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by katgotsteve
Mon Aug 27, 2007 5:47 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Deperate and need help and/or advice
Replies: 9
Views: 681

then there will probably not file any charges. so, now all that is left is to deal with the ifs of cps. if it did happen, it will happen again, if he did do it, then the other children are in danger. i am sorry for your situation, but it is all to common with the public hysteria associated with sexu...
by katgotsteve
Mon Aug 27, 2007 4:31 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Deperate and need help and/or advice
Replies: 9
Views: 681

blackwolf i am sorry about your dilema, but this is something that has happened to so many of us on here. my husband was ordered to leave on oct 4 of last year. we had lost custody of our kids on Aug 30 and in order for them to allow me to get them back he had to leave based on finishing the investi...
by katgotsteve
Wed Aug 15, 2007 3:47 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I am completely baffled and appalled by CPS
Replies: 4
Views: 478

I am completely baffled and appalled by CPS

I went to court today. i never received a summons or letter was only told two weeks ago by caseworker that we had court. could not get ahold of attorney for two weeks, was not happy camper. called yesterday to find out if court was still on, no call back. showed up today, we are sorry your case will...
by katgotsteve
Mon Aug 13, 2007 4:24 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: I am in unbelief
Replies: 16
Views: 1067

i am sorry about your situation rosebud, you are trapped in a no win situation. the fact of the matter is this, your case may never make it to court, your husband may not either. if the children's story does change again, the da will not take it to court. as of right now, cps does not have to work w...
by katgotsteve
Thu Aug 09, 2007 3:13 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Confused can somebody explain
Replies: 8
Views: 602

debbie i have read your story and so much of it is like mine. what you have is a disposition, which is where the judge decides where the children live. now, from i have found out, this is not always allowing cps to have cutody. first you have to be ajudicated, which means found innocent or guilty in...
by katgotsteve
Wed Aug 01, 2007 11:13 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Well it is official
Replies: 6
Views: 547

it is amazing on how you dont hear anything for months and now you are bombarded with calls. i got a call from my therapist, yes the one that hasnt come around, she was in the hospital in icu, so i think i will let her slip. she had a meeting with dfacs on tuesday and talked to them about this case,...
by katgotsteve
Wed Aug 01, 2007 10:55 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Sugar and Spice's case
Replies: 60
Views: 3025

marina i would just like to tell you how good it makes me feel that there is someone like you out there. it takes a strong person to act as an advocate. you often have to put aside your own beliefs to help someone else. what i am pretty sure you have found out is that people parent different, handle...
by katgotsteve
Tue Jul 31, 2007 11:51 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Well it is official
Replies: 6
Views: 547

got a phone call from my mom today, she received a phone call from dfacs. It was my niece's caseworker and she wanted to know what was going on with the case. that she just got reamed about a letter being written to the deputy at the beginning of the case and stating that she had recanted. i was tol...
by katgotsteve
Mon Jul 30, 2007 11:34 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Questions about home burning down & CPS
Replies: 2
Views: 284

i am so sorry to hear about that. it is hard to loss everything and plus deal with cps. do you have somewhere to stay? as long as you have a roof over your child's head, even a temporary one, you should be fine. if they are trying to take your child, they may use it against you. you may want to move...
by katgotsteve
Mon Jul 30, 2007 5:40 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Well it is official
Replies: 6
Views: 547

my caseworker was just here. i know, wonderful. she told me she has no idea when we go to court, what is going to be said in court. she did say that they have a new supervisor, i know, wonderful again, and they are going over my case. they offered me a family team meeting again, but last time this d...
by katgotsteve
Mon Jul 30, 2007 3:46 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Well it is official
Replies: 6
Views: 547

well, i dont know. what i know is this, the court order was for 1 year, from aug 28, 2006 til aug 28 2007. each time we have gone to court our attorney has filed the motion. the orginal motion took the kids from me, 36 days later on oct 4, my husband left and i was given the kids back. it was ordere...
by katgotsteve
Sat Jul 28, 2007 6:58 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Well it is official
Replies: 6
Views: 547

