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by AllForThisSite
Sun Nov 27, 2005 5:12 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Gone
Replies: 9
Views: 1720

Well it is true. I've known people who've lost their kids to CPS turn right around and call CPS on someone else trying to make them lose their kids. When I hear about those people doing that I don't feel a damn bit sorry for them when they start talking about how they were wronged by the system and ...
by AllForThisSite
Sun Nov 27, 2005 4:48 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I need someone to listen.......
Replies: 31
Views: 4077

Sounds like the sister-in-law wants to be the one with all the glory, the knight in shining armor, the one who is right and proper above everyone else in the family....to the people who count anyways....but after the curtains have been closed and the audience has gone home, her performance is over a...
by AllForThisSite
Sun Nov 27, 2005 12:38 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: What Service Plan really mean to us?
Replies: 9
Views: 1453

My mother's child protection book given to her by the police dept. has different definitions in it concerning abuse and neglect and after all these years of school, yes we did dig it out and look up a few things. There is a difference between "raising your voice", "yelling/screaming" and using "hars...
by AllForThisSite
Sun Nov 27, 2005 5:20 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Gone
Replies: 9
Views: 1720

I guess the part that bothers me the most is the people that call CPS on other people are people who have more dirt under their rugs than the people they call CPS on. I've seen people who've lost their children to CPS turn right around and try to make someone else lose their kids. I think that is me...
by AllForThisSite
Sun Nov 27, 2005 4:47 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: What Service Plan really mean to us?
Replies: 9
Views: 1453

I told our worker I wanted a copy of the service plan and she kept forgetting (yeah right) to give me one the first month she was out here and then finally I told her in order to continue her visits she needed to give me a service plan and she did. She gave me the back part which is the part my husb...
by AllForThisSite
Thu Nov 24, 2005 11:28 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Gone
Replies: 9
Views: 1720

Gone

Our CW is now gone. No more inspections. No more visits. No more phone calls. Nothing. Case closed. But how do we resume back to normal life again? I still feel like we are being watched and that no one can be trusted. I am more observant to who's looking and what they're thinking rather than feelin...
by AllForThisSite
Thu Nov 24, 2005 10:51 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: What Service Plan really mean to us?
Replies: 9
Views: 1453

I never understood the service plan when it was given to us. It was about 10 pages where the caseworker checks YES or NO about certain needs or situations and then on the last page -- the part you sign -- it has a space for any additional comments or services. The CW checked NO on everything but the...
by AllForThisSite
Wed Nov 23, 2005 4:07 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: CPS report due to "leftovers"
Replies: 5
Views: 897

By the way, I think it is quite amusing that you get called on for the leftovers. My cousin had a call made on her 4 years ago because instead of using a brush, she used a comb on her daughter's hair. The CW claimed that the comb was too harsh and a brush would have been better. What the hell? Now t...
by AllForThisSite
Wed Nov 23, 2005 4:02 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: CPS report due to "leftovers"
Replies: 5
Views: 897

I'd tell ya what I'd do....I'd kick somebody's ass. :shock: That's just me. LOL! As far as what you've done wrong....NOTHING! Continue to take notes and do whatever you feel is necessary and if the CW doesn't like it, tell her to show you a rule in black and white under the penalty of law if broken ...
by AllForThisSite
Wed Nov 23, 2005 3:56 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Closing
Replies: 2
Views: 561

As I was typing that message last night my son called. That is the first time that my son has initiated a phone call to me in 4 months! His Step-Monster and his father have refused to let him do the calling. He's not been allowed to contact any member of my family or my in-law's and he's not been al...
by AllForThisSite
Tue Nov 22, 2005 5:18 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Closing
Replies: 2
Views: 561

Closing

Tomorrow is our closing date. The CPS worker makes her final closing visit to our home. I'm sure she'll be out here with her eyes buldging out of her head looking like she's been stepped on :shock: looking for that tiny itty bitty piece to keep the case open longer. She called my mother the other da...
by AllForThisSite
Tue Nov 22, 2005 4:38 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: First contact from CPS
Replies: 13
Views: 2093

First of all, your grandson will not be made by law to hand over his child to the mother unless there is a domestic violence order that states that he is not allowed to be around the child or the mother has custody. If no custody has been established between them then either one of them at anytime m...
by AllForThisSite
Fri Nov 18, 2005 5:30 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Case still not Closed :(
Replies: 8
Views: 1188

I've often felt like we were being watched and probably more so since the first caseworker had a habit of popping up unannounced at 7 and 8 am; made me wonder if she camped out in her car in our corn field all night :shock: . I don't have a window on the side of my home where the driveway is and ou...
by AllForThisSite
Fri Nov 18, 2005 5:07 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I just found this out
Replies: 5
Views: 974

