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by mojojojogrl
Thu Sep 07, 2006 2:07 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Documenting
Replies: 13
Views: 1174

if you dont get consent in nj

in NJ if you dont get consent....the judge can refuse to listen to the tape (happened to a friend of mine)....in my case I wanted to be safe than sorry
by mojojojogrl
Wed Sep 06, 2006 11:09 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Documenting
Replies: 13
Views: 1174

I taped them and took notes.....

in nj you have to get consent to tape..... she agreed thank goodness i did tape....remember they are forever losing paperwork while i was taping i also wrote the conversation done word for word some what.... with who ever was talking to me...and had them them read and sign...great advice i was given...
by mojojojogrl
Wed Sep 06, 2006 5:07 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: allegations were unfounded
Replies: 4
Views: 597

allegations were unfounded

edited :P
by mojojojogrl
Sat Jul 29, 2006 2:00 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: question here..moved away
Replies: 1
Views: 307

question here..moved away

i was told by case worker/investigator...(and not just me she told someone else i had call) that once i leave the state, the case is closed....now she is calling my family looking for me....and the funny thing she has my cell phone number....(reminder...... all allegations were proven false...I have...
by mojojojogrl
Tue Jun 20, 2006 2:17 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I gave in....... to CPS................
Replies: 14
Views: 1146

hey

they tried the same thing with me jolly....I went to there evaluation proved tests negative so they still wanted me to go to there outpatient thingy....I didnt sign anything, havent heard from them in 2 weeks......anyway they have nothing to make me go....they can only force you to go if there is a ...
by mojojojogrl
Wed Jun 14, 2006 10:02 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Our Nightmare
Replies: 57
Views: 4033

on my papers

on my papers they have both mine and my husbands name wayyyyy off lol....its a wonder how cps stays open since its run by a bunch of incompetent people
by mojojojogrl
Wed Jun 14, 2006 4:31 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: POLL: Education level and income level factors in CPS cases
Replies: 15
Views: 1069

Im lucky

im very lucky to have a friend who is a superior court judge and he was a big help... he was the first person I talked with....(had to ask questions not exactly about what happened but in a round about way just in case it would have to go in front of him)the one thing he said which struck me funny w...
by mojojojogrl
Wed Jun 14, 2006 4:18 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Documenting... Certified mail? Restricted delivery?
Replies: 5
Views: 553

yup your friend is right

yeah it sucks that you have to do this but its worth having all of your ducks in a row so to speak...yup the more paper work and organized you are the more they back down....with me it was them wanting me to sign a case plan that was full of lies such as home without substance abuse but right below ...
by mojojojogrl
Wed Jun 14, 2006 3:02 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Documenting... Certified mail? Restricted delivery?
Replies: 5
Views: 553

i document

Document EVERYTHING...... double copies of everything....have friends involved (had my friends call the case worker to verify everything that was said) record and write everything down....if the worker is there with you have her read what you wrote and agree to what you wrote down and have her sign ...
by mojojojogrl
Wed Jun 14, 2006 2:39 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: QUOTES BY OUR FORMER AND PRESENT GOV'T OFFICIALS ON R RIGHTS
Replies: 8
Views: 740

okay you cant use mine lol

but I thought it was a funny one.....

"It is time to set aside the old partisan bickering and finger-pointing and name-calling that comes from freeing parents to make different choices for their children." -George W. Bush
by mojojojogrl
Wed Jun 14, 2006 2:26 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: POLL: Education level and income level factors in CPS cases
Replies: 15
Views: 1069

well the poll thing didnt work for me lol

so I will answer you here.....I am upper middle class making approx. 250 + per year, own a home that is worth 600 +, we own 5 vehicles 2 are suvs....college grad....and yet dyfs came into my life over 3 false allegations.....I do feel that I get treated different after reading some of the posts on h...
by mojojojogrl
Wed Jun 14, 2006 2:08 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Is spanking abuse or discipline?
Replies: 29
Views: 1990

non spanker here also

I was never spanked as a child so I have never spanked my children....(they have been pinched once or twice though lol) I feel it is a familys choice on how to discipline thier children......but I will firmly state that I do not believe in hitting a child in the face. ... or striking them because yo...
by mojojojogrl
Wed Jun 14, 2006 1:48 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Case workers are people too.
Replies: 26
Views: 1857

