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by eyeq181
Thu Apr 23, 2009 2:09 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: If you live in Oklahoma
Replies: 0
Views: 310

If you live in Oklahoma

http://newsok.com/news/dhs?search_what=newsok&page=5


Here you will find a way to get your story heard on the news. I am waiting to see how court goes tomorrow before I send in my story pictures and all.
by eyeq181
Thu Apr 23, 2009 1:44 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Very Confused-I admit I lost it-Please don't judge me
Replies: 8
Views: 1755

It's just sounded like you need a break. It gets hard when there is someone there to help but they want to act selfishly instead then blow it up in your face when you fall. I have been there to. And honestly it's easier to be a single mom because you know what it takes from the get go then to have s...
by eyeq181
Thu Apr 23, 2009 1:04 am
Forum: Have Faith and Be Strong
Topic: Psych Eval Time
Replies: 11
Views: 2200

If your attorney is private pay you can get it from them, or if you pay for it yourself and hand it to you caseworker but not without a quick stop off at kinko's. But you attorney will have a copy, just ask them for a copy.
by eyeq181
Thu Apr 23, 2009 12:58 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: How to Deal
Replies: 3
Views: 1002

How to Deal

I am just curious on how people deal with the stress of losing there kids for a period of time? I know that I really can't talk to a counselor about it, because everything gets into the hands of DHS. You can't talk to a caseworker about it because they will use it against you. And you can't talk to ...
by eyeq181
Thu Apr 23, 2009 12:20 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Feeling bad
Replies: 2
Views: 696

Yep I can say I am mad, not just beyond but furious. She got to walk out of the hospital today with her child in he arms. And once again a good hearted pat on the back from DHS. I would never call someone a bad mother for a messy house, a child walks away from a mom for a second, if a child has play...
by eyeq181
Wed Apr 22, 2009 11:43 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Should you fight CPS findings?
Replies: 3
Views: 881

I did the same as kelz I did what they told me to do, but I did it my way. And doing this gets really expensive. When they ordered me to take there drug test I went out the same day to get a blood test. I don't trust UA's. I found my own counselor and paid for our own physiological evaluations. Be p...
by eyeq181
Fri Apr 17, 2009 4:55 am
Forum: In the News
Topic: I found this to be interesting
Replies: 0
Views: 1199

I found this to be interesting

http://www.news9.com/global/video/flash/popupplayer.asp?ClipID1=3591340&h1=How%20Many%20Will%20Die%3F%20Another%20Child%27s%20Story%20Reveals%20Holes%20in%20DHS&vt1=v&at1=News&d1=158166&LaunchPageAdTag=News&activePane=info&rnd=41078424 I have watched so many cases were th...
by eyeq181
Mon Apr 13, 2009 1:40 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Feeling bad
Replies: 2
Views: 696

Feeling bad

I really don't know where I stand in this one issue. There is this girl that I know her son was hit by a car and I am not really sure if I feel bad,relieved or just starting to believe in karma. See this lady is a bad mom. Every reason why a parent should lose her kids she did it. Drugs, Bad Neglect...
by eyeq181
Mon Apr 13, 2009 1:22 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: I have an idea
Replies: 3
Views: 762

So very true. I was said to have a filthy house when they removed my kids. What they con statue as filthy is insane. I had a Mc Donald's bag on my table from 30 minutes before and a plate on my table. Our bed's were not made yet. Outside of that my house was spotless. My husband and I are neat freak...
by eyeq181
Mon Apr 13, 2009 1:00 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Can they do this?
Replies: 3
Views: 931

Yes it's unfortunate that they can do what the want. We have had 7 of those test and yes they are expensive. They will use it against you if you don't have it done. And you have to make sure that they include you parenting skills in the evaluation. They won't except less and it is better to go and d...
by eyeq181
Mon Apr 06, 2009 3:45 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Discipline questions
Replies: 13
Views: 2317

Have you had him tested for Autism. Our daughter acts the same way and she has Asperger's. She is not what I thought an autistic child was, but after much reasearch it makes since. With Autism the ADHD meds won't work it will for a short time then bamm it gets worse. Signs to looks for is 1. Eye con...
by eyeq181
Mon Apr 06, 2009 3:06 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: psych eval-- pressure from CPS
Replies: 10
Views: 2007

