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Welcome! Sounds like you and your husband are taking wonderful care of your beautiful little boy. Its folks like you that should be thanked over and over for standing up and doing the right thing even though it wasnt even remotely easy at times. Congrats and heres to many more years of happiness for...

The reason you didn't talk to a CASA until after you were adjuticated is because CASAs ONLY get assigned to cases where a CHIPS order has been filed and that is AFTER ajudication. There is no point assigning a CASA until a child has been deemed in need of special protection. This is just not true......

Its another case of the Oregon idiot farm! They closed our case too and then had one opened in NH with new allegations. If I were you, I would sit down and write a letter to Gov. Ted Kulongowski... I seemed to make enough complaints to him that he actually had the Director of the Forensic Crime Lab ...

I have spoken to the CASA worker assigned to our case as well as the people doing the in home program.... Seems that they are concerned that our daughter has had three rape/vaginal exams in less than a year. She has also been questioned on several occasions about the alleged sexual abuse and she has...

Sorry to hear what you are going through.. Sadly, my husband is being accused of having and soliciting child porn as well. These are horrible accusations to fight since in the US, it is pretty much up to a judge to decide whether or not he finds the pictures objectionable. In our situation, we have ...

My in home program started the other night. Basically, a family therapist will be coming to the home once a week to meet with the children and I... I also might have a parent aid/case worker coming to the home once a week although at this time, that is debatable. So when they asked me to sign the ag...

5 charges of neglect? Is this a criminal or DHS matter?

My opinion, do not talk with anyone without an attorney. Find an attorney that is very knowledgable in this field. It is also true that they can put him on an offender registry. They do this as an administrative finding even if no criminal charges are filed. Like Marina had posted above, find out EV...

Greegor... We had a prelimanary hearing. Most of it was held in the judges chambers and we were obviously not allowed in there. I dont know much of what was done except that the judge warned our attorneys not to fight the criminal aspect of the situation. The judge also wanted to hear what would be ...

The Oregon judge (preliminary hearing maybe? I wasnt there..) closed the case when they wanted to take my kids from me out there. There allegations against me were that I was defending my husband. Nothing about me being uncooperative, just the opposite as the social worker noted on many occasions th...

Let me start with the motion for limine... I believe that the reason why the lawyers decided to do this was because we are not in the state that the allegation were made. It makes this situation fairly tricky, but as the lawyer puts it, "how can I cross examine a piece of paper stating that you are ...

So CASA was supposed to come yesterday and then she called to say that she was too sick to come which was fine because on Thursday night, I fell going down the stairs, grabbed for the railing and dislocated my shoulder. So then I get a call yesterday from the people that are going to do this in home...

Thanks to everyone that responded..... Your words were all very kind.

Did you read the search warrant? They were able to search your WHOLE house??? Something sounds fishy there.... Been through something very similar... ask if you have any questions. It may take me a bit to respond since i fell and dislocated my shoulder last night but I will do my best.

Good to know FINN.... Thanks!

Hope that awesome letter bites her in the ass!

lynn... the CASA worker for my family did the same thing. She never met the children or us... she didnt even read the file and when the judge asked for her input, she said that the kids should stay in a foster home... He asked her if she had read the file and she said no.... then where the heck did ...

lostintranslation.... I dont know what to say. Although I did not know of the care my children were receiving while they were gone, this was an enormous emotional burden for my husband and myself. How impossible it is to go to bed at night not knowing the condition of your children is heartbreaking ...

Good job! I am glad that you spend a lot of time doing this letter writing. From my experience, I find that it helps time move along and that I am not just sitting around waiting for the attorneys to rock the boat on your behalf! Dont back down... everything I read seems wonderful, considering the c...

I am a bit confused... No criminal charges filed? Whom do they expect to file these charges... the child? Did your ex have to participate in a psych evaluation regarding sexually deviant behavior or any other evaluations? I cant believe that they are going to close this case when they know full well...

Well, according to DHS and the PD... contamination is impossible. They also say that they found an enormous amount in their written petition against us BUT, I have the actual medical records and it says ONE! If you remember, they also did DNA testing on the sperm... according to the detective, and r...

They are also not willing to talk to anyone else involved. Once they have their minds set on who did it, it MY "family". W[/quote] I feel the same way. They had made up their mind about my husband long before and they were never willing to talk to anyone else. I told the local PD that my daughter wa...

I also need to clarify that when our dd was brought to the doctors office, I went with the three kids... husband had to work but when the doctor said that he didnt see a reason to do testing, I told him that my husband and I were not comfortable with that course of action. So, he was not there, but ...

[quote="anxiousmom"]Jackie, Wow! You'd think that cps, the judge, the doctor & other powers that be would realize that your dh would most likely NOT have ASKED the doc. to run test on her if *he* had been abusing her sexually!!!! WRONG! The first time I met with the social worker, he h...

Congratulations. That is what it should be. A Family United together at Home. No Evidence of any wrong doing, they should dismiss the Case all together. Period. Yes, but whether or not the judge decides to do that is another story. I guess we will find out in a couple of weeks. This also has nothin...