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Postby GamerXY » Fri Dec 08, 2006 6:18 pm

Greegor,

Sorry, I only have time to answer this portion for now.

Can you confirm for me some kind of simple things?

1.
In a given week, how many investigations do
you do, and how many are for REAL abuse
like blood, broken bones, sexual abuse?


The cases I go out on may not be as many as the people I work with. As an intern, I only work three days a week. Also, I don’t carry my own cases yet. I go out with different workers on their cases. However, I do get to interact with the families as well as doing the case notes. With that said, I normally go out on one case a day and sometimes two. A lot of my time is spent driving around while trying to locate everyone in the family. So typically I get to take part in four to five investigations a week.

From my limited experience, we got a lot of allegations on neglect*, physical abuse (PA), and some sexual abuse (SA). However, the reality was that many of those calls were “bogus” unnecessary. For example, we got a lot of calls from people who were angry with their neighbors, from people who were no longer “friends,” and parents who were trying to build a case for the custody of their child(ren). Unlike the portrayal placed on CPS by many people, the people I work didn’t really take that many kids into custody. In the four months that I been there, I witnessed only three removals of children from their homes. One was removing a child from his father to his mother and the other two were voluntary. In fact, one child was glad to be removed.

What percentage do YOU think are the real
hardcore ABUSE that the public often thinks
this is all about??


I don’t really have the data to answer this question.

Most cases are incredibly BORING, right?


Haha, I don’t really categorize cases as boring or exciting. I do feel that many of the calls that we get are unnecessary. People call us to get back at their ex-spouse, neighbors, etc. We do get calls from concerned citizens who suspect abuse to be taking place. However, a lot of the calls don’t really need CPS intervention at all. Keep in mind that anybody can make an allegation. As an investigator, I am obligated to investigate the allegation.

Caseworkers live for the "memorable" cases right?
I don’t. I can say the people I work with also don’t live for that “memorable cases.” Perhaps I have not reached that burnout stage yet, but I truly believe most SWs are out there to do good. Seriously, social work is not an attractive career. We often put ourselves in hostile situations, our salary =! to other professionals with Master degree, we can’t tell our side of the story when cases go bad (HIPAA), etc. However, I don’t deny there are bad social workers out there. I suspect they are the ones that reached the burnout stage but refused to quit.
I believe most here would think CPS SWs like to keep cases open and hassle families. But seriously, that’s more work for us. Perhaps the lawyers, foster home, etc may get more money for the children in foster care but my salary will not increase if I remove more children.

These are the common reasons why most of colleagues enter Social Work:
Individuals who has been in the system, seen the flaws, and wanted to change it
Individuals who want to make a difference
Individuals who’s lives were touched by that “one” good social worker in the past
More…
According to national data from the Child Welfare League of America, investigative caseworkers' qualifications fall into the following categories:

No degree: 5 percent
Bachelor's degree, any field: 26 percent
Bachelor's degree, related field: 45 percent
Bachelor of Social Work: 14 percent
Master of Social Work: 2 percent
Other: 7 percent

http://ndas.cwla.org/

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Postby Greegor » Fri Dec 08, 2006 8:55 pm

My family has already confirmed that caseworkers
are more dictated from above than I would have guessed.
Family Rights groups have long thought that caseworkers
were getting "run" from above, but we proved it.

Supervisors two or three levels up are calling the
shots on individual cases?

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Postby anxiousmom » Sun Dec 10, 2006 4:44 pm

I know the supervisor is calling the shots in my case.

My caseworker told me it was her supervisor that decided to recommend the children be placed with their dad. I didn't know whether to believe her or not as she has lied to me about 4 times that I know of & lied to my children.

But, when the CW & supervisor came to look at my house after court, when I asked if they would continue to re-evaluate their recommendation & possibly even change their recommendation based on my continued performance, the supervisor said "Yes" (though I don't believe her....she said that before) & when I directly asked the CWker she said "I'll do what my supervisor recommends."

I've told the CWker before "Can't you think for yourself? This is YOUR case!"

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Postby GamerXY » Fri Sep 21, 2007 4:22 pm

Wow, it has been nine months already. Sorry for the late reply.
Here's a little update...

I finished my MSW and got hired by the county (in California). I started working as an official CPS SW two months ago. However, I've been there for a year (including my internship).