These evaluations are totally pointless. They ask the wrong questions and what they are looking for. Between my husband and I we have had 11 at $1000 a pop except for one. The one that the state paid for by a person who is not even licensed to do them by the laws in our state. That was the only one ...
by eyeq181
Sun Apr 05, 2009 2:54 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Examples of "Safety Plans"?
Replies: 6
Views: 988

Not forgetting to add that in our safety plan Our family dog is not allowed to be around our kids. And yes the random drug testing does get annoying. Cause in my case it's only a matter of getting more money out of us. My caseworker has even stated many times that I am not on any drugs. Unsupervised...
by eyeq181
Mon Mar 30, 2009 12:32 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: What does Walter Mondale think now?
Replies: 6
Views: 1334

Does the word Genocide ever come your your mind when you think of this so called system? Scary isn't it.

Genocide is the deliberate and systematic destruction, in whole or in part, of an ethnic, racial, religious, or national group.
by eyeq181
Sat Mar 14, 2009 8:56 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Update...
Replies: 13
Views: 2817

Yep I have done all the research on these medications and when the side effect is death it freaks me out. The person giving my kids these medications is not even by law allowed to. They are the guidance people that they send to brainwash your children. Yes I said brainwash. They send these people wh...
by eyeq181
Tue Mar 10, 2009 7:53 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Update...
Replies: 13
Views: 2817

Yes I know the hardest thing is to watch this. My kids are zombies. I swear that they are experimenting with my kids just to mess with me.

Recently they put my 4 year old on meds. Zoloft and the Ritalin. I tell them no and I get the same response "Well the judge is not going to like this."
by eyeq181
Thu Mar 05, 2009 7:10 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Update...
Replies: 13
Views: 2817

We are almost done I think we are rushing through unsupervised visits to overnights then they are home. This is were we were a year ago when we got a new case worker and had to start over. They say that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Last time is was a train. Our last battle is they asked ...
by eyeq181
Tue Feb 17, 2009 6:57 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: paying child support to the state?
Replies: 7
Views: 1345

In the stated of Oklahoma they that 65% of your income. And in my case they took it all. You and your spouse will have separate child support orders. Oh and it all don't go to your kids either. They will claim that it goes to medical bill, but were paying them too, best as we can. Seriously what hea...
by eyeq181
Tue Feb 17, 2009 6:35 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Please, Please, Help! CPS called on me !!!!!
Replies: 17
Views: 3708

In our case our attorney came to our house with the caseworker. That is the best way to do it. It make for an extra eyes to see how things are. Caseworkers seems a bit more truth full when there is an attorney there to back you.
by eyeq181
Tue Feb 17, 2009 6:27 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Update...
Replies: 13
Views: 2817

That was an example of the coping skills that my kids are learning were not tell our kids anything. We went to court today. Things seem to be going better, except for the fact we had to let our attorney go because we can't afford an attorney anymore with the $1400 a month in child support $34 for dr...
by eyeq181
Thu Jan 29, 2009 10:27 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Presenting Yourself Well In Court
Replies: 6
Views: 1235

The way you present yourself is so important when going to court.

I think Class A Uniforms are sharp in any branch. I think the judges need to be reminded sometimes that there are people fighting for their freedom.
by eyeq181
Thu Jan 29, 2009 9:54 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Update...
Replies: 13
Views: 2817

Okay I am lost we made no false reports.
by eyeq181
Wed Jan 28, 2009 3:37 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: How Do You Move Past the Paranoia?
Replies: 15
Views: 2825

I know when my kids come home. I am planning on keeping them inside for a year til my case is closed. Alot of video games. Til I move the heck out of this state. Anyone ever here of the invisable parent or am I the only one out there. I would be sitting on my step and my kids would be playing in the...
by eyeq181
Wed Jan 28, 2009 3:24 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Taxes
Replies: 8
Views: 1516

Yep it all is bad. They leave you you with an income that will leave you standing in a food bank line. My husband and I went to go and see if we could get on food stamps. They laughed at us. My husbands income before insurance and child support is insaine. We lost everything. And even gained out fir...
by eyeq181
Wed Jan 28, 2009 3:13 am
Forum: Have Faith and Be Strong
Topic: Psych Eval Time
Replies: 11
Views: 2200

These evaluations are nothing to really worry about. Most of the time I think that they are just a time killer. The right Dr. that is qualified to do these test, usually will not recommend anything bad. Like our last Dr. we went to, he said in 39 years of practice he has only said 3 people were a th...

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