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by Eljay
Thu Mar 28, 2013 5:56 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Help! About to lose my kids to adoption
Replies: 14
Views: 2693

Re: Help! About to lose my kids to adoption

It's often a form and specific code for that motion, but I couldn't find one specific to Juv court in Oregon (not that it doesn't exist, just that I'll only devote so much time to a search before I move on). Here is info on your court so you can call and ask them as well: http://courts.oregon.gov/La...
by Eljay
Tue Mar 26, 2013 8:10 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Help! About to lose my kids to adoption
Replies: 14
Views: 2693

Re: Help! About to lose my kids to adoption

Generally speaking, they like to keep non-parties out of court. However, she is close family and you could ask. She can not represent you, since she is not an attorney, but she may be able to sit with you. It helps to have support there, for sure! In our state, the law specifically states that the c...
by Eljay
Tue Mar 26, 2013 6:23 pm
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Topic: Help! About to lose my kids to adoption
Replies: 14
Views: 2693

Re: Help! About to lose my kids to adoption

Based on all of that, if you think you have the wherewithal to represent yourself, then *I* think that you would be better off representing yourself instead of having someone "represent you" that does NOTHING to help your case. Read this/do this: http://www.avvo.com/legal-guides/ugc/how-to...
by Eljay
Tue Mar 26, 2013 6:23 pm
Forum: Juvenile Court
Topic: How to get rid of a bad appointed attorney
Replies: 0
Views: 1302

How to get rid of a bad appointed attorney

http://www.avvo.com/legal-guides/ugc/how-to-get-rid-of-a-bad-court-appointed-lawyer How to Get Rid of a Bad Court-Appointed Lawyer STAFF PICK Written by: Deirdre Lynn O'Connor Torrance Criminal Defense Attorney Posted about 4 years ago. Applies to California, 23 helpful votes, 2 comments 1 Know the ...
by Eljay
Tue Mar 26, 2013 4:53 pm
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Topic: Help! About to lose my kids to adoption
Replies: 14
Views: 2693

Re: Help! About to lose my kids to adoption

When did they take the kids? When is your next hearing and what is it called? Have you informed your atty that the children were never alone? And did he/she present this evidence in court IF he/she was informed prior to the hearing? Read these pages and start working on BOTH of these documents: http...
by Eljay
Tue Mar 26, 2013 3:55 pm
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Topic: Abused physcially, Mentalyy , Emotionally Need Help Now!
Replies: 16
Views: 2885

Re: Abused physcially, Mentalyy , Emotionally Need Help Now!

At sixteen, she's got the ability to be far more in control of her situation than say, an 8 year old. Tell dad *NICELY* that she just needs some time to let this blow over (like, two years, you say in your head). Buy her some pepper spray (if the school doesn't forbid it). Transport her everywhere s...
by Eljay
Tue Mar 26, 2013 5:05 am
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Topic: Abused physcially, Mentalyy , Emotionally Need Help Now!
Replies: 16
Views: 2885

Re: Abused physcially, Mentalyy , Emotionally Need Help Now!

Emancipation.

What and who do you mean by ” what his feelings were”?
by Eljay
Tue Mar 26, 2013 5:02 am
Forum: Grandparents and Other Relatives
Topic: LAWYERS WORTH THE TIME AND MONEY?
Replies: 9
Views: 2766

Re: LAWYERS WORTH THE TIME AND MONEY?

Child support is for THE CHILD, not for you. if something should happen to you, the child should lot be completely left without financial support. If you can meet the needs of the child in the present day, bank the money for their college fund.
by Eljay
Mon Mar 25, 2013 9:45 pm
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
Replies: 225
Views: 24394

Re: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother &

Don't get down on the police.... Police are in charge of criminals, not victims.
by Eljay
Mon Mar 25, 2013 7:37 pm
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Topic: Abused physcially, Mentalyy , Emotionally Need Help Now!
Replies: 16
Views: 2885

Re: Abused physcially, Mentalyy , Emotionally Need Help Now!

Why are you playing the race card? CPS screws up cases for EVERY race, color, creed, age, nationality and shoe size.

How old is this child?
What is the result of the police investigation?
by Eljay
Mon Mar 25, 2013 9:26 am
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Topic: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother & now
Replies: 225
Views: 24394

Re: heart broken dad , whos watched many abusesfrom Mother &

Based on my research, a 730 evaluation would be ordered by a family court judge as part of a custody hearing. You would need to have an open petition for change of custody in FAMILY COURT (not CPS court). Beware, however.... if they should want to use your "history" that was documented/fab...
by Eljay
Sat Mar 23, 2013 1:50 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Most bizarre CYS investigation, but still need help/advice
Replies: 382
Views: 42070

Re: Most bizarre CYS investigation, but still need help/advi

They finally figured out that they can't bluff forever!

