 22
Views: 2862

Re: oklahoma

Hmm. As far as I know, my lawyer only has the pick up order. I guess I will try the court clerk tomorrow. I was reading on the other site you linked about not signing the service plan? They are setting us up a "team meeting" I guess to start discussing the service plan, that is going to be...
by formybbg
Wed Apr 02, 2014 5:26 am
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Topic: oklahoma
Replies: 22
Views: 2862

Re: oklahoma

They have her.. I don't know. She is in kinship placement through dhs, I thought that meant they have custody. The hearing said they had to show reasonable suspicion and she would remain in custody. I don't know. The only document I've seen is my lawyer gave me a copy of the pick up order right befo...
by formybbg
Tue Apr 01, 2014 10:19 pm
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Topic: oklahoma
Replies: 22
Views: 2862

Re: oklahoma

What petition? I'm not working on anything. I don't know what to do, that's why I'm here. I don't know what they are alleging except that there was dv in the home, which they proved in the first hearing, and is true, there was this single incident. This next hearing they said we just show up and its...
by formybbg
Mon Mar 31, 2014 6:32 am
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Topic: oklahoma
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Views: 2862

Re: oklahoma

Thank you. But it doesn't say there that a punishment for domestic violence is removal of child. I could understand the incident being grounds for an investigation. But to take the baby right away? And ten days after the incident. I believe any imminent danger had passed by that time.
by formybbg
Sun Mar 30, 2014 6:20 am
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Topic: oklahoma
Replies: 22
Views: 2862

oklahoma

Hello. I am new here, OK DHS has taken my baby girl, solely for the fact that there was a domestic violence incident in my home, between myself and husband. And I ended up calling the police. DHS showed up 10 days later to take my baby simply because she had been in the home. She was not harmed in a...

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