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by debbiescalese
Tue Jan 20, 2009 1:02 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: The after fall of Having your right terminated
Replies: 8
Views: 1591

If the adoption is final meaning all papers signed and judge gave approval then it is as if your sister gave birth to him and you can no longer appeal. You only have the time from when the TPR goes through to the adoption goes through to do the appeal. Sorry your going through this though it has to ...
by debbiescalese
Sat Jan 17, 2009 2:46 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Taxes
Replies: 8
Views: 1540

See that is why I would ask the irs not the social worker. Since your providing them with most things not them it might be different. Usually like for divorce situations it has to either be in a court order that the ncp can claim them or it is whoever has them more than half the year. Seriously call...
by debbiescalese
Sat Jan 17, 2009 11:05 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Taxes
Replies: 8
Views: 1540

who ever had the kids 6 months out of the year. Yes I think the foster parents can claim them if they had legal physical custody of the kids for 6 mos out of the year. I would call the irs or go to irs.gov and look it up just to be sure though. Have they been with the same fp for the whole time?
by debbiescalese
Sat Jan 17, 2009 3:54 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Nancy Hey, VA, and Recent Legislative Hearings -
Replies: 13
Views: 2249

Momoffor that was exactly what I was thinking there was probably just as much hight between a crib with the rail down as there would be with a bassenett. There were other things in it that were just as simular nothing was dangerous. Infact years ago fifty something years ago when my aunt was born my...
by debbiescalese
Fri Jan 16, 2009 11:03 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Not sure where this would go..
Replies: 10
Views: 2021

I don't understand why the worker is so intent on getting in there. Any of the workers who ever came out were more intrested in my kids rooms They basically just peaked in there on the walk through and that was it. They didn't even enter the threshold just looked in and went on to the kids rooms. Th...
by debbiescalese
Fri Jan 16, 2009 10:45 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Nancy Hey, VA, and Recent Legislative Hearings -
Replies: 13
Views: 2249

A while back I read some of Nancy's legal papers and court reports that she let me. The justifications they used to take the baby or shall I say keep the baby were common mistakes of a first time mother or just totally out there. Reading it I found myself thinking "I've done that" "what is wrong wit...
by debbiescalese
Tue Jan 13, 2009 5:39 am
Forum: In the News
Topic: Boy missing for 10 years from adoptive family
Replies: 0
Views: 514

Boy missing for 10 years from adoptive family

http://news.aol.com/article/hunt-begins-for-boy-missing-10-years/294287?icid=200100397x1216871157x1201070798 WICHITA, Kan. (Jan. 7) - No one claims to know what happened that summer in 1999 when 11-year-old Adam Herrman disappeared from the mobile home park where he lived with his adoptive parents. ...
by debbiescalese
Sun Jan 11, 2009 11:59 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: In your face CPS!!
Replies: 6
Views: 1221

That was how I got cps. The psych eval from the shrink they sent me to had a report that was vastly different from the one from that I had done with the place my daughter had therapy at for over a year and 1/2. So much of a difference they had to throw out the result from the one they did. I also ha...
by debbiescalese
Sun Jan 11, 2009 11:48 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: AM I ON THE RIGHT SITE?
Replies: 5
Views: 1303

Usually when a mother has their rights terminated to one child they don't let them have any future kids they might give birth to. They also try to place the siblings together so they would try to place your niece with her sister first. It will be harder to gain custody if the child is placed with th...
by debbiescalese
Sun Jan 11, 2009 8:34 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: A bit of info re: treatment of pregnant women and mothers
Replies: 2
Views: 804

this is one topic that makes no sense to me. US law is that a mother can abort her fetus at any point in the pregnancy. Most state the max time put on this is 24-26 weeks but a doctor that can do this later can be found it is just harder. So if mothers can basically "kill" the fetus how can they be ...
by debbiescalese
Sun Jan 11, 2009 8:09 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Is Anyone Else Frustrated By This?
Replies: 4
Views: 996

I understand talking to lawyers and being told your not the typical family involved with cps. I too have a bachlors degree, higher than average IQ, Stay home with my kids, don't do drugs or drink and so forth. CPS doesn't just target the "poor" they target the "poor enough" those who can't pay $25,0...
by debbiescalese
Sun Dec 14, 2008 6:16 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Just something I thought was funny
Replies: 8
Views: 1444

yep that is exactly it they can see things in any number of places that we as children did not have access to or just weren't around. In fact Momoffor I had a simular experience. School called for my daughters latest attention fest telling me that she was trying to cut herself with of all things a p...
by debbiescalese
Sat Dec 13, 2008 7:12 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: don't know if anybody remembers but...
Replies: 1
Views: 535

don't know if anybody remembers but...