Greegor:
Typically, the SW makes the decision on a referral after staffing with his supervisor. However, the supervisor may ask the SW to do more for the family or change the conclusion if she feels necessary based on the findings.
According to national data from the Child Welfare League of America, investigative caseworkers' qualifications fall into the following categories:



No degree: 5 percent

Bachelor's degree, any field: 26 percent

Bachelor's degree, related field: 45 percent

Bachelor of Social Work: 14 percent

Master of Social Work: 2 percent

Other: 7 percent



http://ndas.cwla.org/

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Postby katgotsteve » Fri Sep 21, 2007 6:05 pm

i have had many experiences in the past year with social workers. as a whole you are probably right. i found that a seasoned social worker is more likely to just cough up things to bad judgement and fresh out of school one has a view they need to change the world and a text book view of raising children. i personally think that social workers need to have some experience with children, they need to be aware of behaviors associated with certain disorders, ie bipolar, schzophrenia, rad, adhd, ect., not just the base behaviors but the mania associated with alot of them, they also need to read the case files of the family they are visiting if they have one. i had a caseworker assigned to me last november, fresh out of school, her first job, we butted heads from the beginning. she came out to my home the monday before thanksgiving, her first day without reading my file. i had been in this situation for almost 3 months and she wanted me to rehash it, after she tells me that my husband who had not seen his daughter in 3 months could not spend thanksgiving with us. she then asks me if i thought my niece had seduced my husband, i could have slapped her out of the chair. then i find out that at this time, none of the allegations had been substaniated. me and her did not get along, at all. after her, i got a caseworker with 18 years under her belt, she setup visits after hours so my husband could our daughter, she kept trying to get us in court for a review, but the attorney would not take us, she kept trying to get the case closed, but kept being told, if it happened we have to stay involved. my services that were offered were counseling, not for sexual abuse or sexual offender, but for the trauma my family was going through because of the court intervention. we had a total of 4 session in a year, the court order lapse, they just closed the case. they kept blaming the judge for the prolonging of the case, stating, they would not have even intervened if the judge had not ordered it, but by law they always had the option to close the case and could have handled it differently. i lost custody of my child for 36 days, it was awful not just for me as an adult, but for child to have to be removed at the age of 11 for something that we all knew were lies, not for evidence, but for lies, because they have "err on the side of the child" a child who has accused so 3 men and 4 boys of sex with her, yet there was no physical evidence at all and no one else was ever put through this and there was not one consistant story she told. when is it going to be "err on the side of the family", when will common sense take presidence over covering asses.

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Postby Greegor » Sat Sep 22, 2007 1:20 pm

GamerXY: I am still confused because you keep referring to
CPS SW when the correct term is caseworker.
Firstly, most CPS caseworkers are NOT SW's.
Most contract SW's here in Iowa are not even licensed SW's.

I did run across one MSW working for the state agency,
and that encounter (cross exam) was a disaster for
both him and the agency.

In the same hearing I also cross examined three
caseworkers and none of them have a SW license
but one was a BSW. The one who committed the
initial perjury had actually had a SW license and per
typical SOP and to avoid accountability let it lapse.

Has California begun to require that caseworkers must
have SW licenses? If you were a caseworker here you
would either be an "adoption specialist" caseworker
like the one I grilled, or you might be an invisible internal
supervisor (Apparently).

In the last 6 months I have basically rediscovered the
true meaning of certain bits of caselaw that every
Family Rights group lists in their caselaw.

US Santosky v Kramer and the burden of proof.

Typically a state's law says "Preponderance" 51%
but the Constitution, US Santosky v. Kramer and
various caselaw that descends from it says that
Juvenile court (every hearing) involves a LIBERTY
INTEREST more compelling than mere prison.
This liberty interest is referred to as "sacred".

And the "Clear and Convincing" 80% standard for
burden of proof is called for in every and ANY
hearing in Juvenile Court. Every quarterly review,
etc.

But basically NONE of the attorneys going in
to Juvenile Court ever file motions or caselaw
to demand this higher standard for any of their
clients.

The BAR, the courts and the legislators are
all partly responsible for this violation of
clearly defined Constitutional Rights.