i agree frustrated

my case worker at first was Im here to help.....then turned very cold and nasty....then when all the allegations turned out false...she got nice again because she wants to keep me in her clutches and really cant now.... these people know what they are getting into.....dyfs is on my a$$ because of wh...
by mojojojogrl
Wed Jun 14, 2006 1:37 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Very disgusted!!!
Replies: 10
Views: 954

its funny

like with me all allegations were proven false....but one of the allegations was drinking and doing drugs....im 43 and my party days are way over....but like someone said on another post when did it become illegal to have a beer or glass of wine in YOUR OWN home....oh and when i did the evaluation I...
by mojojojogrl
Wed Jun 07, 2006 9:46 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: i dont how many times ive started typing things here
Replies: 4
Views: 489

i dont how many times ive started typing things here

and never finished or just deleted....there are so many posts I want to answer but Im scared....I DO NOT HAVE A CLUE WHO CALLED DYFS ON ME....it would make it easier if i did....I had a police officer who stalked me for two years until I got a lawyer...did he call because i saw him two weeks pre pho...
by mojojojogrl
Wed Jun 07, 2006 7:22 am
Forum: Legal Documents
Topic: not sure if this could help anyone
Replies: 2
Views: 451

not sure if this could help anyone

the rescinding letter that was on this site is awesome but it didnt work with what I am dealing with so I rewrote the letter (hope no one minds if I did something wrong just remove this post....) and this one works more for my case and I figured I would share it..... CAUSE NUMBER:__________________ ...
by mojojojogrl
Mon Jun 05, 2006 4:19 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: I just thought of this
Replies: 8
Views: 757

omg

that is the stupidest thing i have ever heard! I have 3 tattoos...and 15 piercings thank god you cant see most of them lol...that is exactly one of the reasons I refused to go to counseling with there counselor.....I was told that haveing there counselor say that you need counseling with them is a c...
by mojojojogrl
Fri Jun 02, 2006 9:23 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Where should we move? Small town or back to the city?
Replies: 8
Views: 778

Ive lived in both

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- me I prefer the small town country setting.....no neighbors to interfer....most of the teachers at the school are local so they know kids growing up on farms get dirty....I never had any problems when i lived out in the...
by mojojojogrl
Fri Jun 02, 2006 9:13 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: New to all this and totally appalled
Replies: 7
Views: 725

I did see the photos

looking at them made me cry.....the little boy had a black eye and bruises all over his face and head.....you could also see the dramatic weightloss in his face.....so sad It broke my heart to see this mother write I dont want my baby to end up another dyfs statistic.....
by mojojojogrl
Fri Jun 02, 2006 2:29 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: New to all this and totally appalled
Replies: 7
Views: 725

I read your story

how sad and the photos omg they made me cry....I will be keeping your family in my prayers
by mojojojogrl
Thu Jun 01, 2006 10:56 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: okay i was thinking about this and it made me laugh
Replies: 9
Views: 808

okay i was thinking about this and it made me laugh

okay back when you were younger what normal things happened to you that now would cause cps to come into your parents life..... when i was about 8 I decided that I could pop a wheelie while jumping over a ramp...ended up with stitches and a sprained arm. I couldnt tell you how many times I fell down...
by mojojojogrl
Thu Jun 01, 2006 3:14 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: DCFS scare tactics
Replies: 20
Views: 1575

i sent you

a private message:) stay strong and enjoy your new grandson
by mojojojogrl
Thu Jun 01, 2006 2:47 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: DCFS scare tactics
Replies: 20
Views: 1575

temp guardianship

temp guardianship doesnt take the child from the mother, what it does do is, in case dyfs decides to remove the child from your daughter, the temp guardian will get the child instead of him going into foster care, in my case my temp guardian is my mother who lives in tennessee (im in NJ) and it can ...
by mojojojogrl
Thu Jun 01, 2006 1:48 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: DCFS scare tactics
Replies: 20
Views: 1575

yes

yes you can rescend on your signature, I am doing this myself. also know that there are some over the counter products that will produce positive drug use in your body, somewhere on this site is a long list of things that can do this, even food. maybe someone will post a link to it for you. The best...
by mojojojogrl
Wed May 31, 2006 5:57 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: well I found out
Replies: 6
Views: 790

a counselor

she is a counselor but she has worked to help parents fight cps, she refered me to a lawyer who isnt afraid to go up against dyfs....(which in NJ is hard to find) real quick on my case.....proved all three allegations false....but cps wants me to do counseling with who they chose...I found out they ...

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