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by katgotsteve
Sat May 03, 2008 3:46 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: What do u think about 416 children removed? from Texas
Replies: 62
Views: 2473

here is my opinion on this: when cps walks into your home and investigates you, it is simple they know who your children are. what i am gathering from here is that even most children do not know who gave birth to them, most have been taught to lie about ages if asked by outsiders and most of the wom...
by katgotsteve
Fri Apr 18, 2008 4:31 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Good or Bad? What say we?
Replies: 46
Views: 1851

i would like to take a step back...and this is just an opinion. over the last 15-20 years over country has become obessed with the age of our children having sex, but all see in tv, movies, even our white house is sex, sex, sex. so what do we do to keep these children from having sex...no one has co...
by katgotsteve
Fri Apr 18, 2008 3:57 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Non emergency removal?
Replies: 5
Views: 489

a non-emergency removal seems to go out of bounds for what cps is. they are suppose to keep families together and only remove in a potential threat of danger. i just dont understand how a nonemergency removal can be made or even exist..... did you get a 72 hour hearing? the judge can write an order,...
by katgotsteve
Fri Apr 18, 2008 3:52 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Will in Tennessee
Replies: 38
Views: 2120

will i was sitting down with a man the other day. he has a daughter with his first wife who is now 21, he too fought to see this child. the mother would make these allegations, she would refuse to let him see his daughter. it was so bad that they had to meet each time for pick up in front of the cou...
by katgotsteve
Wed Apr 16, 2008 3:36 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Good or Bad? What say we?
Replies: 46
Views: 1851

i agree the removal of the children were necessary, i just hope the system will not fail these children the way it has failed so many of our other children. now a new question. if there are more communes like this, when are they going to get raided. there should be enough probable cause to raid thos...
by katgotsteve
Sun Apr 06, 2008 5:03 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Good or Bad? What say we?
Replies: 46
Views: 1851

i find it apalling that 12-17 y/o girls are forced into marriage with older men. do i think enough was done? there will never really be enough done, cps come into the this situation and did what they could do. until the legal portion of this world quit allowing certain crimes to pass becuase of poli...
by katgotsteve
Sun Apr 06, 2008 9:01 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: What to do? lost
Replies: 7
Views: 619

kenneth i was reading your post about the rectal tissue being easily damaged and verifiable. i had someone, a forensic psychologist, tell me different, but she was also trying to get me to turn on my husband. she told me if anal peneration had taken place no one would ever know becuase it heals so e...
by katgotsteve
Fri Apr 04, 2008 6:55 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: CPS called 6 times in 2 years all unfounded
Replies: 2
Views: 290

i am sorry to hear of your situation, but this happens all the time. sometimes a neighbor, sometimes an ex other, sometimes a friend, etc. there are opinions in this world made by people who think they know it all or just people who have some ax to grind. what will happen is they are going to come i...
by katgotsteve
Thu Apr 03, 2008 6:13 am
Forum: In the News
Topic: Super Nanny
Replies: 1
Views: 220

i dont get abc, but whether we agree with it or not is it really wrong. do both parents work? what is the financial situation? there are alot of questions that could be associated with this. at one time in our country it was ok for the older siblings to care of the younger ones. i would just like to...
by katgotsteve
Thu Apr 03, 2008 6:05 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Can anyone help me
Replies: 4
Views: 406

i have permanent guardianship of my niece, all it means is that i have am responsible for her and make decisions about her life, basically just like a parent, the only difference i see is that she has mom and i think she is entitled to know her mom and love her mom no matter what mistakes her mom ha...
by katgotsteve
Thu Apr 03, 2008 5:48 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: something came up and not sure how to compute it....
Replies: 2
Views: 312

i havent slept lately thinking about all this. we all know that when allegations like sexual abuse are made there is really no way to disprove it, even if the child comes back and say i lied, well they have an excuse for that also. well anyhow, my cousin is friends with the investigator. she talked ...
by katgotsteve
Mon Mar 31, 2008 5:14 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: something came up and not sure how to compute it....
Replies: 2
Views: 312

something came up and not sure how to compute it....

