Please please help CP's is trying to take my very sick baby

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Mcd23
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Please please help CP's is trying to take my very sick baby

Postby Mcd23 » Thu Dec 29, 2016 1:12 am

Months ago a landlord filed a false report about me and my baby daddy in n attempt to get around evicting us...it was a ridiculous complaint , half of it was about how the parents lied about rent, and our apartment was deplorable...the caseworker came and she could clearly see right away that it was false...but she continued to investigate us for almost three months anyways..my son was diagnosed with a very serious disease about two months into this...the sw called my sons specialist and told them we were being investigated and asked about his condition...but this happened long after the complaint from landlord and had NOTHING to do with it...can she do that? Anyhow, she finally closed the case saying it was false....months ago my sons father relapsed on opiates...I told him he could not come home or see our son under the influence and he never did...our son is constantly in the hospital he requires constant care..after a ten day admission for our son at the hospital several weeks ago his dad came from work to help get our sons things packed up and carried home...after we got home he said goodbye and left ( he had been doing well for several weeks he was engaging in our sons care, giving our son shots in front of the drs and nurses and they all said how helpful he was) a few minutes later a neighbor knocked and said he was passed out on the stairs that lead out of the building...he had relapsed and overdosed.. I called 911 and he ended up being arrested later and is still in jail...now CSB is filing a dependency claim for this....but I never once allowed him to be around our son messed up, and HE never tried to be either...he got help, he was seeing a counselor and going to group therapy... I'm not happy with him but, we are both heartbroken and devastated by what our baby is going through and I know that's why he did it....but he is a great dad and he understood he had to keep his distance til he got his shit together...but the judge just ruled they had just cause to investigate ( I have a public defender but she seems quite good) my lawyer was very shocked....please antly advice would be appreciated... They have a no contact order on my son and his dad which is just monstrous...our son is fighting for his life and he adores his dad...this has had such a negative impact on his health and behavior already...please please help...I am a great mom my son has 3 appts a week that I have to bus to get to he takes six different meds including shots in his belly and I do everything by myself...and now this on top of everything else...its just so fucking wrong

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Re: Please please help CP's is trying to take my very sick baby

Postby KDus » Thu Dec 29, 2016 10:10 am

Once a flag goes up, they will watch you and keep coming back.
I've never met anyone that only had one investigation.

Maybe, get supervised visits for the father and show that it is detrimental to the child to lose contact with a parent.

However, it may be strategically valuable to have the father back away and pretend you don't want him around. Your goal is to end the case.

Be ready to move across a state line. Don't tell anyone about it. Changing counties won't help. You need find a new place to live with less oppressive CPS where you can start over.

I'm not an attorney and this is not legal advice.


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