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by Momoffor
Fri Jul 09, 2010 9:08 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Hello from T.B.
Replies: 47
Views: 6814

Re: Hello from T.B.

go to the court house and get copies of them yourself. That way you know exactly what it is you are dealing with and what codes they are using against you. If you were set up for 12 month plans, but they didnt grandfather you for the 6 month plans, you can get them for failure to make a reasonable e...
by Momoffor
Thu Jul 08, 2010 8:53 pm
Forum: Websites
Topic: Child Abuse Registry Hits Stumbling Block
Replies: 3
Views: 916

Re: Child Abuse Registry Hits Stumbling Block

London, You need t find out who your state has in charge of the registry, and then research how to do a request for a search on your name in the registry. I found a request for such a search for Virginia awhile back to do one on myself, but then they want your current address, phone number who lives...
by Momoffor
Thu Jul 08, 2010 8:37 pm
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Assaulted father, CPS threatens Neglect!
Replies: 8
Views: 1588

Re: Assaulted father, CPS threatens Neglect!

AZDave, To get back on point with your post. Is she going through ANY kind of drug treatment facility other than the detention center? The D-home (as it was called back when) is easier to get drugs and participate in other illegal activities than at home. Perhaps get her out of the Detention center,...
by Momoffor
Thu Jul 08, 2010 8:22 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: MEDIATION CASE PLAN - SEVERENCE ARIZONA
Replies: 3
Views: 907

Re: MEDIATION CASE PLAN - SEVERENCE ARIZONA

Do you have a lawyer yet? How is the 4 year old doing?
by Momoffor
Thu Jul 08, 2010 8:07 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Hello from T.B.
Replies: 47
Views: 6814

Re: Hello from T.B.

Do you have copies of the court transcripts ?? Is there a state code listed on them?
by Momoffor
Mon Jul 05, 2010 10:31 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I SPANKED my child open hand being accused of abuse!
Replies: 65
Views: 8945

Re: I SPANKED my child open hand being accused of abuse!

Be careful about those 'guidelines' from another area. I did something like that in my situation. At the time, Fairfax VA was the only county in VA that even had any guidelines and was the only county in the Nation that had complied with Federal Regulation. It stated that children from I think it wa...
by Momoffor
Mon Jul 05, 2010 10:06 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: Hello
Replies: 61
Views: 7788

Re: Hello

Can they force us or can the judge force us to take parenting classes or meet with a parental counselor if it is not in the case plan we all signed? The judge only ordered us to do the case plan we had signed and its been done 100% I see this attempt to get us to do parenting classes or whatever as...
by Momoffor
Mon Jul 05, 2010 9:48 pm
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: My sister-in-law is being criminally charged for abuse
Replies: 3
Views: 702

Re: My sister-in-law is being criminally charged for abuse

DO NOT let her Plea. If all they have for criminal court is what you mentioned, it should be blown out of the water with experts. They are putting so much pressure on her because they WANT her to plea. As stated before, if she takes a plea, it will only make it worse for her. Not only in the future,...
by Momoffor
Sat Jul 03, 2010 9:18 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I SPANKED my child open hand being accused of abuse!
Replies: 65
Views: 8945

Re: I SPANKED my child open hand being accused of abuse!

The state claims that he had belt marks on the left AND right thighs (3 red marks) - HOW DOES A CHILD GET BELT MARKS ON BOTH SIDES? I mean, someone would have to flip their wrist, turn the kid, or switch hands right? Who does that? Just wondering what you guys think! Thats easy. While you were beat...
by Momoffor
Tue Jun 29, 2010 6:05 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I SPANKED my child open hand being accused of abuse!
Replies: 65
Views: 8945

Re: I SPANKED my child open hand being accused of abuse!

Why should you have to worry about making your lawyer upset?? She works For YOU (well, in theory....). If you disagree about something that your lawyer is doing, you have the right to speak your mind! However, with what you said about this judge when your parents were trying to force a guardianship....
by Momoffor
Tue Jun 29, 2010 5:53 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: My story, need advice plz help
Replies: 15
Views: 2834

Re: My story, need advice plz help

If your fiance moves in with his parents, and CPS removes your son, he will go to foster care. Its picking the lesser of 2 evils here.
by Momoffor
Tue Jun 29, 2010 5:51 am
Forum: Newcomers - Welcome to the site - please sign in here
Topic: New to the group
Replies: 2
Views: 587

Re: New to the group

Can you help us out with a little more information. Allegations, ect.
by Momoffor
Mon Jun 28, 2010 2:35 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: My story, need advice plz help
Replies: 15
Views: 2834

Re: My story, need advice plz help

I agree with camb. If they are as well off as you say, they can fight to get your son. BUT, if CPS dont want you with your son, that would mean that you cant be living with your parents. I still dont get why they are already pushing for TPR. What does your lawyer say about this and is he going to br...
by Momoffor
Mon Jun 28, 2010 2:25 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Our Nightmare Mess
Replies: 4
Views: 893

