Update?!
Posted: Wed Mar 07, 2007 4:55 pm
i went to court today, it was really wierd. our cps worker actually stepped forward and stood up for us, but the judge would not budge. she is giving them their year to finish all the counseling and other things. we have been ordered to have family counseling, which was my idea because this is really tearing all of us up, my daughter is suppose to be receive individual counseling, which i have started in dec for anger issue and depression, so i didnt need a court order for that, and my husband is to take some individual counseling pending a determination that the records can remain sealed and confidential and that nothing said in counseling can be used against him. sounds kinda fishy to me, but we get to be around each other at church and at counseling which takes place in my home. so we made a baby step, i guess. i was really floored by the cps worker, she stepped forward and told the judge and her attorney that we are good loving parents who took in a sick child and tried to love her and in her mind she has created a fantasy of a sexual relationship with my husband. our home has no dangers and is very clean. we are supportive parents and that i am a fighter for my children. i do not back down and i am a very good mother and my husband is a very patient caring man who loves all his children dearly. he is a strict disciplinary, but a gentle loving father who know each child has limits. i was really floored. the judge is the one who ordered the counceling which we were already doing anyhow becuase of my request and it is pending about the sexual offender therapy based on if records can be kept sealed. it is not like my husband will admit to it, but they want to be on the safe side because sometimes men will admit to it just to get people off thier backs, words of the judge not me. if they will not keep records sealed, she will resend order for it and just let family counseling be our means of counseling...i think this was a win in my book, but i am not sure...i am really confused by comments made by dfacs and we did not have to testify. sooooooooo what do yall think? was it a step in the right direction or am i being jerked around?