States typically have exceptions to the
rules of evidence for Juvenile Court also.
Pondering the ongoing ripoff of the burden
of proof, I am certainly questioning the
constitutionality of these rules of evidence.
The hearsay exception appears to be unconstitutional.
There is even caselaw that precludes hearsay
in any legal process, including Juvenile Court.

It seems that the state legislation lowered
the standards BELOW what is constitutionally
required in an effort to make it easy for caseworkers
to "make cases" without proving their case
to the required higher standards.

Where you are there in CA, do they use
Preponderance 51% for the burden of proof,
or have they upgraded to "Clear and Convincing"
80% for the burden of proof?

Have you heard of any family filing in court
to get the higher standards?

How about the rules of evidence hearsay exception?

What is the typical % of cases that stipulate
rather than go to an actual adjudication hearing?

Are there statistics on that publicly available?


GamerXY Sat Sep 22, 2007 6:22 am

Wow, it has been nine months already. Sorry for the late reply.
Here's a little update...

I finished my MSW and got hired by the county (in California). I started working as an official CPS SW two months ago. However, I've been there for a year (including my internship).


Greegor:
Typically, the SW makes the decision on a referral after staffing with his supervisor. However, the supervisor may ask the SW to do more for the family or change the conclusion if she feels necessary based on the findings.
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According to national data from the Child Welfare League of America, investigative caseworkers' qualifications fall into the following categories:

No degree: 5 percent
Bachelor's degree, any field: 26 percent
Bachelor's degree, related field: 45 percent
Bachelor of Social Work: 14 percent
Master of Social Work: 2 percent
Other: 7 percent

http://ndas.cwla.org/

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katgotsteve Posted: Sat Sep 22, 2007 8:05 am

i have had many experiences in the past year with social workers. as a whole you are probably right. i found that a seasoned social worker is more likely to just cough up things to bad judgement and fresh out of school one has a view they need to change the world and a text book view of raising children. i personally think that social workers need to have some experience with children, they need to be aware of behaviors associated with certain disorders, ie bipolar, schzophrenia, rad, adhd, ect., not just the base behaviors but the mania associated with alot of them, they also need to read the case files of the family they are visiting if they have one. i had a caseworker assigned to me last november, fresh out of school, her first job, we butted heads from the beginning. she came out to my home the monday before thanksgiving, her first day without reading my file. i had been in this situation for almost 3 months and she wanted me to rehash it, after she tells me that my husband who had not seen his daughter in 3 months could not spend thanksgiving with us. she then asks me if i thought my niece had seduced my husband, i could have slapped her out of the chair. then i find out that at this time, none of the allegations had been substaniated. me and her did not get along, at all. after her, i got a caseworker with 18 years under her belt, she setup visits after hours so my husband could our daughter, she kept trying to get us in court for a review, but the attorney would not take us, she kept trying to get the case closed, but kept being told, if it happened we have to stay involved. my services that were offered were counseling, not for sexual abuse or sexual offender, but for the trauma my family was going through because of the court intervention. we had a total of 4 session in a year, the court order lapse, they just closed the case. they kept blaming the judge for the prolonging of the case, stating, they would not have even intervened if the judge had not ordered it, but by law they always had the option to close the case and could have handled it differently. i lost custody of my child for 36 days, it was awful not just for me as an adult, but for child to have to be removed at the age of 11 for something that we all knew were lies, not for evidence, but for lies, because they have "err on the side of the child" a child who has accused so 3 men and 4 boys of sex with her, yet there was no physical evidence at all and no one else was ever put through this and there was not one consistant story she told. when is it going to be "err on the side of the family", when will common sense take presidence over covering asses.

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Greegor wrote:
Some of the people who did the worst things in our
case are ones that have been there awhile and
seem to feel a need to defent their garbage excuses
for ""authority"" over us. One seasoned caseworker
is so hostile she testified in court that I had sent her
an e-mail threatening that if she showed up at my door
I was going to "roll her up in a rug". Yet she never
mentioned this ""threat"" in any quarterly review paperwork,
never filed a POLICE report, and could not produce
the e-mail. Even the Judge who is a complete stooge
for anything the agency wants was rolling his eyes
when he heard this testimony.

This malicious garbage was from a SEASONED caseworker!