Re: Our Nightmare Mess

Do a guardianship for that grandmother as long as you ABSOLUTELY trust her. (By this I mean if it comes down to it and you give your child to this person, is there no shadow of a doubt that she will give your child back when it comes time!) As far as a lawyer, there isnt a case for CPS YET. They are...
by Momoffor
Mon Jun 28, 2010 5:27 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: My story, need advice plz help
Replies: 15
Views: 2834

Re: My story, need advice plz help

Let me get this straight, they are already pushing for a TPR after 4 months when you were not the 'abuser"??? This past that you speak of, have you had children taken from you and/or TPR'd before? The reason that they want you to separate is because in their eyes he is an abuser, with you stand...
by Momoffor
Sun Jun 27, 2010 1:52 am
Forum: Round Table
Topic: Illegal aliens
Replies: 0
Views: 345

Illegal aliens

Here is how they are getting illegal aliens kids now..... Just read a case where the father is illegal, and the mother had passed away. They removed children from the home for basically failure to protect. CPS in the TPR hearing stated that part of his reunification plan was he had to prove he was w...
by Momoffor
Sun Jun 27, 2010 12:38 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: PLEASE, NEED HELP NOW!!!
Replies: 21
Views: 3677

Re: PLEASE, NEED HELP NOW!!!

I would like to know who questioned the 10 year old to determine that she had been sex abused. She had to be interviewed for them to decide that she had. Check into the laws and see if there is a law requiring CPS and/or police to have taped interviews when it comes to criminal matters. This prevent...
by Momoffor
Sun Jun 27, 2010 12:30 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Ignore the paperwork, go after the blatant crime....
Replies: 7
Views: 1490

Re: Ignore the paperwork, go after the blatant crime....

I see what it is that you are trying to get across, but I suggest that you take the deadly force part out of it. We do not condone that here, and the meaning can get twisted with what you are trying to say. There are social workers that come here and you know how they like to twist around peoples wo...
by Momoffor
Sun Jun 27, 2010 12:27 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Our Story
Replies: 170
Views: 21605

Re: Our Story

I would ask in court next time, if you are going to court as to define what he did that was wrong. So you know ...in the future he can make sure that he doesnt do it again and all. That way they can also explain to the judge what it is exactly and then ask what was used to determine this was 'founde...
by Momoffor
Fri Jun 25, 2010 4:12 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: Our Story
Replies: 170
Views: 21605

Re: Our Story

inappropriate huh? Just how was he 'inappropriate' with her?! Good one. So I take it there was no evidence of anything and no criminal charges are coming out of this. Its amazing how horrily they can twist things the way they want them and destroy lives. Stand your ground on the camp thing. I am so ...
by Momoffor
Fri Jun 25, 2010 6:29 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I SPANKED my child open hand being accused of abuse!
Replies: 65
Views: 8945

Re: I SPANKED my child open hand being accused of abuse!

I've noticed on my son's behavioral reports from school (during the school year, he gets daily reports sent home), when he has a melt down, it is almost ALWAYS within an hour after having lunch. That's when his most violent outbursts usually happen, where the teacher has to remove the other student...
by Momoffor
Fri Jun 25, 2010 6:16 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: I SPANKED my child open hand being accused of abuse!
Replies: 65
Views: 8945

Re: I SPANKED my child open hand being accused of abuse!

The gum had aspartame. My oldest son cannot have aspartame or any type of artificial sweeteners at all or else he will get sick with flu like symptoms. His GI doc said that its fairly common. Gum drinks ...anything ..I felt like a fool because for months he would tell me when he wasnt feeling well ...
by Momoffor
Fri Jun 25, 2010 6:06 am
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: How to protect against threats of false allegations
Replies: 5
Views: 1117

Re: How to protect against threats of false allegations

I would also go and file a police report once she has recorded it stating that she is being blackmailed by this person. Just so its on file with the police too. AND bring it up in eviction court. ANY and EVERYWHERE possible. That way when it comes down to it, the relative is going to be in a heap of...
by Momoffor
Thu Jun 24, 2010 10:21 pm
Forum: CPS Investigations
Topic: How to protect against threats of false allegations
Replies: 5
Views: 1117

Re: How to protect against threats of false allegations

Im with dazee ....have her record these threats, and then go to court and file a notice of eviction once she has the proof this person keeps threatening that. Also record the reaction once the eviction is filed as well. Perhaps if there is a comment line in the eviction paperwork she can put that do...
by Momoffor
Wed Jun 23, 2010 5:51 pm
Forum: Sue Them!
Topic: Child Abuse and Neglect Registry (Nebraska)
Replies: 15
Views: 2707

Re: Child Abuse and Neglect Registry (Nebraska)

BTW the Response that the ACLU sent you that they are too busy with the immigration law shows the standard they set. They are more concerned with the rights of non US citizens more than the rights of US Citizens. Go figure.

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