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call their bluff. one of my kids tried to threaten me with it once. he was acting horrible and i told him i was going to spank him and then ground him. well, he decided to pop off that he was going to report me so i followed through and i told him that if he wanted to go back to living in foster hom...

i can tell you this at least..they are a bunch of nazis! when our case in oklahoma was closed, and we had left state to springfield missouri..our neighbors decided they didnt like us for whatever reason and called them on us..they came by a couple times and i wasnt home. well, i found their card and...

i remember when they took my kids, my youngest at the time was 6 months old..by the time they gave them back (this particular time!!) he was about a year and 2 months..he wanted nothing to do with us.he would shriek if we came into view, he wouldn't let me hold him or anything. we ended up having to...

call in a report of suspected neglect about their foster parents then. i did it on a number of occasions. whats good for us is just as good for them, i think.

when i had mine done (and im guessing this is unusual) they said that i was perfectly normal and didnt need services.. sometimes you can get an honest person on your side but it seems like for every honest person, you get at least 10 that will lie right through their teeth.

they took my boy, who was only 7 at the time and totally freaked out from being torn away from his family and put him on seroquel because he had "tourettes syndrome"!!! i finally had to leave the state with him to get a real doctor to check him out because they wanted to charge me with neglect for n...

i was pregnant twice when my kids were in dhs custody and not only did they not take them, they didnt even notice that i had them or anything, no physical custody or any of that. but what you could do is go out of state for a while to have it.. because when you come back, they cant automatically tak...

if i were you, i would temporarily leave your husband, get a place on your own and tell him that he is welcome back when he can maintain a job. that would really help out your situation because if you dont have a viable income coming in, there is no way they will return your children. you could get ...

i live in oklahoma, and i know what you mean. what i did, and what got me results was emailing the state director. he was actually helpful, which is unusual for them. you can pm me if you want, i might be able to help you.

i would be worried too, but from what ive seen at least around here anyways they arent as interested in taking teenagers as they are cute little babies and small children. i cant wait until all of my kids hit the 13 year old mark!

i dont think it is abuse, but i think that it was a bit harsh of a punishment.

can you contact his landlord? im sure that he wouldnt like that many people in a 1 bedroom apartment because if i remember right, he can get fined or shut down if he knows about it.

i remember in my parenting class, we had to verbalize every word that had to do with having sex or the sex organs. why, i have no clue and i flat out refused to do it. i cant imagine forcing an older person (or younger for that matter) to go through that. the best part was that we found out at the e...

isnt that the truth!
i think you hit the nail on the head with that one.

can they even bring up stuff from a closed case, legally???
how retarded, and what a waste of taxpayers money!
i hope they leave you alone soon

strangely enough, my case plans have always been easy because they only required things that we were doing anyways, like my husband working, having a house etc etc.. the problem was with them saying that, even though they had no problem tearing my kids away from me in the most abrupt manner possible...

not to be mean or anything at all but i have 6 kids and there is no way on earth i would go to sleep while they were awake.. two year olds are notorious for getting into trouble when they get the chance. that would be good if you can get her kids because if dhs gets them, it will take forever in get...

a looong time ago, when i was served with court papers saying that they would terminate my rights, i didnt know what to do...we had to keep going to court up until the trial date. then at the last minute, i had my attorney tell the judge that i would agree to most of what they were saying if they wo...

if i were you..have the local police do a "welfare check" on the kids some evening when you know hes there.

can you homeschool her? that might be the best way to go.

oh, she didnt mind talking to him at home..in fact when she did it was only to ask if he was home on the day that this happened.
its been dropped now at least and she closed the case so im very happy

that was one thing that was different..she wanted to talk to my husband.. but after he told her he was at work that day she dropped it.

oh no, i wasnt saying that im going along. quite the contrary. they have seen my kids and house and that is it, as far as im concerned. i told his therapist that no one is to talk to him or see him without consulting me first. also, ive refused their services. i lost my kids for 3 years and had to p...

well here, in oklahoma there is "services recommended" and "confirmed, services recommended" i made sure it was the former which means no abuse or neglect was found. and as for not putting him in the first place, that was due to transportation problems and we got a call from the place he was on a wa...

thanks for the advice! honestly, i dont know where i would be without this forum, it has kept me from having a nervous breakdown.
strange enough..she still hasnt called anyone..or me..or anything.
oh well, i dont mind being a low priority for her