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by Momof31995
Mon Jul 10, 2006 7:09 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: MSNBC Special
Replies: 20
Views: 3231

its on MSNBC on Cable at midnight CST
by Momof31995
Sat Jul 08, 2006 9:29 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Suggestions from a Child Prtoective Services Investigator
Replies: 144
Views: 18332

Funny how she says she is replying to everyone privately yet i have not received a PM from her.

Seems some of us have hit too close to the truth and its taking her a while to make up lies to cover her story.....Typical CPS!
by Momof31995
Thu Jul 06, 2006 5:55 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Suggestions from a Child Prtoective Services Investigator
Replies: 144
Views: 18332

i can't believe you had the stones to post this... Not having children yourself there is no way you can know how a child should be raised..im so sick of textbook CPS CWs presuming to know how to raise a child if it was upto you all my children would walk around in bubble wrap with me watching their ...
by Momof31995
Thu Jul 06, 2006 11:58 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: What should i do?
Replies: 17
Views: 2707

the way i see it if you ask them if you can tape any meeting and they refuse then thats should send up a red flag that they have something to hide
by Momof31995
Thu Jul 06, 2006 7:10 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Government authorized ways to celebrate your freedoms, this
Replies: 2
Views: 721

"Applause" well said
by Momof31995
Thu Jun 29, 2006 2:34 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: But what about the kids????????
Replies: 110
Views: 13506

Okay i have just spent a good portion of my day on this thread and i must say i can understand both sides of this as im a parent that had my children stolen by cps and also because i have become very good friends with our childrens last and final foster parents as they are being returned to us now. ...
by Momof31995
Thu Jun 29, 2006 9:33 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Are contracted agencies by cps a move in the right direction
Replies: 35
Views: 4575

as to the original question......no contracting agencies are usually worse than CPS themselves because they follow their own rules and have their own agendas the one we were conned into signing with is a foster/adoption program that we were not aware of its called Childrens Home and aid Society..ver...
by Momof31995
Wed Jun 21, 2006 8:34 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: psch test what is it
Replies: 23
Views: 2814

i asked a case worker one time if her house was perfectly clean all the time and he exact words were and i quote"my house doesnt have to be perfect because i live in the Ghetto" . Can you believe that........if you live in the poor section of town you dont have to have a clean house.
by Momof31995
Sun Jun 18, 2006 5:47 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: psch test what is it
Replies: 23
Views: 2814

if a doctor recommends drugs and you refuse to have her put on them they can charge you with medical neglect.
by Momof31995
Fri Jun 16, 2006 6:54 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: You all have to read this News Story
Replies: 8
Views: 1715

to get probation these people must have had one helluva lawyer so probably CPS did not want to deal with this attorney and just returned the kids
by Momof31995
Wed Jun 14, 2006 10:12 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Are the cops on CPS's side?
Replies: 16
Views: 2688

i had a parental safety assessment done and a psych eval. i was emotional during my psych eval and the shrink put in the report i was overly emotional. and they used that against me saying i needed counseling. for parental safety assessment i just answered her questions and wanted to cry but i held ...
by Momof31995
Wed Jun 14, 2006 7:48 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: The Most States Visited and the Least Areas are Safe?
Replies: 22
Views: 2871

Illinois is just as bad as other states. Because permanancy is rewarded they do all they can to adopt the children out which means they are much quicker to try TPR rather than admit that maybe they were wrong and the parents were good parents in the first place. We got very Lucky and had a bulldog a...
by Momof31995
Sun Jun 11, 2006 7:15 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Missing our babies
Replies: 35
Views: 4952

its so ridiculous that parents have to have a seperate lawyer when they are fighting gor the same cause together. Seems its another way to keep the parents seperate
by Momof31995
Fri Jun 09, 2006 7:32 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Oh Boy....
Replies: 6
Views: 1228

isnt it just amazing how kids lie when it is something that turns things around them but when kids falsely report parents because they are angry kids dont lie?
by Momof31995
Mon Jun 05, 2006 5:16 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: new caseworker
Replies: 6
Views: 1120

