constipation and separation anxiety
Posted: Thu Nov 13, 2014 1:58 pm
i need help, i have posted on this site before and you guys really helped me. this time its a little more serious. my son is seven years old and i also have a daughter who is almost five. my son loves school and is ahead of his grade level. he has alot of friends and is doing great. i am so proud of him. about a year ago my father in law passed away and it had a huge effect on our family. we live two blocks away from my in laws and we are all very close. after my father in laws death my son regressed and his separation anxiety got worse which i think is to be expected. he didnt understand what was going on all he really knew was yesterday his papa was here and today hes not. my son has also had constipation issues his whole life and has a fear of sitting down on the toilet. this year he started messing his pants at school and the school would call me and i would bring him clean clothes and change him and leave. will he figured out that if he said he needed to go to the office they would call me and i would come up there. so he started doing it on purpose or even lying and saying he needed changed when he didnt. the school secretary called social services on me and a nurse contacted me and asked to meet with me to help us get help for my son. that meeting went great and actually helped us alot. well the stupid school secretary must of thought we werent doing things fast enough so she called on me again. the social worker went to the school and spoke to my son without my concent and he brought me a business card and said she wanted me to call her. so i called her. she said she needs to meet with me my husband and my daughter, she said she will refer me to a doctor and wants me to sign a waver so she can speak to the doctor about his progress. i dont like the sound of that. we have to meet with her on tuesday. what do i expect? should i get a lawyer? please tell me what i need to do ???thank you im desperate