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by finallyfree
Fri Dec 16, 2016 11:00 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: In court on false accusations kansas
Replies: 3
Views: 1974

Re: In court on false accusations kansas

Needing help dcf siezed my newborn son from wife said he under ppc because had baby at home then tested positive for weed at screening, also because i stated it was my write to take our child to another hospital. They made him state of ward were then doctors tested and prescribe pain killers freely...
by finallyfree
Fri Dec 16, 2016 10:48 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Situation in Oklahoma
Replies: 3
Views: 1947

Re: Situation in Oklahoma

First let me say that I am sorry you and your husband are going through this. I'm sure that the two of you have been devastated by this and are likely in a state of shock. However, now that your step son has been placed in protective custody, I would think that the first thing you would want to do i...
by finallyfree
Mon Oct 17, 2016 4:55 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Firefighter who helped save lives needs help now!
Replies: 96
Views: 17212

Re: Firefighter who helped save lives needs help now!

More good news (for her). Hopefully he will be successful as well in time. Sorry to hear about the financial strain. The important thing is that the family is back together. The rest will work itself out.
by finallyfree
Mon Oct 17, 2016 4:48 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: accused of molesting step daughter
Replies: 74
Views: 12798

Re: accused of molesting step daughter

That is great news. I can't wait to hear what it is but I know you have been through the ringer on this. Keeping my fingers crossed for you. Also, I am glad that you have kept fairly active here. So many folks post early on and then disappear. I think it is important to stay connected and let others...
by finallyfree
Mon Aug 08, 2016 9:24 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Firefighter who helped save lives needs help now!
Replies: 96
Views: 17212

Re: Firefighter who helped save lives needs help now!

glad to hear he is back with his kids as he should be.
by finallyfree
Mon Aug 08, 2016 9:15 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Hair test
Replies: 1
Views: 689

Re: Hair test

I am sorry you are having to go through this. It's awful having your son or daughter forcibly removed from your care. Keep your recovery first. Everything else will happen as it should. I can't promise you that if you do you will get your son back, but I can promise you that if you don't, you won't....
by finallyfree
Thu Jul 21, 2016 7:30 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Firefighter Request Help to Bring Special Needs Children Home
Replies: 2
Views: 770

Re: Firefighter Request Help to Bring Special Needs Children Home

First off, I would suggest changing your username to something that is not linked to your real identity. Caseworkers may be able to access this site and you do not want to provide them any information they can (and likely will if they have the chance) use against you. Request the website admin to de...
by finallyfree
Mon Jun 13, 2016 10:47 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: False allegations
Replies: 19
Views: 3526

Re: False allegations

chrome1985 wrote:Thank you very much.


haven't seen you post recently. I hope everything is going ok for you. Hopefully, we will hear from you soon, but until then, my prayers are with you.
by finallyfree
Mon Jun 13, 2016 10:35 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Firefighter who helped save lives needs help now!
Replies: 96
Views: 17212

Re: Firefighter who helped save lives needs help now!

Congratulations! The father should celebrate this victory. I know he just wants to see his kids and that will happen in time but CPS has no leg to stand on and will likely just go harass someone else now (unfortunately). The father should still stay vigilant and keep up the pressure but at least he ...
by finallyfree
Mon Jun 13, 2016 10:24 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son
Replies: 44
Views: 7316

Re: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son

I'm sorry that I don't stop in to the site as much as I used to, but I would like to give a quick update so that others can see that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. As of April my involvement with Family Court ended. It ended with little fanfare with the expiration of the TOP. However, th...
by finallyfree
Tue Mar 22, 2016 8:44 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son
Replies: 44
Views: 7316

Re: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son

Thank you Linda. Court yesterday was as expected. By the time I arrived (a minute or two after the scheduled time) my attorney was already walking out. I guess he and the other attorneys already had their little pow wow and that was that. The county did not file a new petition so the Order will just...
by finallyfree
Fri Mar 18, 2016 1:09 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son
Replies: 44
Views: 7316

Re: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son

This Monday is yet another court appearance. The TOP expires in mid April and this appearance is to allow the county to file a new petition if that is what they are planning. However, my attorney said that if that is indeed what they were planning on doing, then we would have heard of it by now. I a...
by finallyfree
Mon Feb 22, 2016 1:33 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: CPS CASE IN NC
Replies: 1
Views: 595

Re: CPS CASE IN NC

First let me say that I am very sorry that you are having to deal with this and that I pray for the return of your children to you as soon as possible. Second, I would also suggest that you stay connected to this and any other positive resource that you can get your hands on. What's done is done but...
by finallyfree
Mon Feb 22, 2016 11:18 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son
Replies: 44
Views: 7316

