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desprate mom!!

Postby alyssadoll » Sat Jan 26, 2008 5:03 am

HI- I JUST JOINED A COUPLE WEEKS AGO. ANYWAYS- MY 2 TODDLER GIRLS 4 AND 5 (1 AND 2 WHEN DETAINED BY CA.)WERE DETAINRD CUZ OF" DOMES.VIOLENCE" THAT WAS NEVER PROVEN, CA. MOVED THEM BACK TO TEXAS WERE WE ARE FROM AND I AM STILL HERE FIGHTING 4 US,I HAVENT SEEN THEM FOR 8 MTHS. NOW. :( THE COURTS MOVED THEM WAY BEFORE MY TPR (JAN2,08)MY S.WORKER WAS TOTALLY AGAINST ME FROM DAY 1, WHICH I DID NOTIFY SUPERVISOR BUT WAS TOLD I COULD NOT CHANGE S.WORKERS.S.WORKER MADE ERRONEOUS REPORTS, NEVER MADE CONTACT W/ ME , OR WOULD CALL THE DAY BEFORE MY COURT DATE TO GET INFO. LIKE B-DAYS,CLASS INFO. UPDATE . NEVER KNOWING ME PERSONALLY OR ANY INFO. GAVE RECOMMENDATION TO ADOPT MY GIRLS. NOW IM APPEALING. THIS IS GONE WAY , WAY OUT OF HAND!! TOTALLY REDICILOUS!! 2 YS. LONG!!!1 ANY SUGGESTIONS OR ANYBODY KNOW CA. LAWS OR JUST OUR (BEING AMERICAN CITIZENS!!) RIGHTS?? GOD BLESS ALL WHO ARE IN THE SAME OR WORST BOAT AS MYSELF!!!!!
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Postby Momoffor » Sat Jan 26, 2008 9:05 am

what changes are they stating that you never made?

The TPR is supposed to take place if you are unable or unwilling to make changes in the situation that led to the kids being placed in foster care.

Are they using the time the children have been in foster case against you as well?

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DESPARATE MOM!!

Postby alyssadoll » Sat Jan 26, 2008 10:55 am

YEA- THEY ARE USING THE TIME OF FOSTER CARE, THEY NEVER CLEARIFIED THEMSELVES AT THE END OR MAYBE I WAS TOO EMOTIONAL AFTER I HEARD THE WORD TERMINATE. THE REASON FIRST OFF ALL IS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, SO THEY DETAINED MY GIRLS OF ALLEGATIONS ON "FAILURE
TO PROTECT" THEY STATE THAT THEY DONT BELIEVE I HAVE CHANGED , EVEN AFTER I GOT ALL MY CERTIFICATES (MIND YOU) AND ITS BEEN AN ON GOING SITUATION IN MY LIFE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. AND MY KIDS "BEST INTEREST" W/ WERE THEY ARE NOW AT, MY X MONSTER-IN-LAWS, (WHO IS TOTALLY AGAINST ME) BUT JUST IN FOR THE $. MY KIDS ARE MISERALBLE W/ HER. WE ARE MOTHERS , IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN BY -MOTHER INSTINCTS? CUZ MY X MONSTER-IN-LAW IS OUR PHONE MONITOR (DCFS RULING) SO MY GIRLS ARE LIMITED IN WHAT THEY TELL ME. :(

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Postby Momoffor » Sat Jan 26, 2008 1:32 pm

alyssadoll wrote:YEA- THEY ARE USING THE TIME OF FOSTER CARE, THEY NEVER CLEARIFIED THEMSELVES AT THE END OR MAYBE I WAS TOO EMOTIONAL


Did you not get a copy of the court ruling/transcript? Did you not read it? Its clarified somewhere .....and its difficult to assist you with the proper channels if you cant tell us the reasons why they terminated.

They dont believe you havent changed? Changed from what?

They 'couldnt' just go from reunification to suggesting TPR and TPR all in the same trial. Have you already appealed? Or waiting for an appeals lawyer?

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Postby alyssadoll » Sat Jan 26, 2008 9:39 pm

YES, I APPEALED AS SOON AS COURT WAS OVER THE SAME DAY , FRI. I JUST GOT NOTICE OF MY APPEALLANT ATT. HE'S OUT OF SAN DIEGO. THEY DID SAY I WOULD FAIL TO PROTECT THEM AGAIN, HOW DO THEY FIGURE????? I WILL DEFINATELY GET BACK W/ YOU ON A DEFINATE ANSWER THIS WEEK. :(

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Postby alyssadoll » Mon Jan 28, 2008 4:43 pm

RETURN WOULD BE DETRIMENT ON THE KIDS ETC. THE DETETION REPORT WAS FAILURE TO PROTECT.


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