WILL this get me another CPS Visit?
Posted: Tue Oct 18, 2005 6:01 pm
Just now, the Police came to my House for my Son 12 yrs old, for breaking Town Property, A Town Bus Stop Glass were shattered into pieces where they call it horsing around throwing rocks at each other with several other Boys. Now the Police had a talk with my Son and has to pay $350.00 in damages. Police is going to ask the Town to give him Community Services to work it off in paying the damages. The other Boys are doing the same.
The question is AM I going to get another CPS Visit because of this incident? Police said that my Son already has three strikes with the Law, and now one more time, he ends up at the Police Station in Jail since he is now 12 yrs old. I don't know if my Son is acting up or because of his mental disorder.
The FUNNY thing is that the Police woman almost yelled at my Son for his idiocy in breaking Town Property, not once, but three times. She told him to be responsible for his actions and pay for this crime. I mean she yelled at him so that must be "Emotional Harm" right there. I will tell CPS when she gets here that the Police yelled at him for breaking Town Property. NOW am I at fault?! He is Grounded, that is for sure! I am sure CPS will find me at fault for my son's actions. yup...I am a bad Parent. I do feel that CPS will be coming to my door fairly soon! If not, then there is something wrong with CPS. I told CPS three months ago how can you control a dequilenet? Her answer? "I don't know how"!
IF THEY DON'T KNOW HOW, THEN DON'T TELL ME ON HOW'S TO....I am learning as a Parent to find ways to get it under control. I have learned new Discipline called Magic 1-2-3 by Dr. PHelan, which is supposedly to stop his behaviour right away. CPS did NOTHING and I am still waiting for Counselling, it has been a Month! OH sorry, Two months! Investigation still on-going, and did not tell me whether the case is closed or not....it has been almost 90 days coming November 3rd. There are no letters, nothing...except they send me the last letter which is about four weeks ago saying I am under an "impression" of Emotional harm to my Son. They don't like my Doctor Report saying he has Oppositional Defiant Disorder. He had it since 18 months old....now they say it NOW that he is 12 yrs old! (12 yrs later?) They already knew he had a problem, but they are trying to put the problem on me! So it was ME< that broke Town Windows, eh? I did NOT, my SON did...surely he has to learn of his consquences. Grounded to his Room all weekend. That would be the end of it. He is home Monday thru Friday on School nights and are not allowed to go out, but weekends he can go out given that he don't cause trouble and to let me know where he is at at all times and to follow a curfew time. Really pissed me off when CPS thinks everything is my FAULT! I had enough of them. Boy, I hear Teenagers are more difficult to go through. CANNOT WAIT! (grinning with rubbing hands). because I will be ready to Parent. I AM A GOOD PARENT! No matter how they think of me. I know the Truth. CPS thinks Negative, I think Positive and that is the Attitude that every Parents should be anyways, POSITIVE.
The question is AM I going to get another CPS Visit because of this incident? Police said that my Son already has three strikes with the Law, and now one more time, he ends up at the Police Station in Jail since he is now 12 yrs old. I don't know if my Son is acting up or because of his mental disorder.
The FUNNY thing is that the Police woman almost yelled at my Son for his idiocy in breaking Town Property, not once, but three times. She told him to be responsible for his actions and pay for this crime. I mean she yelled at him so that must be "Emotional Harm" right there. I will tell CPS when she gets here that the Police yelled at him for breaking Town Property. NOW am I at fault?! He is Grounded, that is for sure! I am sure CPS will find me at fault for my son's actions. yup...I am a bad Parent. I do feel that CPS will be coming to my door fairly soon! If not, then there is something wrong with CPS. I told CPS three months ago how can you control a dequilenet? Her answer? "I don't know how"!
IF THEY DON'T KNOW HOW, THEN DON'T TELL ME ON HOW'S TO....I am learning as a Parent to find ways to get it under control. I have learned new Discipline called Magic 1-2-3 by Dr. PHelan, which is supposedly to stop his behaviour right away. CPS did NOTHING and I am still waiting for Counselling, it has been a Month! OH sorry, Two months! Investigation still on-going, and did not tell me whether the case is closed or not....it has been almost 90 days coming November 3rd. There are no letters, nothing...except they send me the last letter which is about four weeks ago saying I am under an "impression" of Emotional harm to my Son. They don't like my Doctor Report saying he has Oppositional Defiant Disorder. He had it since 18 months old....now they say it NOW that he is 12 yrs old! (12 yrs later?) They already knew he had a problem, but they are trying to put the problem on me! So it was ME< that broke Town Windows, eh? I did NOT, my SON did...surely he has to learn of his consquences. Grounded to his Room all weekend. That would be the end of it. He is home Monday thru Friday on School nights and are not allowed to go out, but weekends he can go out given that he don't cause trouble and to let me know where he is at at all times and to follow a curfew time. Really pissed me off when CPS thinks everything is my FAULT! I had enough of them. Boy, I hear Teenagers are more difficult to go through. CANNOT WAIT! (grinning with rubbing hands). because I will be ready to Parent. I AM A GOOD PARENT! No matter how they think of me. I know the Truth. CPS thinks Negative, I think Positive and that is the Attitude that every Parents should be anyways, POSITIVE.