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- Tue Apr 07, 2015 2:35 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Psychological abuse
- Replies: 26
- Views: 6291
Re: Psychological abuse
I saw my daughter again today. She is basically homeless right now, but won't move back in with me. I don't understand why. I told her she'd be free to come and go as an adult. She wouldn't be treated as a child. She was so badly abused where she was living that she doesn't even remember our visits ...
- Sun Apr 05, 2015 6:54 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Psychological abuse
- Replies: 26
- Views: 6291
Re: Psychological abuse
My daughter showed up today for my birthday. She wasn't warm to me. Cold as ever. Didn't want to tell me about herself. She talked a little, but not much. I was shocked to see her. felt awkward. Then she left again. Don't know where she is anymore. It feels very triggering like before when she would...
- Sun Apr 05, 2015 9:50 am
- Forum: Recovery From CPS Trauma
- Topic: How Do You Feel? re: background checks, central index
- Replies: 6
- Views: 2406
Re: How Do You Feel? re: background checks, central index
It started happening to me within few weeks after she was taken and the case workers were spreading around what I was accused of doing. It got worse as it went along. I moved out of town 2012 after case was closed because of the harassment. Early 2013 the people involved in the case found out where ...
- Sat Apr 04, 2015 2:00 pm
- Forum: Recovery From CPS Trauma
- Topic: How Do You Feel? re: background checks, central index
- Replies: 6
- Views: 2406
Re: How Do You Feel? re: background checks, central index
My biggest problem is even if I manage to get to another state, I have zero references. I have no one to put on a job application for a reference because everyone believed that I 'must be guilty' and turned on me, even people who had known me much of my life. I will never forgive any of them for tha...
- Sat Apr 04, 2015 1:23 pm
- Forum: Recovery From CPS Trauma
- Topic: Diagnosed with PTSD and severe depression
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2208
Re: Diagnosed with PTSD and severe depression
I also have moderate to severe PTSD due to what they did to me. It's perfectly normal to experience this after such trauma, but it never feels normal to us.
- Sat Apr 04, 2015 1:16 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Investigation was leaked- false accusations- forced safety
- Replies: 23
- Views: 3749
Re: Investigation was leaked- false accusations- forced safe
CPS has been known to retaliate if you try to advance your rights. Best thing you can do is move away. They often come back. They claim someone had filed a complaint against you, but I have my suspicions. Since the accuser is always kept confidential there is no proof there ever is a complainant, es...
- Mon Mar 30, 2015 5:06 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Psychological abuse
- Replies: 26
- Views: 6291
Re: Psychological abuse
ty My former family alienated her from me long before CPS got involved. I didn't even know the full extent of what they'd done until after she was already gone, but what I did know before she was taken was bad enough. The little girl that loved me died a long time ago and morphed into a mini version...
- Fri Mar 27, 2015 9:34 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Psychological abuse
- Replies: 26
- Views: 6291
Re: Psychological abuse
Have you established a Facebook page so she can find you there? Does she know she has only a short time (maybe 2 years) to sue CPS for what they've done in her life? Have you looked for her Facebook page? Oh, this is where it is 'beautiful'. :roll: My daughter is so out there that she has all of th...
- Thu Mar 26, 2015 3:05 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Kept them at bay **UPDATE #5...The meeting**
- Replies: 48
- Views: 6905
Re: Kept them at bay **UPDATE #5...The meeting**
What is the status of this?
The OP's mother is toxic. So long as the woman knew where the OP was she was going to keep going after her until she lost the kids.
The OP's mother is toxic. So long as the woman knew where the OP was she was going to keep going after her until she lost the kids.
- Thu Mar 26, 2015 2:34 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Psychological abuse
- Replies: 26
- Views: 6291
Re: Psychological abuse
My daughter still wants nothing to do with me, but she has escaped from where CPS placed her. She turned 18 in June. From what I have learned, he and his wife were keeping her from leaving. They've been abusive to her and controlling her since they got her. They even let their children abuse her and...
- Mon May 26, 2014 6:00 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: arkansas dhs workers lawyer said" we don't care about rights
- Replies: 3
- Views: 915
Re: arkansas dhs workers lawyer said" we don't care about ri
Sounds typical. The judge on my case said she didn't care about my constitutional rights. People called me a liar when I repeated it.
What did your lawyer say about it?
What did your lawyer say about it?
- Sun May 25, 2014 8:07 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Most bizarre CYS investigation, but still need help/advice
- Replies: 382
- Views: 42072
Re: Most bizarre CYS investigation, but still need help/advi
Ha ha! I just received a court order signed by Judge Scott D. Keller of Berks County, PA. Here is what it says: "And now this 10th day of March 2014 the matter IN RE D.P. is closed with prejudice." Now, the term "with prejudice" is extremely important here! It means that judge K...
