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- Sun Nov 30, 2008 10:30 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Finnegan Case-Indiana
- Replies: 47
- Views: 7192
Finn, I agree wholeheartedly with everything you said. I'd love to help reform CPS, and part of it would be making them pay attention to true abuse or neglect. It's obvious when a 2 year old is wandering around in 40 degree weather at 9pm, until 10 or 11, in nothing but a diaper, that something is n...
- Tue Nov 25, 2008 9:13 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Finnegan Case-Indiana
- Replies: 47
- Views: 7192
- Sun Nov 23, 2008 9:39 pm
- Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
- Topic: And here we are now...
- Replies: 3
- Views: 879
We cosleep, but the baby has both a playpen and a crib set up in case they come knocking. We cloth diaper but don't ec. The only one who willingly wears socks or shoes in the house is our 14 year old. The baby is so hot blooded that even now, as it's getting cold he usually has on a tshirt, a diaper...
- Thu Oct 23, 2008 10:10 pm
- Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
- Topic: Vindictive Neighbor Called The Police And Reported Us To CPS
- Replies: 51
- Views: 8841
You got lucky. They could have hung you out to dry for leaving your kids with a 10 year old. Honestly, I'm shocked that they didn't. As far as forcing CPS to reveal who called, sorry that'll never happen. They'll claim it was anonymous, if she was stupid enough to give her name in the first place. G...
- Fri Oct 17, 2008 10:50 pm
- Forum: In the News
- Topic: Nebraska, Oklahoma lead the Nation in child removals
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1486
- Fri Oct 17, 2008 10:46 pm
- Forum: Medical Issues
- Topic: I'm almost afraid to take the baby to the doctor
- Replies: 12
- Views: 3356
Linda, we're not small people. Since all we went through with cps we have lost weight though. Now we're right about where we should be. Our oldest was small too until she hit puberty. I post on a birth board, for the support and friendship of other moms, since I don't socialise in this town very muc...
- Thu Oct 16, 2008 10:35 pm
- Forum: Medical Issues
- Topic: I'm almost afraid to take the baby to the doctor
- Replies: 12
- Views: 3356
I'm almost afraid to take the baby to the doctor
After everything we've been through before he was born and their last visit, I hate taking our LO in to the dr. He's always been small, at almost 9 mos. he's only 16 lbs. He's been sick twice with ear infections, other than that he's very healthy and active. I know our ped. and I trust her, but hone...
- Fri Sep 12, 2008 10:15 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Me again :)
- Replies: 1
- Views: 515
- Wed Sep 10, 2008 10:37 pm
- Forum: Round Table
- Topic: Children's birthdays while they are in care
- Replies: 8
- Views: 1631
Glass, my heart aches for you, nothing hurts more than not having your kids with you, especially on special days. During the time my kids were taken we had our anniversary, usally a nice family day. There wasn't even a visit scheduled so we spent it in tears missing the kids. I hope that yours come...
- Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:35 pm
- Forum: Round Table
- Topic: Children's birthdays while they are in care
- Replies: 8
- Views: 1631
Poor people are also the most often attacked by CPS. We did ask my dad for help during the last invasion, but before that we always did our best to make it on our own. Now that my dad has passed away, my half sisters seem to think I have a small fortune, which is far from true, and now the ones who ...
- Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:18 pm
- Forum: Round Table
- Topic: Children's birthdays while they are in care
- Replies: 8
- Views: 1631
Glass, my heart aches for you, nothing hurts more than not having your kids with you, especially on special days. During the time my kids were taken we had our anniversary, usally a nice family day. There wasn't even a visit scheduled so we spent it in tears missing the kids. I hope that yours come ...
- Wed Sep 03, 2008 10:49 pm
- Forum: Round Table
- Topic: Children's birthdays while they are in care
- Replies: 8
- Views: 1631
- Mon Sep 01, 2008 9:49 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: problems with my case , could use advice !
