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by debbiescalese
Mon Sep 07, 2009 7:35 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Reunification services/ Psych Eval....help!
Replies: 4
Views: 421

Are you also aware that the doctor or what ever that person was can have a complaint lodged against them with the psych board? I did it. You simply google the psych board for you state look up the person check to see if any complaints have been made then down load the complaint form and fill it out ...
by debbiescalese
Sun Sep 06, 2009 5:50 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Reunification services/ Psych Eval....help!
Replies: 4
Views: 421

My daughter had a psych eval done by a cps recommened evaluator. It came back and the place that did her therapy/meds said it was so far off base that they needed to do another one just to develop a treatment plan because the records they had and the ones this woman were reporting were like she got ...
by debbiescalese
Sun Jul 19, 2009 8:57 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Whats wrong with these people?!!
Replies: 6
Views: 428

I will tell you in my state going through the ombusman's office is probably the best way to go. They cleaned out a whole county down in the lower part of the state and fired a bunch of crappy sw. I strongly suggest that to anybody.
by debbiescalese
Sun Jul 19, 2009 5:22 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Whats wrong with these people?!!
Replies: 6
Views: 428

Get a lawyer and file for custody. He probably said what he said because he was attempting to intimadate you. That is what they do best. You also probably don't have that comment on tape so you can't prove that is what was said. His ass is covered.
by debbiescalese
Thu Jul 09, 2009 4:50 am
Forum: Happy Endings
Topic: How Long
Replies: 1
Views: 415

My kids were not removed but it took 2 1/2 years to get them off our backs. We did go through court and the state had legal custody we just had physical.
by debbiescalese
Mon Jul 06, 2009 2:57 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: CPS took my kids illeagally and have been found to be liers.
Replies: 3
Views: 423

pm me and let me know what county your dealing with. I might be able to help you out as far as who to talk to.
by debbiescalese
Sat May 16, 2009 6:17 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: crazy cps worker
Replies: 5
Views: 526

how about trying to find a lawyer to take a slander case on the worker. Social workers have immunity up to a point. this worker crossed that line when he blurted out personal information in front of your neighbors and landlord. If they will testify and you have a police report it should be an easy w...
by debbiescalese
Tue Mar 24, 2009 12:10 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Very Confused-I admit I lost it-Please don't judge me
Replies: 8
Views: 664

Yes you can get a copy look around because somewhere on the site is a link. I just can't remember where it is right off hand. Do you have a relative who is able to care for the child somebody close like your parents or an aunt? If you do a relative placement is best. They are suppose to place the ch...
by debbiescalese
Tue Mar 10, 2009 9:51 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Social worker fired
Replies: 2
Views: 353

If she is a socail worker you can go to the state social worker board for CA and look up her name and see if there are any complaints. other wise an employer will not tell you why somebody was fired. The very very first sw that came to my house was "transfured" the second sw told me why but she wasn...
by debbiescalese
Mon Mar 02, 2009 7:23 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: What's WRONG with this advice from a qualified lawyer?
Replies: 3
Views: 405

Re: What's WRONG with this advice from a qualified lawyer?

http://www.lawtolife.com/CM/Features/CPSCASE.asp#15 No Time to Lose: The CPS Case 1. A CPS worker has called me and wants to meet with me to talk about my children. What do I do? You need to cooperate.(VIOLATION OF THE FOURTH AMENDMENT) If you don't cooperate, CPS will infer that you are attempting...
by debbiescalese
Sun Mar 01, 2009 10:49 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Sharing Something Important To Be Aware of
Replies: 2
Views: 350

Let me tell you why this happens. Because some woman who DO have Boarderline PD and are nuts DO claim sexual abuse just simply to gain custody. Some woman DO claim sexual abuse when there isn't any and use cps and the court system to cause problems for the ex and interfere with parenting plans. It h...
by debbiescalese
Sun Feb 15, 2009 8:33 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Sometimes you just have to shake your head and laugh!
Replies: 1
Views: 256

Sometimes you just have to shake your head and laugh!