The origional lawyer I had on my case did nothing. Charged a $1500 retainer then never showed up and charged us more because of the phone calls he made due to not showing up at court. Seriously the man pissed away $1500 on phone calls and charged another 300 on the final bill he sent us because he s...
by debbiescalese
Sat Dec 13, 2008 6:55 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Just something I thought was funny
Replies: 8
Views: 1444

Re: Just something I thought was funny

There is only a few things holding up my case. 1. They have to determine if an 8 year old can lie. Double murder case in Arizona. 8 Year old child shot his father and the fathers roommate then LIED and said someone else did and he stumbled in on it. Later, confessed to doing it. (If it was coached ...
by debbiescalese
Fri Dec 12, 2008 9:44 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Just something I thought was funny
Replies: 8
Views: 1444

"1. They have to determine if an 8 year old can lie." I'm sorry but I was cracking up when I read that. Have they never met an 8 year old before??? My 2 year old when i ask "did you do that?" will say no when I saw him do it. 8 yr olds come up with some whoppers! UMmm mykids have chores too and when...
by debbiescalese
Fri Nov 07, 2008 3:11 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: How to remove name from Child Abuse Central Index?
Replies: 6
Views: 1323

It's not just jobs with kids it is also jobs with older people like in nursing homes also some federal jobs you won't be able to get. Now say you want to work in someplace like in retail it isn't going to matter.
by debbiescalese
Fri Nov 07, 2008 6:11 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: After your case was closed have you ever ran into your...
Replies: 3
Views: 931

After your case was closed have you ever ran into your...

worker in public. I did yesterday the one who started the whole mess and screwed up the case pretty bad. I went to the parent teachers conf last night for the school. They usually set it up so just about every service in the comunity is there to promote themself. Well right between the right from th...
by debbiescalese
Fri Oct 17, 2008 4:32 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Court Appointed lawyer fees
Replies: 3
Views: 971

We paid for our own lawyer but I will tell you we had no expences beyon that for court fees.
by debbiescalese
Fri Oct 17, 2008 4:29 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Vindictive Neighbor Called The Police And Reported Us To CPS
Replies: 51
Views: 8658

I wen't through this as well from a girl who called on her own brother.... repeatedly never to have an actual case come from it. What I suggest is to carry a recorder on you at all times when she does open her mouth take it out and record. Also when you get confirmation from cps they aren't opening ...
by debbiescalese
Sun Oct 12, 2008 5:06 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: How do I reunite with my family?
Replies: 13
Views: 2515

Sadly I find this statement to be true. Emotional abuse is a title they stick on a case when they don't have anything else ..why ... it can't be proven or disproven. Also we too are a single income family. The socail worker flat out told my daughter 12 at the time she didn't like coming to the house...
by debbiescalese
Sun Sep 07, 2008 5:56 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: problems with my case , could use advice !
Replies: 10
Views: 1981

Schools are responcible for providing a safe env. for it's students if somebody is bulling your child and reporting it to the school doesn't help there is the school board, the superentendant and yes you can call the cops and press assult charges on the bully. You could also call cps on the school I...
by debbiescalese
Sun Sep 07, 2008 5:38 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: being pushed into a consent order, Advice?
Replies: 2
Views: 673

momoffor is correct it is a catch 22 from the moment they come to your door your guilty even if you arent sometimes the best and quickest way to get through this is to just jump the hoops and make them go away. To give you an example back in 04 two girls I went to college with called cps on me with ...
by debbiescalese
Thu Aug 28, 2008 12:57 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: I am pretty new here.....but I think CPS is insane
Replies: 6
Views: 1286

They screw you over once, put your own kids in jepordy, and now your wondering if you should take more kids? Yep your crazy. I understand why you do it. I know many foster parents. But once bitten twice shy!
by debbiescalese
Thu Aug 21, 2008 1:08 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Advice for Court Ordered Psychological Evaluation Please?
Replies: 12
Views: 2326

1) you have the right to have the psych eval done by a person of your choosing even if they are paying for it!! don't go to one of thier choosing. They usually do a hatchet job for cps. 2) find somebody in your area that had one done there and see what thier opinion of that evaluator is. * remember ...
by debbiescalese
Tue Aug 19, 2008 12:15 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Quick question
Replies: 5
Views: 1048

Quick question

Somebody I was talking to is having a hell of a time. She got her kids back and the state wants back child support paid. She is in NC was homeless and to get the kids back she had to get a home blah blah and she did. Now they want something like $4000 from her. She doesn't have it. So they are threa...

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