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Postby GamerXY » Sat Sep 22, 2007 4:17 pm

Greegor wrote:GamerXY: I am still confused because you keep referring to
CPS SW when the correct term is caseworker.
Firstly, most CPS caseworkers are NOT SW's.
Most contract SW's here in Iowa are not even licensed SW's.

I did run across one MSW working for the state agency,
and that encounter (cross exam) was a disaster for
both him and the agency.

In the same hearing I also cross examined three
caseworkers and none of them have a SW license
but one was a BSW. The one who committed the
initial perjury had actually had a SW license and per
typical SOP and to avoid accountability let it lapse.

Has California begun to require that caseworkers must
have SW licenses? If you were a caseworker here you
would either be an "adoption specialist" caseworker
like the one I grilled, or you might be an invisible internal
supervisor (Apparently).

In the last 6 months I have basically rediscovered the
true meaning of certain bits of caselaw that every
Family Rights group lists in their caselaw.

US Santosky v Kramer and the burden of proof.

Typically a state's law says "Preponderance" 51%
but the Constitution, US Santosky v. Kramer and
various caselaw that descends from it says that
Juvenile court (every hearing) involves a LIBERTY
INTEREST more compelling than mere prison.
This liberty interest is referred to as "sacred".

And the "Clear and Convincing" 80% standard for
burden of proof is called for in every and ANY
hearing in Juvenile Court. Every quarterly review,
etc.

But basically NONE of the attorneys going in
to Juvenile Court ever file motions or caselaw
to demand this higher standard for any of their
clients.

The BAR, the courts and the legislators are
all partly responsible for this violation of
clearly defined Constitutional Rights.

States typically have exceptions to the
rules of evidence for Juvenile Court also.
Pondering the ongoing ripoff of the burden
of proof, I am certainly questioning the
constitutionality of these rules of evidence.
The hearsay exception appears to be unconstitutional.
There is even caselaw that precludes hearsay
in any legal process, including Juvenile Court.

It seems that the state legislation lowered
the standards BELOW what is constitutionally
required in an effort to make it easy for caseworkers
to "make cases" without proving their case
to the required higher standards.

Where you are there in CA, do they use
Preponderance 51% for the burden of proof,
or have they upgraded to "Clear and Convincing"
80% for the burden of proof?

Have you heard of any family filing in court
to get the higher standards?

How about the rules of evidence hearsay exception?

What is the typical % of cases that stipulate
rather than go to an actual adjudication hearing?

Are there statistics on that publicly available?
...
Greegor wrote:
Some of the people who did the worst things in our
case are ones that have been there awhile and
seem to feel a need to defent their garbage excuses
for ""authority"" over us. One seasoned caseworker
is so hostile she testified in court that I had sent her
an e-mail threatening that if she showed up at my door
I was going to "roll her up in a rug". Yet she never
mentioned this ""threat"" in any quarterly review paperwork,
never filed a POLICE report, and could not produce
the e-mail. Even the Judge who is a complete stooge
for anything the agency wants was rolling his eyes
when he heard this testimony.

This malicious garbage was from a SEASONED caseworker!


Greegor:

I apologize for confusing you by using the term CPS SW. I am not sure the requirements Iowa has for its CPS workers. This are the information for my position:
==================
(Taken from the job description on the application)
Job Title: Human Services Social Worker Master Degree

Employment Standards:
Either:
1. Graduation from an accredited college or university with a Master’s Degree in Social Work.
Or:
2. Graduation from an accredited college or university with a Master’s Degree in a program that meets the education requirements for a Marriage and Family Therapist license issued by the California Department of Consumer Affairs Board of Behavioral Science Examiners.
Or:
3. Current enrollment in the final semester of a master’s program at an accredited college or university leading to a masters degree in social work or a related masters degree that meets the education requirements for a Marriage and Family Therapist license issued by the California Department of Consumer Affairs Board of Behavioral Science Examiners. NOTE: Failure to submit proof of completion of masters degree within six months of appointment may be cause for release from probation in accordance with Civil Service Commission rules.
=====================
At my office (aka bureau), the majority of the workers have their MSW degree. Few workers have MFT degree while two others are working on their MSW. We had a few BSWs who filled these MSW positions temporarily. Now, we are filling these open position with MSWs.

