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by salman501
Mon Nov 17, 2008 10:02 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: How do I reunite with my family?
Replies: 13
Views: 1028

Greegor, You are right, they are keeping me away from home on basis of suspicion. Our parental rights are not terminated. My son is back with my wife, and I am in the process of reunification. I am now on 1 hr unsupervised visits and 2 hr supervised visits per week. My lawyer advised me to move out,...
by salman501
Tue Nov 11, 2008 2:30 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Criteria involved in criminal charges being pressed by DA
Replies: 4
Views: 400

Police referred the case to the DA in early September. To this date the case is sitting with Family Protection Unit and hasn't been assigned. I have asked my lawyer to talk to DA to see if we can get the charges dropped before they even file them. In the juvenile court case, we had a settlement and ...
by salman501
Sat Nov 08, 2008 7:03 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Criteria involved in criminal charges being pressed by DA
Replies: 4
Views: 400

Criteria involved in criminal charges being pressed by DA

My child injured his arm in July. Since then we got involved with CPS, went to juvenile court, had a settlement where custody was placed with mom, and I was ordered to move out. I am working on reunification. I yesterday. Nov 5th received a letter from San Diego Police Dept that I have been placed o...
by salman501
Fri Nov 07, 2008 3:29 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: How to remove name from Child Abuse Central Index?
Replies: 6
Views: 506

debbiescalese wrote:It's not just jobs with kids it is also jobs with older people like in nursing homes also some federal jobs you won't be able to get. Now say you want to work in someplace like in retail it isn't going to matter.


Is there any procedure of removing the name when the case closes?
by salman501
Fri Nov 07, 2008 3:02 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: How to remove name from Child Abuse Central Index?
Replies: 6
Views: 506

How to remove name from Child Abuse Central Index?

I was initially referred by CPS to be listed in CACI. Today I got a letter from San Diego Police Dept and they have also put my name on CACI. My question to you, is what is the process of removing name from CACI. When can the name be removed, and who can request the name be removed? Also having name...
by salman501
Wed Oct 22, 2008 6:27 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: How much Child support I should expect to pay?
Replies: 16
Views: 978

Looks like there is a welfare case that grand father opened, and the case is still open. I told the San Diego child support people that custody is no longer with him but with my wife. I am not sure what happens next. Maybe we will all have to goto court, arghhh!!! Do you think State will close the c...
by salman501
Mon Oct 20, 2008 9:51 am
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Topic: How much Child support I should expect to pay?
Replies: 16
Views: 978

Can anyone advise me what I should do now? I don't think it is right for maternal grandfather to collect Child Welfare while parents are providing with diapers, wipes, toys and money for clothes etc.

Can I go after him for this? Would county still make me pay child support?
by salman501
Mon Oct 20, 2008 7:53 am
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Topic: How much Child support I should expect to pay?
Replies: 16
Views: 978

Turn out that the grandfather was receiving Child Welfare behind the back. He is a fraudulent guy, so I want to make sure he doesn't continue to receive welfare behind our back, as the custody was removed from him as of Oct 2nd. I have called Social Worker and left them a message also. What should I...
by salman501
Sun Oct 19, 2008 7:43 pm
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Topic: How much Child support I should expect to pay?
Replies: 16
Views: 978

I will contact the Child Support Office tomorrow. I wonder if this is retroactive payment for caring for my son for 75 days. Maybe they took welfare or something...
by salman501
Sun Oct 19, 2008 6:07 am
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Topic: How much Child support I should expect to pay?
Replies: 16
Views: 978

Court hasn't ordered me to pay child support. On the letter it states, custodial parent= my son's grandfather. The custody changed on Oct 2 to my wife, so it is obviously either an old letter or child's grandfather has claimed some support. What you think?
by salman501
Sat Oct 18, 2008 5:57 pm
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Topic: How much Child support I should expect to pay?
Replies: 16
Views: 978

Thanks Marina, So how much should I expect to pay is the question. Time in my in-laws possession was exact 75 days. Do I get to tell this to Child Support Agency, so as not to get overcharged? My father in law hates me. This is an understatement by the way Anybody got a clue, what the estimation wou...
by salman501
Sat Oct 18, 2008 5:34 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: How much Child support I should expect to pay?
Replies: 16
Views: 978

Thank you so much for the response. The letter was just notification telling me they have requested income information from my company. Me and my in laws didnt get along too well. I too think they might have pushed for child support. BTW I am making all payments for my wife and son also. I love them...
by salman501
Sat Oct 18, 2008 2:22 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: How much Child support I should expect to pay?
Replies: 16
Views: 978

How much Child support I should expect to pay?