Our case has been closed since June. Since I live in a small town with only one grocery store you tend to run into everybody. In our case it means the cps workers and contract agents as well. DH works at the grocery store and has for years he is the manager at the meat shop section. Frequently 2 of ...
by debbiescalese
Sun Feb 08, 2009 5:40 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Please, Please, Help! CPS called on me !!!!!
Replies: 17
Views: 1345

Here is the thing if you say no I don't want services for the sensory issues she is going to write that down as "refused services" doesn't matter that they were volentary or not (this happened to us) ask her for the name of the place she is suggesting so you can look into it and make an informed dec...
by debbiescalese
Fri Feb 06, 2009 9:37 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Please, Please, Help! CPS called on me !!!!!
Replies: 17
Views: 1345

I let them in. One time they claimed I had no food in the house and they saw for themselves it was there. They saw where the kids slept and all that stuff yes they nit picked some really stupid stuff like I had just gotten out of the shower a little time before that and I had not yet put the rasor u...
by debbiescalese
Wed Feb 04, 2009 6:51 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Please, Please, Help! CPS called on me !!!!!
Replies: 17
Views: 1345

What you should expect is they will walk through your house and nit pick everything, they will ask you personal questions that have nothing to do with anything (I was actually asked how many sexual partners I had) They will tell you why they are there and what you did wrong which half the time is ne...
by debbiescalese
Sun Feb 01, 2009 2:41 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: physical custody and psych eval.. etc
Replies: 8
Views: 577

They did paper work they just didn't do it in front of you. The judge has to approve everything they do so they probably set it up before the meeting, got the judge to approve, and told you what was going to happen. See they can't just remove a child with out the judges approval and they can't just ...
by debbiescalese
Sun Feb 01, 2009 7:40 am
Forum: In the News
Topic: Chicago:Parents sue DCFS over removal of toddler from family
Replies: 3
Views: 364

They should sue the pedi as well. A bump on the head of a toddler learning to walk is not abuse it's fairly common. I'd go so far as to say a toddler who never gets a bump on the head during that period that would indicate something is wrong. The dr should have known that wasn't abuse. His name shou...
by debbiescalese
Sun Feb 01, 2009 7:29 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Finnegan Case-Indiana
Replies: 47
Views: 2719

okay now i'm scratching my head your suppose to know of a warning before it comes out? Parents are now expected to have a crystal ball, or be psychic? I really love that one. Your experience should be a lifetime movie to warn others.
by debbiescalese
Fri Jan 30, 2009 5:54 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: physical custody and psych eval.. etc
Replies: 8
Views: 577

the simple way to explain things is when the state removed your daughter they have legal custody. That just means if they make a dr appt or serivce appt you have to show up and they get to decide where your daughter lives but everything they do must be court approved. They can't just say your daught...
by debbiescalese
Thu Jan 29, 2009 1:14 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Presenting Yourself Well In Court
Replies: 6
Views: 474

I had 3 suits I wore to court 1 was a black dress suit with pin stripes very professional looking. I wore black heals that were about 2 inches. I also had very little make up on and it was neutral in color. The second was a black pants suit with a light pink striped dress shirt I wore boots under th...
by debbiescalese
Tue Jan 27, 2009 4:58 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: How Do You Move Past the Paranoia?
Replies: 15
Views: 951

I think plainly put this is what happens when families are put through this crap. It's like PTSD, it is PTSD. It's even worse when your falsely accused. I had a worker from a contract agency say to me one time" it took you 2 years to get through this case it will take you at least that long to get p...
by debbiescalese
Wed Jan 21, 2009 4:28 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Newcomer from Texas
Replies: 8
Views: 701

Just to let you know my sd from my first marriage got into a fight with her boyfriend. Basically they played tug of war with the infant who was 4 mos old at the time. The child had bruised ribs and a spiral fracture of the leg. The child was back home right around her first birthday. She just follow...
by debbiescalese
Tue Jan 20, 2009 9:06 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Can you prosecute, if you have reasonable suspicion?
Replies: 5
Views: 360

forgot to add if you have proof of him threating you take that to the cops don't sit on it. Do it like yesterday and get a restraining order against him ... then if he calls cps on you you can show them the ro. If that matches with the name they have who called in the report they may come out but th...
by debbiescalese
Tue Jan 20, 2009 9:02 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Can you prosecute, if you have reasonable suspicion?
Replies: 5
Views: 360

are the kids with the girlfriend? If they are than where she is living is the primary residence. I would get in contact with the ex girlfriend if I were you and offer to help her out in family court with custody issues like testifying about what you saw. Otherwise cps isn't going to get involved unl...
by debbiescalese
Tue Jan 20, 2009 1:06 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Can you prosecute, if you have reasonable suspicion?
Replies: 5
Views: 360

"The trailer he was renting to own from us is a PIT."
That could come back on you if there are things wrong with it that you as landlord should have fixed. Also if he is moving out the condition of the place he lived isn't an issue the issue would be with where he is living now.

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