As ER SW, we don't work on cases. We work on referrals. These referrals generally stay with us for a week and up to two months--depending on the nature of each referral.
Personally, I see myself and the majority of my colleagues as SWs. I like to believe the bad apples among us are gone. In my experience in working with them (a year), they are good SWs.

I know CPS has some bad publicity but things are getting better--at least I think so. For example, we are enlisting many community partners to work with families to keep parents and children from entering the system. In our investigations, we try to link families with Differential Response, Community Service Specialists, and various agencies in the community. Taking children in custody is our last option. Before we make that decision, we are required to staff with our supervisor and the program manager first.

In our investigations, we base our findings on interviews with family members, our observations, testimonies from collateral that include professionals, history, and other means.
IF we do substantiate the allegations on a specific referral and make it into a case, the social worker in Court Services would then conduct an investigation on his/her own.
Unfortunately I do not have any statistics to give you. And I prefer not to tell you which county I work in--I like my confidentiality as much as I protect those of the families I have worked with.
According to national data from the Child Welfare League of America, investigative caseworkers' qualifications fall into the following categories:



No degree: 5 percent

Bachelor's degree, any field: 26 percent

Bachelor's degree, related field: 45 percent

Bachelor of Social Work: 14 percent

Master of Social Work: 2 percent

Other: 7 percent



http://ndas.cwla.org/

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Postby Greegor » Fri Sep 28, 2007 1:19 am

Are you saying that California actually now requires caseworkers
to be MSW level?

Don't they still have thousands of caseworkers who
have Bachelors in ""related fields""?

Is this the aftermath of some huge payouts on
a lot of law suits or what?

Is this something the Governator did?

It definately is NOT the way things work in Iowa.

Some statistics s few years ago showed that
of CPS caseworkers there was some very tiny
percentage NATIONALLY who even have BSW licenses.

The CW here who made up a ""sex abuse history""
on me to (make a case) was licensed but did
as I explained to you, let it lapse as he became a
CPS caseworker. I called the board of SW.

MSW's here are either specialists
(like the adoption specialist)
or on a supervision track.

A few years ago when NASW had an open public forum, I
interacted with their online group and I was
amazed that they had a MISTAKEN idea that
caseworkers were licensed SW's nationwide.

I tried the reasoning that THEY should push
for caseworkers or contractors without licenses
to STOP calling themselves SW.
I suggested requiring caseworkers to be true
licensed SW's, not people allowed to RIP OFF
the professional title and hide behind immunity.
I asked that they be required to be licensed
SW's because that was diluting the value and
meaning of the term "Social Worker".

I suggested that the licensed SW's should
reclaim the term "Social Worker" for ONLY licensed
Social Workers. Does California really require
that ALL CPS caseworkers must be MSW's?

ALL?

What about those legal standards I asked about?
You need to KNOW about those to do your
job don't you? The burden of proof especially.

Did you hear of this law that if a caseworker causes
a big civil rights law suit and the state pays out,
that the worker must be fired?

Are they teaching you to honestly respect the
civil rights of families you investigate?

Some states have used the training for workers
to respect Constitutional Rights, the time and
funding, to teach workers how to legally BYPASS
these rights, basically, how to CON people out of
them rather than respecting those rights.

Like "I just want to come inside to talk to you."
without warning that this throws away 4th
amendment right against anything visible
or describable being written up and
used AGAINST the family.

Of my years in this, my favorite caselaw is still
US Wallis v. Escondido and US Wallis v Spencer
because they acted on a report from a relative
of the family who was a mental patient in a locked
psycho ward, and in talks with psychologist
or psychiatrist she said the family was going to
do a ritual satanic sacrifice of a child on a certain date.

The caseworkers made a case basically from
nothing else whatsoever. The kids underwent
sex abuse exams even though even the nut case
had never alleged anything sexual at all.
The mother was not allowed to hold her young
daughter's hand during a gyno exam.

The Judges ruling sounded quite angry about that.

My own family's experience echos much of that
case except the kin caretaker was not locked
up in a psych ward but was taking Prozac
intermittently. First year med school students know
that intermittent Prozac is downright dangerous.

The agency went to a LOT of trouble to avoid
addressing the PROZAC issue, and the
underlying problems behind the prescription.

My SO asserted our accuser/caretaker was
obsessive and suffering from Vascular Dementia.
We thought for SURE that since the child was
PLACED with the nut they would check her
out on request in court. Nope.