- Replies: 10
- Views: 1987
- Mon Aug 25, 2008 11:27 pm
- Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
- Topic: CPS, DCYF , runnin us ragged !!! help
- Replies: 38
- Views: 5759
Katz, the scary thing about CPS, is the majority of cases are based off of OPINIONS. In my case, I was found guilty of supervision neglect. I left my 2 sons home alone during daylight hours for brief periods of time. (The legal defintion of latch key kids) both were old enough for that, but because...
- Fri Aug 22, 2008 9:22 pm
- Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
- Topic: CPS, DCYF , runnin us ragged !!! help
- Replies: 38
- Views: 5759
- Mon Aug 04, 2008 9:47 am
- Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
- Topic: New to all of this in Virginia, seeking help please...
- Replies: 9
- Views: 1555
Keep on your caseworker to get her to come look at the house. Once they have your kids they're in no hurry to do anything but drag your case out. The mental health evaluation only holds so much weight. If they force your local mental health agency on you cooperate, but don't trust them. When an eval...
- Sat Aug 02, 2008 11:18 pm
- Forum: Round Table
- Topic: Would you do the same thing?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1354
Re: I feel that you have made the best decfision
for yourself and your family. Is he on probation? If so his probation officer would have reported his living with you to CPS. No, he was unsuccessfully released. He failed quite a few drug tests when he was on probation and is still a useless drunk/pothead as far as I know. He would be the worst po...
- Mon Jul 28, 2008 9:31 pm
- Forum: Round Table
- Topic: Would you do the same thing?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1354
Would you do the same thing?
My nephew had sex with an underage girl and is now a registered sex offender. My sister called me tonight practically begging me to let him come live with us. She moved in with an ex-boyfriend and he doesn't want a 21 year old who should be taking care of himself and is always getting in trouble aro...
- Sat Jul 26, 2008 11:35 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Penalities
- Replies: 21
- Views: 3041
Keep hanging in. I know it's hell and it's that much worse when the judge seems to be their best friend. We went through it in Boone County. Contact the attorney generals office and they can send you the information to file complaints against the CPS lawyer and the judge. Fight with everything you c...
- Fri Jul 25, 2008 11:15 pm
- Forum: Round Table
- Topic: Urgent Advice needed.
- Replies: 10
- Views: 1945
I'd go through with the pregnancy. Just don't tell the CPS worker or anybody you don't fully trust. I have a 16y/o a 14y/o and a 6 month old. We not only kept the pregnancy secret we didn't let anyone but my dad, mother in law and best friend know. Once the baby was born we laid as low as possible a...
- Fri Jul 25, 2008 11:00 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Penalities
- Replies: 21
- Views: 3041
It is worth a shot using them not providing you with a case plan, When we brought up the fact we had never been provided with one in court the judge jumped CPS for it, and set a hearing for a month later. That final hearing never happened because during what ended up being her final visit we told Gi...
- Mon Jul 21, 2008 9:58 pm
- Forum: Round Table
- Topic: What happens when moving?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 703
- Sat Jul 19, 2008 11:06 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Guardian Ad Litem My A$$
- Replies: 8
- Views: 1716
Our case went on for 2 and 1/2 years. Not once did the kids meet the GAL never. The GAl would not know who my kids were if they ran up to her on the street and bit her in the ass. her sole purpose was to back cps in court. We had a wife and husband GALs. The first CPS case was the wife's turn. She ...
- Wed Jul 09, 2008 9:22 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: Home Visit Checklist
- Replies: 6
- Views: 1359
It seems they have a problem with roaches, or so they claim. I know of some apartments in town everyone calls "the roach hotel", but I don't know of many CPS visits to there. However both when our kids were taken and during the latest attempt at invasion, the workers said they wanted to make sure ou...
- Wed Jul 09, 2008 9:09 pm
- Forum: CPS Investigations
- Topic: They came back again
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1101
The baby's room is all done now too. His crib is up and even though he's still small he has an organized play area too. I used the shelves on a changing table that was given to us to store toys, but I don't think they could say anything about that if they did come back. We are watching the people wh...