Re: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son

OK, I know not many (maybe only Linda) checks in on this but I am determined I am going to keep this up to date until it's over. Two weeks ago I received the good news from my attorney that the TOP (a.k.a. Stay away Order) has been modified yet again to accommodate unsupervised visits; once a week f...
by finallyfree
Wed Dec 23, 2015 6:27 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son
Replies: 44
Views: 7316

Re: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son

Thank you Linda, Posting here has been incredibly helpful as I look back on my first post and see how far I've come. Hopefully, someone else may see this and get some encouragement from it. I have read hundreds of posts here and try and respond to as many as possible even if just providing words of ...
by finallyfree
Thu Dec 17, 2015 9:59 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I need serious opinions on my open case please!
Replies: 2
Views: 796

Re: I need serious opinions on my open case please!

I can't comment on much of what you have/are going through as it is much different than what I have experienced. However, the first thing I did when my ordeal started was get an attorney. You didn't mention it, but I assume you are being represented by somebody. If so, you really want to make sure t...
by finallyfree
Thu Dec 17, 2015 9:45 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Cps visit
Replies: 7
Views: 1607

Re: Cps visit

I would call them and find out as much as possible as to what it is about. I'd also suggest meeting at their office as opposed to your home. Again, why is it they want to see home? Are you the subject of an investigation? If so, you are required to be notified in writing. Have you been notified in w...
by finallyfree
Thu Dec 17, 2015 8:48 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son
Replies: 44
Views: 7316

Re: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son

Thank you Linda. Posting here has been very therapeutic for me and I hope that I can be of help to someone else in need. Last week I was granted ability to call my son on Christmas. As a matter of fact, I will be allowed to call him every week, Friday at specified time. I can also send him a Christm...
by finallyfree
Mon Nov 23, 2015 1:36 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son
Replies: 44
Views: 7316

Re: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son

Last week finally received the Order from Family Court for the supervised visitation. Boy, they were sure in a hurry when they issued the TOP. Had it in my hand before I left the courthouse. This Order took nearly 2 months. Probably took all of 5 seconds to sign. Anyway, just checked with my casewor...
by finallyfree
Mon Nov 16, 2015 6:31 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Hospital visit turns into CPS/Police investigation
Replies: 28
Views: 4849

Re: Hospital visit turns into CPS/Police investigation

I am very sorry to hear what you are going through. I'm sure your devastated. My experience didn't have a criminal side to it so I can't provide much in the way of guidance there but my understanding is that when a situation contains both (criminal and Family Court) you should focus on the criminal....
by finallyfree
Thu Oct 29, 2015 7:51 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son
Replies: 44
Views: 7316

Re: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son

Yeah, thanks trina. Today is my third scheduled supervised visitation. My son's mom cancelled and rescheduled for tomorrow. Pretty bummed but at least I get to see him tomorrow (unless they cancel again). Also received a call from my attorney. CW called him complaining that I took elevator down with...
by finallyfree
Fri Oct 23, 2015 6:34 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: case plans
Replies: 9
Views: 2088

Re: case plans

Just sharing my experience so please take it for what it's worth. I had been seeing a therapist on my own well before the allegation was made to deal with my own struggles in my marriage. I was not nor have I ever been on psych meds (never been recommended by my therapist). When Psych Eval was perfo...
by finallyfree
Thu Oct 22, 2015 7:28 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son
Replies: 44
Views: 7316

Re: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son

by court order, I am granted at minimum, once a week for an hour. Last week went really well. As his mom had already communicated with me earlier in the day that she and my son would be arriving a half hour earlier than the appointed time, I also went early. As soon as I walked in to waiting room to...
by finallyfree
Wed Oct 21, 2015 1:14 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Hospital visit turns into CPS/Police investigation
Replies: 28
Views: 4849

Re: Hospital visit turns into CPS/Police investigation

It's not hopeless. Even if worst comes to worst, you can appeal. Take a deep breath and try to stay in the here and now. You can't do anything about the past and have no idea what is in the future. Rally all of your resources and try to remain calm as best you can. I'm not trying to tell you what to...
by finallyfree
Thu Oct 15, 2015 10:36 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son
Replies: 44
Views: 7316

Re: soon to be ex accused me of harming my son

If you define a month as 30 days, then it will have been 19 months and 5 days since I've seen my son in person. At the time, CPS had been under investigation by the state due to three child deaths as a result of mishandling by case worker. As this is an election year for county exec, this issue is r...

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