They wrote one home study that didn't even
mention the Prozac.

Forced to REDO the homestudy because of that,
they minimized the Prozac issue to the point of
being rediculous. The redo home study was used
by the mental case grandma caretaker to try to
inject accusations of violence on her by ME that
were chronologically impossible given the situation.

It's my understanding that the person who did
the redo homestudy should NOT have allowed it
to be a platform for such venomous comments.

It seemed EXTREMELY unprofessional to me.

I would hope that MSW's in the places of the
idiots we experienced would have avoided
some of our problems, but how do I know that
somebody with the MSW credential wouldn't
just be more arrogant and authoritative in
doing many of the same bad things?

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Postby firemonkey » Sun Sep 30, 2007 8:18 am

Greg, do you think CPS was more focused on your two domestic violence convictions to give the grandma on prozac much weight? Does grandma have a violent criminal history?

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Postby Greegor » Tue Oct 02, 2007 8:01 pm

Firemonkey Posted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 10:18 pm
> Greg, do you think CPS was more focused
> on your two domestic violence convictions
> to give the grandma on prozac much weight?

I think I already answered you in the public newsgroups
where you posted my phone number, address,
birth date and SO's name, and where you solicited
people to "call [me] up" or stop by and ""visit me"".

After you posted all of the scatological comments
in public you thought you'd try this type of
harassment in FightCPS.com?

What makes you think my OLD misdemeanor
domestics would have been a priority over the
8 year Prozac patient who was the primary
accuser and kinship caretaker for the child?

For quite some time after she descended into
a vegetative state, they still listed her as the
primary caretaker!

> Does grandma have a violent criminal history?

I doubt DHS looked.

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Postby katgotsteve » Wed Oct 03, 2007 4:31 am

I have to say this. Domestic violence is a crime and should be punished, but i have found that most dv calls are made by a person seeking some sort of revenge. my husband's x was able to do this him. i find that in our area all it takes is an allegation and $15 for a warrant. you are arrested and then have to defend yourself. my main problem with this is the fact that alot of women are aggressors and when the man even defends himself, he is automatically arrested. my other problem is the fact that arrests, not convictions are used against someone for cps purposes. i will use my husband's x for example, she had him arrested for simple battery and me arrested for trespassing. the incident went like this, he came by to pick his kids up, i was with him, we were in the parking lot of her apartment complex. she was angry at us, for what not sure, she came out and was trying to fight me, she climbed in the truck and tried to hit me. i put truck in park was coming after her, my hub pulled her off me and we left. i never left the vehicle. next week, we are both arrested. him for touching her and me for trespassing. now, 14 years later, cps began using this incident against us, though no charges were ever enforced or convicted. i thought in this country you were innocent until proven guilty, but in there eyes, you cant be that way. she also had my hub, who had filed for divorce, arrested prior to this for adultery. yes it is a crime on the books in georgia and it has a $250 cash bond. they even brought that up. i asked them, what that had to do with the price of eggs in china? there response was it shows a pattern for disregard of the law....HUH? i then asked him, so the fact that she was committed around this time for chasing me down with a gun and threatening to kill me has no effect on situation. i guess her mental state had nothing to do with the situation..
my point is, a man goes through a messy divorce, he wants to see his children, the spouse is vengeful and controlling, she can say or do anything she wants. this is also vice versa, men are just as vengeful. if i leave my SO because of abuse, he gets mad, next thing i know i am fighting cps for my kids, why becuase he said this happened. i know a woman who is going through this right now. it is just sick and sad. AGAIN I ASK, WHEN DOES COMMON SENSE OUTWIEGH AGENCY INCOMPITENCE? WHEN DO THEY STOP COVERING ASSES TO ACTUALLY HELPING FAMILIES?

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Postby Gary Shaw » Wed Oct 03, 2007 6:18 am

Kat, when we the people finally stand up and say enough, and cause the doors of their offices to be closed and locked.
The two enemies of the people are criminals and the government, so let us tie the second down with the Constitution so the second will not become a legalized version of the first.
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Postby firemonkey » Wed Oct 03, 2007 6:33 am

If what you are saying about the grandmother being in a vegetative state and still being considered the primary caretaker is true, you should be able to have it looked into.
What is your coarse on this gregg? Any recent success?


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