Be very careful!! New workers have a tendency to try and prove themselves to their supervisors.plus most of them dont know their a$$ from theior elbow anyway.Never volunteer info and especially be wary of any worker that has no children they tend to have glorified opinions of how children should be ...
by Momof31995
Mon Jun 05, 2006 5:13 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: I just thought of this
Replies: 8
Views: 1561

that has got to be the most ridiculous thing i have ever heard.My husband and i have tattoos and we have never heard one negative thing about them.Tattoos are a form of self expression. Not harm. Sounds like your daughter is seeing a QUACK. If i was her i would tell DCFS that she will be finding her...
by Momof31995
Sun Jun 04, 2006 7:14 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Hi, I am new
Replies: 60
Views: 7233

my children have seen both sides they were abused and mistreated in 2 of their fosterhomes,Now they are in good ones but are also seperated so they are still being traumatized by CPS Now to top it all off instead of sending them home all together my son is coming home on June 14th and the girls are ...
by Momof31995
Mon May 22, 2006 9:21 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Its just so sad things have come to this
Replies: 2
Views: 448

We have our family counciling thru a group called YSN (dcfs wont let us change counselors) and they work closely with the case workers and they do the counseling at our home(another way to get snoops in i think) last counseling session i was cooking when they showed up and had just taken the meat ou...
by Momof31995
Mon May 22, 2006 8:45 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: The children come first. The goal is reunification.
Replies: 214
Views: 27191

me too but i am not Naive enough to think this is the end we will still be under supervision until atleast when we go back to court in september where the judge can decide we no longer need supervision or to extend it for 6 more months.God forbid.
by Momof31995
Mon May 22, 2006 8:42 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Its just so sad things have come to this
Replies: 2
Views: 448

Its just so sad things have come to this

I truly feel now if my husband was abusive there is no way i would file a police report. Or go to a shelter. I have seen many times on this board where trying to help yourself out of a situation by calling the police or going to a shelter has backfired on these women because then DCFS/CPS gets invol...
by Momof31995
Mon May 22, 2006 8:35 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: The children come first. The goal is reunification.
Replies: 214
Views: 27191

No i dont have my kids home with me yet.They are still in foster care until June. We only see them fri-sun. In september of last year they were going to ask for TPR because we werent jumping through their hoops fast enough.When our attorney asked for a Trial the DCFS attorney had to do her homework ...
by Momof31995
Mon May 22, 2006 5:59 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: The children come first. The goal is reunification.
Replies: 214
Views: 27191

Being proactive in some cases works but what about when CPS says the services you got werent good enough because they werent their courses or their therapists? what then? then you are forced to jump through their hoops which in our case led to more hoops and more hoops until we asserted our rights a...
by Momof31995
Mon May 22, 2006 5:20 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: How do you do it?
Replies: 26
Views: 3601

We have been fighting for our kids for 2+ years it doesnt get any easier with time but with time you gain Knowledge and it is true Knowledge is power. Learn your rights and assert them never back down or give in to them they will eat you alive. for the first year of our fight i played lapdog to them...
by Momof31995
Fri May 19, 2006 7:58 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Can the A.C.L.U help??
Replies: 11
Views: 1965

I'm not sure if every state has an advocacy office but if yours does use it to your full advantage.....everytime CPS or DCf does something not quite right report it to the advocacy office thy will assign you an advocate that will investigate your complaints. but in order for this to work you must re...
by Momof31995
Fri May 19, 2006 1:45 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Can the A.C.L.U help??
Replies: 11
Views: 1965

very interesting

10. Changing financial incentives. While not a program per se, making this change spurs private child welfare agencies to come up with all sorts of innovations they previously had claimed were impossible. This is clear from the experience in Illinois. Until recently, Illinois reimbursed private chil...

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