THE GOOD AND BAD OF GUARDIANSHIP

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Dazeemay
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THE GOOD AND BAD OF GUARDIANSHIP

Postby Dazeemay » Tue May 23, 2006 8:36 pm

What worked for our family and other families who have posted on this site may not work for you.

Our story. This means our daughter, granddaughter and us, the grandparents.

Our granddaughter has been ill all of her young life. It is suspected that she has a rare disease known as Carcinoid Syndrome caused by Carcinoid Cancer. This is not treatable by the usual methods of curing cancer. The tumor or tumors must be removed surgically, but must be found first. They are hard to find. Dave Thomas of Wendy's died of this cancer only because it had been unrecognizeable until the very end of his life.

We have a daughter who has this Cancer and is being treated because she has good insurance and a local dr. who recognizes this disease. The local dr. spoke to our daughter's Carcinoid Specialist and the two agreed on what protocol to take in treating her. Her medicine for one year is $10,000.00. That medication is called Sandostatin.

Now our granddaughter by another daughter is on Medicaid. We all know what that means in being able to get proper treatment especially for a rare disease. Medicaid chased our granddaughter from one dr. to another and none knowing anything about this disease. This wild goose chase finally took a toll on our daughter and granddaughter.

At age 11 3/4 our granddaughter was admitted to a Theraputic foster home for respite care. This was recommended because our granddaughter need to come off of some medications for testing at the National Institute of Health (NIH). They saw something in all of her medical records that was sent to them by a very dear Dr. friend of my daughters who works for NIH.

At long last Medicaid would not be involved and the horizon looked good for our granddaughter and daughter. This great news was short lived by the house arrest (from my perspective this is what it was) of our granddaughter at the home of the foster parent by cps.

We were locked into their clutches. Once we found out what had happened my daughter called an uncle on our granddaughter's father's side. This proved to be a fatal mistake on our part, but my daughter trusted him not knowing that he had once worked for cps in his state. Also an aunt, sister to the uncle, also worked for them.

He directed her and told her his lawyer told him what to do to protect our other two grandchildren and that was to do a temporary guardianship. He took our oldest granddaughter, his niece, to live with him. He could not take our grandson as he was not our grandson's uncle. Our oldest daughter took him. Each child went to a different state under the protection of a notarized guardianship.

Note CPS (this is the term I will use because there are so many names under the umbrella of this agency) can get a court order in some states to make the guardians relinquish your child. You must know what the laws in your state are using for this form of protection.
The state was pursuing our other two grandchildren. Although they claim they were not pursuing our other two grandchildren. Then why ask where they are? Why did the supervisor demand that the relative fax her the notarized copy and when she received it she said, “Well, there is nothing we can do about it now.

Thus by the use of this notarized temp guardianship or POA(Power of Attorney)we were able to protect the other two grandchildren to a certain point.

Our grandson was safe, but little did we know of what the uncle and aunt were trying to pull off with the help of cps. They began working with cps to take guardianship of our oldest granddaughter.

I will not go into detail here, but caution you to be careful of who you entrust your child/ren too.

My daughter and husband had to make a quick dash through several states to get our granddaughter once we realzied what they were up to. They even had our granddaughter totally convinced that mom could not take care of her and they needed to. They lied to her and she did not know they were trying to take full guardianship of her. She felt divided between both families.

We went to court in the other state. The judge gave us back our granddaughter. We had proved that it was only for a few months and our daughter did the revocation before she left and the judge honored our POA and revocation. Our lawyer up there told the lawyer of the uncle and aunt that this bordered on kidnapping if in fact it wasn't just that.

So that is the short of it.

Will your judge side with you or against you when you do a temp guardianship? No one knows that for sure.

But, it is the best alternative we have for now and you have everything to gain by doing it.
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This is not legal advice;hopefully wisdom

To put it in simple terms…when the authorities ARE the perpetrators and the perpetrators ARE the authorities, there is no earthly justice or recourse, at the end of the day (unless the American people wake up).

Therefore, those who have achieved the highest levels of power seek to ‘enjoy’ the most grievous and extreme injustices. For many of those in the highest circles of power, the greatest statement of power is to perpetrate the greatest possible injustice…the savage, brutal traumatization and abuse of an innocent child.
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"Ultimately, the law is only as good as the judge" --- D.X. Yue, 2005, in "law, reason and judicial fraud"
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crobinson76
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Re: THE GOOD AND BAD OF GUARDIANSHIP

Postby crobinson76 » Sun Mar 25, 2012 9:51 am

Amen to that! Thank god you got your grandchildren back. My son is also in temporary guardianship and I really hope things go as well for me because the temporary guardian is my sister and just within the last few weeks she has started trying to talk me into letting her keep him. We got into a fight over it and she became so overly emotional when I told her the permanent answer would always be "No" that she hasn't talked to me since. And my mother is on her side!! I really have to hurry up and do whatever it takes to get my son back as quickly as possible!! But, it's hard when you're up against a wall with a two-faced lying social worker who is never on your side!! I'm working on it right now to get rid of her or at least get a new SW. I've been talking to her boss pretty much daily for the past two weeks!! When it comes to my son, I will do whatever I have to do to make sure he gets the high quality of care and loving he was used to with me! That is why he belongs at home with me. No one could ever fill my shoes when it comes to caring for him! BTW: My sister is not following at least 20 of the Foster Care rules including physically punishing my child. Which we also had an argument about in which I was told was none of my business since they were his current guardians. So, I typed up the list of the 20 rules not being followed and emailed to the Supervisor of the Foster Care Services and the Head of the Human Services Department.
Chels from WI

jane50.
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Re: THE GOOD AND BAD OF GUARDIANSHIP

Postby jane50. » Tue Mar 27, 2012 7:56 am

wow! well you find out who your real family is in this situation. I am sorry your family betrayed your trust.


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