Find me on facebook and I'll get you to the right group:
https://www.facebook.com/dona.eljay
by Eljay
Sat Mar 23, 2013 6:43 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Most bizarre CYS investigation, but still need help/advice
Replies: 382
Views: 42070

Re: Most bizarre CYS investigation, but still need help/advi

Donna.... There is another group on fb started by Shawn McMillan, trial lawyer in Sandy Eggo. He has driven some great CPS lawsuits, including one of the largest settlements ever of $10.5 million (Deanna Fogarty-Hardwick out of Orange County, CA). He is posting many of his briefs on this fb page. Th...
by Eljay
Fri Mar 22, 2013 2:21 pm
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Topic: Hello
Replies: 85
Views: 11134

Re: Hello

Awesome!!!! Did you do it pro se or with the help of an attorney? Would you be willing to share the lawsuits? (yes, they are public record, but if you want to put a "cleaned up" version on here, that would be great).


So glad to hear your son is home with you! :)
by Eljay
Fri Mar 22, 2013 7:44 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: My Friend Needs Advice
Replies: 17
Views: 2789

Re: My Friend Needs Advice

I see this mother as the perfect example of a person who has "failed to protect" her child(ren). Her adult son is a RAPIST and PEDOPHILE. This guy should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law. The "mother" is *PROTECTING THE RAPIST* and allowing this PEDOPHILE to walk free....
by Eljay
Fri Mar 22, 2013 7:25 am
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Topic: Help! About to lose my kids to adoption
Replies: 14
Views: 2693

Re: Help! About to lose my kids to adoption

You left out some details.... it sounds like ” sister moves out” option was used... then they still took your kids?
by Eljay
Thu Mar 21, 2013 9:37 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Most bizarre CYS investigation, but still need help/advice
Replies: 382
Views: 42070

Re: Most bizarre CYS investigation, but still need help/advi

Yee Haw!!! You're cooking now! Denial of their pansy motion to dismiss is awesome! I hope they are ALL losing sleep!
by Eljay
Wed Mar 20, 2013 10:52 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: My Friend Needs Advice
Replies: 17
Views: 2789

Re: My Friend Needs Advice

This whole story reminds me of a Dr. Laura quote:

Do you know what you get when you rescue a damsel in distress?


A DISTRESSED DAMSEL !!!!
by Eljay
Wed Mar 20, 2013 10:47 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: My Friend Needs Advice
Replies: 17
Views: 2789

Re: My Friend Needs Advice

This woman would rather place her daughter in the home of a KNOWN RAPIST over .... Well, ANYTHING??? Yeah, he needs to get away from this dangerous woman. And the rapist needs to be reported. He needs to cut his losses and run.
by Eljay
Wed Mar 20, 2013 4:57 pm
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Topic: Any suggestions at all are appreciated!!
Replies: 5
Views: 1217

Re: Any suggestions at all are appreciated!!

Well..... HECK YA!!!!!! I'm so happy for you!!!! Success stories like yours are the only pay I get for this "job" (LOL) so I very much appreciate you posting an update. If you care to share more, it will be appreciated. So much of what we learn is by the experience of others (because we ar...
by Eljay
Wed Mar 20, 2013 2:21 pm
Forum: Websites
Topic: justice4johnny.org
Replies: 1
Views: 1458

Re: justice4johnny.org

Do you still have an open case? With whom does your child live?
by Eljay
Mon Mar 18, 2013 9:56 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: My Friend Needs Advice
Replies: 17
Views: 2789

Re: My Friend Needs Advice

He has been falsely accused of a crime... it is the false allegation that is the REAL crime. Of course, it is very unlikely that Jason will want to prosecute his step-daughter for making the allegation. Regardless, CPS is using this allegation as the cornerstone of their case. If it is not dropped a...
by Eljay
Mon Mar 18, 2013 5:11 am
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Topic: CPS took child because they didn't agree w/ a visit. HELP!!!
Replies: 16
Views: 2687

Re: CPS took child because they didn't agree w/ a visit. HEL

Thank you so much for the update. Cases like yours stick with me. Find me on facebook (Dona Eljay) and I will point you to some similar case filings by attorney Shawn McMillan. you must certainly sure the agency because the social workers will claim immunity, but they don't have immunity when the br...
by Eljay
Sun Mar 17, 2013 10:36 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: My Friend Needs Advice
Replies: 17
Views: 2789

Re: My Friend Needs Advice

Well, I suppose.. but she had already admitted that she lied. Plus, kids are not all that great at lying. On top of that, how many REAL abusers or molesters go to the police and say ” please investigate me!!!”

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