- Sun May 25, 2014 8:06 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: KY Investigation 7 month old fractured Tibia Input Please!
- Replies: 3
- Views: 874
Re: KY Investigation 7 month old fractured Tibia Input Pleas
Be careful what you say to them. Don't socialize. They are there to find a reason to take your child. If you allow a home visit then make sure that your home is spotless. One dirty dish and CPS writes up how dirty and unsafe your home is.
Hopefully, you don't hear from them again.
Hopefully, you don't hear from them again.
- Sun May 25, 2014 7:45 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Psychological abuse
- Replies: 26
- Views: 6291
Re: Psychological abuse
Just days after this last phone call, I don't recall exact date now, he had her call me to tell me she didn't want anything to do with me anymore. I haven't heard from her in almost two years now. She has not attempted to contact me.
- Mon Apr 15, 2013 6:57 am
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Gdaughter taken and threatening to take unborn too
- Replies: 104
- Views: 14016
Re: Gdaughter taken and threatening to take unborn too
I am so glad it's over for you.
Be really cautious though. They do sometimes come back later. I don't want to be a downer, but people have let their guards down too soon.
Be really cautious though. They do sometimes come back later. I don't want to be a downer, but people have let their guards down too soon.
- Mon Apr 15, 2013 6:53 am
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: One thing after another
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1137
Re: One thing after another
It is standard for workers to lie.
It is also usual for lawyers to go along with the system, especially if they are court appointed.
Do you get to visit with your children?
It is also usual for lawyers to go along with the system, especially if they are court appointed.
Do you get to visit with your children?
- Thu Apr 04, 2013 5:34 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: CPS nightmare ((Please Help))
- Replies: 20
- Views: 3510
Re: CPS nightmare ((Please Help))
I wouldn't advise you tell them that your prior child died... that will likely cause them to be on heightened awareness for PPD and/or send in a social worker to make sure you're coping well. Medically speaking, they should ONLY be concerned with prior BIRTHS, not the current location of your child...
- Thu Apr 04, 2013 8:53 am
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: CPS nightmare ((Please Help))
- Replies: 20
- Views: 3510
Re: CPS nightmare ((Please Help))
If you file for any type of welfare then your social security number triggers in the system. I knew a woman who moved to KY from OH to have her baby. She had six children taken from her and her rights terminated because of domestic violence committed by the husband even though she left him and was d...
- Sun Mar 03, 2013 11:10 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: dcfs - lather, rinse, repeat
- Replies: 15
- Views: 2759
Re: dcfs - lather, rinse, repeat
In my case the worker went on total power trip. After I heard the allegations I wanted to discuss stuff with an attorney. She went off about how I needed to learn my lesson. She kept lying about me and then in court would keep going on about how I hadn't learned my lesson yet. And she kept canceling...
- Tue Feb 12, 2013 1:21 pm
- Forum: Round Table
- Topic: I am so glad this place is back
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1499
Re: I am so glad this place is back
I'm just glad to hear it was down and now back up! I was getting a message saying "account suspended" and was with everything else going on, it flipped me out to not know why/what was happening. If the forum just hadn't loaded, that would have been better! Yeah, that totally freaked me ou...
- Tue Feb 12, 2013 1:21 pm
- Forum: Round Table
- Topic: I am so glad this place is back
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1499
Re: I am so glad this place is back
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- Tue Feb 12, 2013 1:16 pm
- Forum: Round Table
- Topic: I am so glad this place is back
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1499
Re: I am so glad this place is back
Eljay wrote:I was going through withdrawals.... LOL
Me too LOL
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- Tue Feb 12, 2013 1:14 pm
- Forum: Round Table
- Topic: State did not drop order
- Replies: 12
- Views: 2148
Re: State did not drop order
I'm glad you handled that.... :shock: Yeah, me too. I was so scared when I got that letter threatening to jail me. I truly believed all of the stuff had been transferred to Virginia. So first I get a letter saying they were going to take my taxes and then days later get another saying they were goi...
- Mon Feb 11, 2013 2:43 pm
- Forum: Round Table
- Topic: State did not drop order
- Replies: 12
- Views: 2148
Re: State did not drop order
Well, it's paid. They are sending it to Frankfort and it's supposed to be updated and credited to the account by the end of the month.
- Mon Feb 11, 2013 2:37 pm
- Forum: Round Table
- Topic: I am so glad this place is back
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1499
I am so glad this place is back
That was so freaky when the site was gone. Didn't think it'd be back.
hugs everyone!
hugs everyone!