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well you gave me the idea too.. because i thought more and i realised that once i was dealing with whoever she referred me to, it would be next to impossible to switch. and the fact that she knew that we had refused his services so fast was a huge red flag to me. the case isnt closed...to my knowled...

oh i know! i remember delivering all the gifts i had in layaway to the dhs office for them to take to the kids...i almost died on the spot from that pain.. because thats when we thought they were gone forever. and to make it worse...they took credit for the gifts! well, this morning i got a call fro...

oh i know.. i wouldnt trust them as far as i could throw them , but im pretty sure its ok. im just horribly glad that i homeschool so at least i dont have that worry on my back. i just wish they would leave everyone alone..my worst memory is going to the courthouse on the week before christmas(our c...

she came out...and handed me a list of area therapists and thats about it. she said that there are no indications of abuse or neglect and thats what was going on her report..we spent most of the time talking about her kids, and how she wanted to get him a puppy for christmas. she said i had a lovely...

i hope so!!! thank you for replying because to be honest...im freaking out here. im just horribly lucky my house was spotless today. usually there is school stuff strung everywhere.

oh i know..thats why i homeschool because they are really bad in the schools.. the clinic she was going to refer me to was run by dhs but the one i contacted today is not. but really..they are everywhere. she said about my husband, that she just had to talk to everyone that lived here..she asked rea...

what i meant was that i thought they only saw adults. but the clinic that i originally wanted him to go to let me know about this place seeing kids now. yes, i plan on telling her that weve got therapy set up starting on thursday and we no longer need the referral. because i looked it up and the pla...

well that was quick! i just made him an appointment with a clinic right by our house! i didnt even know that they saw children until i called the place that has our son on a waiting list. im wondering if i should go over tomorrow early in the morning to get some sort of proof that he has an appointm...

oh i can relate... i lost all of my kids for 4 years back in 99 and it was total hell. but that worker was a rabid freak.. she wanted to know everything about my family...she didnt ask my kids names or anything. very weird. i get a good feeling from her but im not just going to welcome her into my f...

i am making an appointment with a therapist of my own choosing.
ha! now she has no reason to get any more personal info about us.
thanks!

she told me that i dont have to sign anything, thats shes just giving them my number.. i dont know..ive dealt with a lot of these people and i just didnt get a bad feeling from her..meaning that i dont see her going overboard or anything. it could also be that my kids werent exactly forthcoming with...

well heres the deal.... dhs came out today because of my older son. i was trying to have him placed in a facility in another city but we backed out at the last minute. they called them to make sure he was getting some sort of mental treatment. they focused on him having a knife and threatening to ki...

i tried that once..they wouldnt speak to me
so i showed up at his office!!

well i thought about it and i think that any place that provides this sort of care for people on medicaid has some connection to dhs, since they love to put kids in hospitals for all kinds of imagined problems. im just so uncomfortable with all this. my child really needs help, ive tried everything ...

you know what?? you are right! i shouldnt be worried because no one has even called in a report, im just imagining scenarios that could possibly happen. and as long as im doing what i need to do i should be ok. i dont know why, it just seems like i kind of snapped last year when they came out again....

thank you for the advice! but the vacation isnt really a vacation..if they try to investigate us again me and the kids are going to "disappear" for a while. i just dont trust them and after losing them for 3 years and having to agree to all kinds of horrible things i just cant help but be worried. i...

thats the thing...cps isnt involved at all right now. im just terrified at the thought of them being involved again. he just mentioned this to my sons therapist. im just afraid that they might think we are bad parents or something and call in on us or anything..honestly i think im the one who needs ...

ive no one to do it with :( the plan is almost the same..if they try anything, well the kids and i are on vacation out of state with friends..but do you think that 9 months later the worker is still looking for us? she never actually called my husbands work or our house..or anything. i think im just...

maybe i am paranoid...i just checked to see how he is doing and they didnt act weird or anything. maybe im just reading into things too much.

oh god i can see it now.. we had to place one of our sons in a group home for treatment because hes been having alot of emotional problems. well, first off this boy is always threatening to call dhs on us. i dont think he would but of course my husband brought it up during the intake process!!! i co...

i would do it. they didnt have alot on me and we moved. they never even checked my husbands work or anything. i wouldnt tell anyone, just up and move.

im not too worried. maybe i should be but there is no way i was going to let them talk to my kids or even see them. they dont know where we are.. they never called my husbands workplace either. from what i read from their handbook if they cant locate the parents they file it as "unable to locate". a...

you are right.. all it would take is for someone to take down my name and number... i just wish there was something i could do. ive met so many people going through this, and when we had to go to court about our kids, there were so many moms and dads that would leave crying because they werent getti...

i was thinking of maybe like printing up something with my number on it and basically saying i want to start a support group for parents going though this crap and sneaking into the welfare office and tacking it to this big board they have in the waiting area. is that to ballsy at this point??

thanks for all the replys! i havent heard a thing since weve moved and i really think we did the best thing in moving. but just in case this happens again, i have my homeschooling stuff in order along with a copy of the statutes printed out and everything. i really think we dodged a bullet on this o...