Our children are 9, 7, 3, and 2. They questioned my husband and myself seperately, then I had to bring each child out seperately while they questioned them and took a mugshot of them. They did a brief look around the house, which was spotless. I asked them if they wanted to look in the fridge, they declined. He said everything looked very nice.
My husband drinks 2 or 3 times a YEAR and he is not a heavy drinker when he does. He is certainly not a coke user and we do not abuse our children in any way. Be it right or wrong though, my husband does smoke pot on occassion, which he voluntarily admitted to the case worker. My husband has cancer and lets just say this helps him sometimes. He is a responsible man in upper management. He's not that stereo type "pothead" image you so often see. I do not use it and do not judge the thousands that do. My husband took a drug test to proove that he does not do coccaine or any other drugs aside from pot. Stupidily thinking in the eyes of the law that one is better than the other. Our second mistake I presume. He passed everything except for pot. CPS left, said to try and relax. They have to investigate all reports, everything looked fine and if anything they may recommend some services for my husband. That said, 2 weeks passed, we heard nothing. Then CPS called our 2 references we gave to them and the next day we got a call from an agency that received a refferal to do an evaluation on my husband. I gave my husband the message and he proceeded to call and leave a message on the ladies voice mail for a week and a half. Finally this week, she calls back, she's been sick. She wants him to come in to do an evaluation. He's to set aside 2 hours of his time, He will be drug tested again and they will go over his past history. She said, before he leaves she will be able to tell him if she is going to recommend counseling to CPS. I feel like everything we do is the wrong thing. I read and hear all of the horror stories of how they dig and twist things. The lady did say that the evaluation is not mandatory. My husband can decline in. The lady said she would just report back to CPS that we declined the evaluation. So, should he take it or is it in our better interest to decline it? What will they do then? We are just devastated that our parenting and integrity is being invaded. We are 99% sure of who did this to us. Someone who has actually done the allegations she is claiming of us. Why don't they investigate the validity of the caller first? That could save alot of people the pain and stress this creates for your family. Everyone else in our lives will vouch for the kind of people we are. The school, our church, our friends and family are all behind us, but it doesn't seem like that matters in these cases. Our children are our life and we take pride in the way we raise them. They are great in school, polite. They have everything they could want and it's so obvious to anyone that knows them they are not abused. They are happy kids. We are just sick that this is happening. It's not right that anyone can call and destroy your lives like this. I feel like they are jjust digging at the only thing they could prove to be true. If not for that, this would probably be over already. Guess we get to learn the hard way
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All because of the Abuse Registry, and the Abuse Registry is good up to 50 years still. WE need to ABOLISH this Abuse Registry all together, BECAUSE it is not a Perfect CRIMINAL RECORD< it is ALL HEARSAY! AND NO EVIDENCE! That is what makes our Country Dangerous, because they can go against you with almost no evidence whatsoever. 
I also voted on Nevada's medical pot legalization thingee. Why is a joint worse than a couple of snorts of whiskey? I've heard pot won't give one a hangover. 