I don't think the investigation is closed at all. She says the first CW that was here for 30 days was conducting an investigation and she is only monitoring us for any further services. I still call it an investigation whether she wants to call it that or not because why would she need a copy of his...
by AllForThisSite
Wed Nov 16, 2005 4:10 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I just found this out
Replies: 5
Views: 974

I just found this out

My husband had a medical procedure done today and found out that our CW is also seeing his doctor. The doctor came in and said, "I met someone the other day who knows you. Said you referred her to us." My husband said, "Who?" The doctor said, "I guess it's a friend of yours.. Dana Page*." OK. Dana P...
by AllForThisSite
Wed Nov 16, 2005 3:44 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Those darn red warning stamps and my feelings.
Replies: 6
Views: 974

I know I've done the same thing. I think our eyes become open to the world around us once we have our own world invaded by CPS. I've been places and had the opportunity to see things that normally I would have paid no attention to; now that I am being investigated, I look at things differently. I se...
by AllForThisSite
Wed Nov 16, 2005 3:21 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Case still not Closed :(
Replies: 8
Views: 1188

I just thought it was funny that the CW said one time that her involvement was to make sure that my husband wasn't depressed or wanting to kill himself. I have a controversy with that issue anyway. How can they know that someone wants to kill themselves? Do they read minds? Do they look for signs an...
by AllForThisSite
Wed Nov 16, 2005 5:25 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Case still not Closed :(
Replies: 8
Views: 1188

She is more fixated on what is the problem at School and at Home and trying to find out where Emotional Harm comes from. Yeah the call that was made on my husband was that he tried to kill himself. She hasn't looked him square in the eye the first time and asked, "Hey, do you still want to kill you...
by AllForThisSite
Wed Nov 16, 2005 4:47 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: TO: FRUSTRATED, LOST, & DAZEEMAY
Replies: 6
Views: 1075

I don't think he's worried about what CPS will find over there as much as SHE is. He is so stupid he'd walk into a glass door twice before realizing he had to open it first. He thinks as long as his house is clean and he kisses butt that he won't have any problems but his wife knows better than that...
by AllForThisSite
Tue Nov 15, 2005 4:31 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Have Your OR Would You?
Replies: 66
Views: 8704

All 3 of my cousins were at this one foster center that is supposed to be a christian foster home; it even has a christian bible name :? . My oldest cousin and her brother spent 2 years in it before going to live with her father and then her father lost custody of them because when the DSS worker ca...
by AllForThisSite
Tue Nov 15, 2005 4:13 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: TO: FRUSTRATED, LOST, & DAZEEMAY
Replies: 6
Views: 1075

I know she doesn't want them in her house because when they first went out there almost 4 months ago to talk with my son that lives there, my ex got mad and cussed me out for giving them directions to their home. I told him, "I know you called them because you called us and talked to both Mike* and ...
by AllForThisSite
Tue Nov 15, 2005 3:53 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Case still not Closed :(
Replies: 8
Views: 1188

I don't see how they could investigate you for yelling your child's name or raising your voice over something. I mean even Bill Cosby did a show back in the 80's talking about how he and his wife had to send of slew of "Come here. (normal voice) Come here. (A little louder) Come here! (A little loud...
by AllForThisSite
Mon Nov 14, 2005 3:57 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: TO: FRUSTRATED, LOST, & DAZEEMAY
Replies: 6
Views: 1075

TO: FRUSTRATED, LOST, & DAZEEMAY

Wouldn't you like to know that Mr. Jerk and Mrs. Dominator that called CPS on my husband about my son because they were "sooo concerned" have not done anything since that call? Me and Mrs. Dominator had a nice chat over the weekend about it. She told my son he was not allowed to return until the cas...
by AllForThisSite
Mon Nov 14, 2005 3:42 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Have Your OR Would You?
Replies: 66
Views: 8704

When it comes down to someone calling CPS, my thing is simply that if you know something serious is going on--say in your family or one of your friends--alert a responsible family member first. I mean, if I were doing something someone thought I shouldn't be doing I'd like for that person to either ...
by AllForThisSite
Sat Nov 12, 2005 3:27 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Have Your OR Would You?
Replies: 66
Views: 8704

CPS takes children away and that is very serious business. Their reporting system should not be so simple as to allow someone to make calls and cause someone to lose their children based on too many reports or too many lies. If CPS is in the business to call what they do legal, make it legal! Have t...

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