Today I got a letter from County letting me know that they have requested data from my employer for child support payment. Our son was removed from us and placed with my wife's father and stepmom( relatives) for total of 75 days. We are in San Diego California. Would we pay foster care charges or ki...
by salman501
Tue Oct 14, 2008 8:14 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Court Appointed lawyer fees
Replies: 1
Views: 225

Court Appointed lawyer fees

My wife has a court appointed lawyer. We live in San Diego CA. We had 2 settlement conferences, and now have a 6 month review. We haven't received any bill as of yet, it has been over 3 months. Are court appointed lawyers free, or do they bill towards the end of the case? Also I wanted to know, if t...
by salman501
Tue Oct 14, 2008 8:13 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Court Appointed lawyer fees
Replies: 3
Views: 367

Court Appointed lawyer fees

My wife has a court appointed lawyer. We had 2 settlement conferences, and now have a 6 month review. We haven't received any bill as of yet, it has been over 3 months. Are court appointed lawyers free, or do they bill towards the end of the case? Also I wanted to know, if there are any other court ...
by salman501
Tue Oct 14, 2008 8:11 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: How do I reunite with my family?
Replies: 13
Views: 1028

Thank you all for the responses
by salman501
Sat Oct 11, 2008 6:27 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: How do I reunite with my family?
Replies: 13
Views: 1028

I kind of suspected this pattern. I will fight it to the end. I am not giving in to their tactics.

Please keep all the responses coming. It helps to understand how widespread the problem is.
by salman501
Thu Oct 09, 2008 7:31 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: How do I reunite with my family?
Replies: 13
Views: 1028

Thanks for posting the link. I was looking for more real life experiences.
by salman501
Thu Oct 09, 2008 7:32 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: How do I reunite with my family?
Replies: 13
Views: 1028

How do I reunite with my family?

Background: Our son was removed from our home in July(then 11 months) on grounds of child abuse. CPS suspects that I(father) was the perpetrator. We had a settlement conference in Oct, and my wife was given custody back of our child a week ago, as long as I stay out of home. For the past 2 months I ...
by salman501
Fri Oct 03, 2008 5:06 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Who in the end pays for CPS enforced services?
Replies: 2
Views: 320

Who in the end pays for CPS enforced services?

We got our child taken away on July 5th. He was recently reunited with his mom . I in general wanted to know, who pays for CPS enforced services like counseling(therapy) for both spouses, any services that CPS wants to enroll the child in, like therapy and medical checkups, learning etc. Do I have t...
by salman501
Thu Aug 28, 2008 5:44 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Do relatives get paid by CPS while child is detained?
Replies: 7
Views: 527

Do relatives get paid by CPS while child is detained?

I wanted to know if relatives get paid to take custody of your child as opposed to foster parents in california. What amount does CPS gives to relatives if any to take care of child while case is in Juvenile court.

Thanks
by salman501
Sat Aug 09, 2008 10:02 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: My 11 month old baby got taken away
Replies: 19
Views: 1341

Thanks for all your support. As per my lawyer's advice I am going to move out, so my wife's lawyer can try to get the baby home with her. Does anyone know how long will it take to get us reunited again? When will baby be coming home to my wife. We were told we have only 6 months to make solid progre...
by salman501
Wed Aug 06, 2008 8:25 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: My 11 month old baby got taken away
Replies: 19
Views: 1341

We have a pre-trial meeting set for Aug 28. I am having a difficult time dealing with being separated from my baby. This is by far the most horrible experience in my life. I just dont have any courage to hang in there to finish this
by salman501
Sat Jul 19, 2008 12:45 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: My 11 month old baby got taken away
Replies: 19
Views: 1341

Child was moved yesterday to relative care(my wife's father), after being held in CPS custody for 12 days.
by salman501
Sat Jul 19, 2008 10:26 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: My 11 month old baby got taken away
Replies: 19
Views: 1341

Also I forgot to mention, he is our only kid. First kid we had after 5 years of marriage. I have a Masters degree in Computer Science. so I think I have decent IQ.

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