Well it is official

i have officially lost my job. i am now knocked up and unemployed and my husband can come home to help me. in thirty 30 cps will have been in my life for 1 year with no legal standing, they even admit this. the only reason they are in my life according to them is becuase a judge ordered in, yet they...
by katgotsteve
Sat Jul 28, 2007 6:46 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: new here - here is my story
Replies: 20
Views: 1296

omg, i think you just told my story. my husband was never arrested, never had a police interview, the investigator told me that he knew she was lieing, but just becuase of she said so, it must have happened. the da will probably not take case to court and it will only drag on. next month, my case wi...
by katgotsteve
Fri Jul 27, 2007 4:14 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Update & Questions
Replies: 2
Views: 281

this will stop for your stepdaughter when she gets to be an adult, then cps will not interfere and law enforcement will. my niece is the same way, according to her she has sex with half our county, but in reality, she has not. she also suffers from bipolar with psychosis. it is sad, but cps is creat...
by katgotsteve
Wed Jul 25, 2007 8:16 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Recording visitation
Replies: 10
Views: 705

although it may be inadmissable in court, you can still use it against them. for internal investigations and when dealing it thier attorney or for just good ole blackmail. only if your state doesnt allow for one party recording can it not be done. i have never used mine in court, but i makes them th...
by katgotsteve
Mon Jul 23, 2007 9:12 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Recording visitation
Replies: 10
Views: 705

of course it sounds fishy. he is trying to their behinds. if you record, then they cant make things up. it is your right, as long as the laws of the state allow it. i record our conversation without notification. they are trying to cover themselves in case of a lawsuit. it is that plain and simple, ...
by katgotsteve
Tue Jul 17, 2007 3:25 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Need advise
Replies: 30
Views: 1524

the fact is that children of all ages lie. this social worker is thinking back to the 80's when a study came out to say that children do not lie about the abuse, that they only lie when they recant about the abuse. i dont know the name of the syndrome, but it goes like this, when a child makes alleg...
by katgotsteve
Tue Jul 17, 2007 10:21 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: child to ER - who pays cost?
Replies: 5
Views: 452

if i am not mistaken, by law the person who signs for the child to be seen is responsible. you may want to contact the supervisor of the detective and find out if they are willing to pay for this. i know that my insurance would not cover a nonemergency, nor will medicaid. so i would make the detecti...
by katgotsteve
Tue Jul 17, 2007 5:13 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Need advise
Replies: 30
Views: 1524

they often throw up statistics to me. well statistically speaking, majority of all men are not offenders. statistically speaking if a man has sex with a child, there is evidence. statistically speaking, there are other disorders that cause hypersexuality in children. statistically speaking, mothers ...
by katgotsteve
Mon Jul 16, 2007 3:05 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Need advise
Replies: 30
Views: 1524

PAS is a disorder that is no one in the legal system wants to deal with. my husband went through this with his first wife also. it is not easy to sit buy and watch this. everyone always assumes the man is the problem. it is like the men dont deserve to be parents. i am also accused of failure to sup...
by katgotsteve
Mon Jul 16, 2007 3:22 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Need advise
Replies: 30
Views: 1524

another thing i dont understand is why does he have on supervised visitation? he is not accused of anything. doesnt make alot of sense.
by katgotsteve
Mon Jul 16, 2007 3:20 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Need advise
Replies: 30
Views: 1524

get on the internet and do a search for background checks. if you go to whitepages.com and search for the name, it will ask you to do a people search. i did this for work onetime trying to locate a witness for a lawsuit we went through. the people search will list places they have lived and other th...
by katgotsteve
Sun Jul 15, 2007 7:18 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Need advise
Replies: 30
Views: 1524

ok, i think this is shitty? how can they claim abandonement? r u and the b/f still together? it sounds to me they are grasping. i think it has gone from possible sexual abuse, to i think we have some easily adoptable infants here. here is the thing with dealing with them, if they an prove one thing ...
by katgotsteve
Sat Jul 14, 2007 3:52 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Need advise
Replies: 30
Views: 1524

i have to disagree with frustrated, they can remove your children for speculation, they can force your boyfriend out of the house on specualtion. i have lived it and am still living it, it has been almost a year and my husband has supervised visitation with his children now, can not come home until ...
by katgotsteve
Fri Jul 13, 2007 10:28 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Need advise
Replies: 30
Views: 1524

debbie, you need to get in front of the judge it will help you i think. you will probally have to refuse something and tell her if she wants anymore from your family she needs to take you in front of the judge. the only way you will continue this is if there is a court order forcing these services o...

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