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katgotsteve
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something came up and not sure how to compute it....

Postby katgotsteve » Mon Mar 31, 2008 5:14 pm

i got a phone call this morning a little after 9. it was the sheriff's investigator that was handling our case almost two years ago.
now, he wants to interview my husband. this case occured in Aug of 2006, he was never interviewed by police only by dfacs and now they want to talk to him. i talked to my attorney she says she never heard of this so long after a case is even closed by dfacs. the investigator stated he was trying to close out some of his cases and this was an open one. it sounded like bs to me.
when he talked to my husband he told him there were new questions, then he went on to ask the same things dfacs had years ago, i pointed out none of that was new. he then brought up the kids paternal grandparents names, which made me think a little. i did a little investigation and it seem the grandparents have started asking question about me being pregnant by my husband and how it could happen when he was out of the house and about our case and stuff like that.
now this got me thinking, these people have been investigated for child molestion of a grandchild and a niece, they have a son who is prison for child molestation (my niece's father) and he is getting out this year. is it possible that they are bringing this up now? do you think they are trying to find leverage to force me to let them see the my niece? does anyone have any idea what could be happening here? if dfacs, was unable to confirm abuse, how will a criminal case pan out?

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Postby Workingmom » Tue Apr 01, 2008 11:32 pm

They are grasping for what ever they can. I've noticed that once they set a goal to completely destroy a family, that they will stop at nothing.

So yes, there is a good chance that they are going to try to use you niece's father against you.

My attorney told me that sometimes cps will go after a family for the simple fact that they do not like that family. Their logic behind why they do this never makes any sense to anyone except themselves, and those assisting them (GAL, judges, etc.).

But be on your toes. Your good to not have let your gaurd down.

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Postby katgotsteve » Thu Apr 03, 2008 5:48 am

i havent slept lately thinking about all this.
we all know that when allegations like sexual abuse are made there is really no way to disprove it, even if the child comes back and say i lied, well they have an excuse for that also.
well anyhow, my cousin is friends with the investigator. she talked to him yesterday about this and he told her if he had thought anything was up with this he would have done this two years ago and he was told by the da that someone made a call inquiring on the case and she just wanted him to do his job and investigate so all the t's are crossed and i's are dotted.
i have never talked much on here about husband's x, but she is literally crazy and she has the papers to prove it. about 15 years ago when i was dating my husband she was committed for coming after me with a gun because i would not let steve get back with her, her thoughts not mine (they were divorced). anyhow, she was classified as a homicidal maniac, psychologist words, and i was warned that she would in fact become dangerous and that her anger and hostility was pointed at me. well, i became pregnant with our first child, i was ran through the ringer, calls about it not being my husbands, calls to my doctor about taking drugs, calls in the middle of night telling me she hoped i died in childbirth along with my bastard child (yes we were married by then) and now that i have had our new baby 13 years later, things like this are happening again. i personally think that she is behind this.
there is not confidentiality associated with calling the da to tell things and look into a case. after all this blows over do you think i should call the da and inquire about this? or should i just let dead dogs lie?
the deputy told my cousin that when an allegation like this made it is hard to disprove and never really goes away even if you are innocent. he said he felt sorry for my family to have take in such a challenging child just to have turn on us. i am just stressed by this. i know my husband is innocent, but all it will take is one person to think differently and it all goes down hill from there.


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