i got a phone call this morning a little after 9. it was the sheriff's investigator that was handling our case almost two years ago. now, he wants to interview my husband. this case occured in Aug of 2006, he was never interviewed by police only by dfacs and now they want to talk to him. i talked to...
by katgotsteve
Mon Mar 31, 2008 5:03 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: what if cps breaks laws
Replies: 3
Views: 342

this what i know they break the law all the time, they break their own rules. their is a waiver that allows for a removal on a friday or weekend and the 72 hour is waived. i dont know about all states, but this is how it is in georgia. even if they do break the laws or rules nothing ever happens to ...
by katgotsteve
Fri Mar 28, 2008 3:35 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Child Support Question
Replies: 2
Views: 268

the laws regarding child support differ from state to state and circumstance to circumstance. i do know in georgia where i from, child support, during times of foster care, cannot exceed what the state pays for the care of the child. $35000 and $17000, if that rule applied in your state would far ex...
by katgotsteve
Tue Mar 18, 2008 1:24 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: for parents who haven't been found abusive or neglectful
Replies: 4
Views: 369

it is hard to find parents who have not been found guilty of nothing according to cps. my husband was accused of child molestation, it was unfounded, but they found me guilty of failure to protect, reasoning behind this, if it did happen i failed to protect the child. when i asked about this, they t...
by katgotsteve
Tue Mar 11, 2008 2:21 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Survey?
Replies: 4
Views: 330

i took that survey, at the end of the survey they had a place to write comments, i wrote that there was not enough room to evaulate how i percieved how i was treated, so i typed and attached a 4 page letter. i got alot of calls back from that. the survey was done by a third party agency brought in b...
by katgotsteve
Sun Mar 09, 2008 10:41 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Another One?!?
Replies: 31
Views: 1708

the fact is, in order to get your case closed, your caseworker actually has to work on it. here is a small time line of my year of hell, Aug 29, 2006 judge orders children removed even though dfacs was not going to remove them Aug 31, 2006 given placement caseplan Sept 20, 2006 Ajudication hearing O...
by katgotsteve
Wed Feb 13, 2008 7:50 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I thoiught attorneys were supposed to help you
Replies: 8
Views: 508

i have had things explained to me like this. the first hearing is normally your 72 hour hearing, there is really not a case put on, only cps to say why they need custody or to investigate the family. the hearing often referred to as the ajudicatory hearing, is where the evidence is presented. i will...
by katgotsteve
Sat Feb 09, 2008 6:18 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: They are in for a real fight now.
Replies: 8
Views: 580

i found most of my info on this site and you can google your state and what ever the name of your agency is, our in. georgia is department of family and children services. i researched for months, all different combinations until i found all this info. i remember meeting with my attorney and bringin...
by katgotsteve
Fri Feb 08, 2008 4:01 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: They are in for a real fight now.
Replies: 8
Views: 580

workingmom they can not order you to stay away from you husband, they can recommend it or strongly suggest you cant, but even our judge told me that she could not order it, it is not her jurisdiction she can only state that the children can not be around him, after all she said this is only juvenill...
by katgotsteve
Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:59 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: son taken into custody because I pissed cps off
Replies: 2
Views: 344

nina i live in georgia too. i have done the same thing you did, i made quite a few people in my local and state dfacs office very angry. my advice to you is call them on everything they accuse you of and record everything. if anything, those recording make good blackmail. i told them several times a...
by katgotsteve
Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:42 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: They are in for a real fight now.
Replies: 8
Views: 580

it seems to me that this agency is hell bent on making fathers into a nonexistant parent. when things happen, it seems to always fall to the father moving out and dealing with them. no matter how good a father he is, because lets face it alot of men are just sperm donors. my husband was ordered to l...
by katgotsteve
Mon Jan 07, 2008 12:20 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: well its been 3 yrs. 1 month
Replies: 31
Views: 1677

the community alienation i fear is not for me, but for my kids and my husband. my husband is a private man, very closed and reserved and i am normally an open book. he hates to even bring it up with people who know. he has a fear of retaliation, that they will press charges against him now to make m...
by katgotsteve
Sun Jan 06, 2008 5:12 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: well its been 3 yrs. 1 month
Replies: 31
Views: 1677

i read this and it has come up at a time when i am in my own dilema. my story has been on here and i fought them. after a year the just left me alone with an apology and my husband came home. i had no court hearings or follow ups, basically everytime the took me to court, they canceled it. what i am...
by katgotsteve
Fri Jan 04, 2008 7:30 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Need help making a decision
Replies: 0
Views: 122

Need help making a decision

I have told my story on here previously so i wont rehash it. my niece that i had all the issues with is up to it again. she had an obession with my husband, trying to see him naked, fawning over him, staring at him constantly, until finally she made allegations. they were proven to be just fantasies...

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